A good number of escorts are willing to offer up roleplaying and similar services for customers who enjoy a bit of variety. After all, sometimes just banging a really hot chick isn’t enough, especially if you can get her to act like she’s a cop, a nun, a teacher or the female cast of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.  It doesn’t matter how many years the show’s been off the air, they’re all still fantastic.

Roleplaying may not be everyone’s cup of tea though, and immersive fantasy like that requires a psychological investment from both you and your provider.  If that’s not your personality type, some girls also offer up a different kind of experience, one that you see more and more often these days; GFE and PSE.

The Girlfriend Experience ideally shouldn’t be difficult for any provider to master. Acting like your clients girlfriend just adds a new layer of intimacy and closeness that may not be traditionally associated with someone paying for sex. If she’s ever been anyone’s girlfriend before or has some understanding of human emotion, she should be able to master this one pretty well.

The PSE, porn star experience, is a whole new ballgame. Every provider has probably been a girlfriend before, but not everyone has been a porn star. To focus this service down requires some tact, focus and, above all, research. What kind of research? Porn research, of course.

Much has been said in the modern world of porn’s influence on our culture. It’s been blamed (often wrongly) for ending marriages and a rise in sexual crimes. It’s also been linked, however, to less insidious but more curious habits. Statistics have shown that, as the prevalence of porn grows, so too does behavior that emulates porn. More women nowadays shave off their pubic hair than ever in the past, and the link is to what they have seen on film and what men who have seen porn expect of them. Likewise, it’s been speculated that the increasing popularity of traditionally more taboo sex acts such as oral (especially ending in facials which are pretty much staples of porn) are directly linked to the popularity of porn.

Not everyone who studies the links between porn and its effect on society feel that it’s a bad thing, and many sex educators feel watching porn with a partner can help stimulate a relationship and offer up exciting new ideas to keep yourselves interested. But for those of us who don’t have a partner, or not one willing to go all out gangbang orgy style, what’s the option? PSE.

Most providers link things like BBBJCIM and Greek under the catchall of PSE services, things traditionally found all across the internet and in video that maybe your highschool sweetheart wasn’t all about doing (at least not on the first date). This also comes with a more aggressive attitude, as a porn star is generally someone who wants to fuck and wants to fuck now. You could argue an escort should have that same voracious desire, but she’s not often playing it up for a camera, using her body language, words and expressions to convey just how nasty she really is. So when she does offer the PSE she should be offering all of that. It’s not just the services, it’s her whole demeanor.

Obviously every provider is going to have a different approach, but the fact is a PSE is going to cost you more than straight sex. If you’ve never banged a porn star before, you may not be sure what you should be getting. Sure, you’ve seen porn, but what does that mean? For all you know the only porn she ever saw was the Paris Hilton sex tape so her PSE is going to involve taking 3 Valium and boring the shit out of you.

If you’re going for the PSE deal, you really want to make sure she pulls out all the stops. Whatever your porn expectations, you’ll need to get that clarified. If you want the facial, the anal, dirty talk so filthy it’d make truckers blush, you go for it. if it’s a true PSE, you’ll definitely be wanting to go back for more, otherwise you’re paying too much for something that just ain’t right.