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you know i have been doing my homework and reading alot of reviews here on certain providers. I think that it may be in my best interest to do this cause it seems as the "eperience" is waaaay better than going to an MP. Now dont get me wrong MP's are good and all. But after reading bout a few providers here it seems you really get your moneys worth. There are a couple of providers that are a lil expensive in my opinion (like $5-600) but there are other girls that offer the same exact services for half that price. What do you guys think? And hungwell if you read this. I read a review about "Mimi" (the asian girl) you got to get back to me on that one bro cause my wheels and the boys are going crazy reading those reviews. Im actually considering her.
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Being able to use a bed vs a massage table has it's own advantages, regardless of the quality of service. Providers have no one to answer to (usually) and can be more flexable with the rules, and time.
Although, massage parlors are outwardly legal, and can have high volume of traffic without concern from nosey neighbors or others. Whereas providers, regardless of whether they advertise as an escort or a massage therapist, in most states (like where I live,AZ) can not legally run a business from inside there own home, without a proper business liscense to do so, which is hard to get under those pretenses.
So In my opinion, independent providers can offer better service, with a more comfortable setting, private, in a bed, and can decide for themselves if they want to forget the half hour is up, or not. But Massage parlors are not going to be a set up, now they get closed down from time to time, but they can operate much longer unnoticed then any provider trying to move the same volume (unless she is doing outcall).
So it depends on where your priorities lie, and how the benefits compare to the risks for each person.
Working as an independent escort allows me to be flexible with my clients. Personally I give massages in bed and my clients love it because of the privacy and intimate setting and its not a rush job.
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Massage parlors have a great amount of traffic, and meet many clients a day. A Provider can get to know her clients so much better, and I know from my own personal experience that regulars get special treatment, and sometimes are offered unadvertised specials. This type of familiarity is not as common between a client and a woman working out of a busy massage parlor. It is an advantage for you, if the woman you see can remember you and what you like and don't like, so she can provide you with the most customized services possibly. Another thing to keep in mind is I have rarely heard of a provider's home being raided, but have heard of that happening at many parlors, especially recently.
Well my whole thing that i was caught up on was the time. cause always at a MP its always a rushed feeling and i if the session is going good i figure that she wouldnt mind going over the time just a lil bit. And it does seem like sessions are better using a provider rather than a MP. Chocolate honey as a provider are u strict on ur times like a hour is a hour or do u give a lil extra on the back end?
The idea of extending time is a challenging issue. When we first started, once the session began, we stopped looking at the clock until our session came to a logical end, but then we only offered a 3-4 hour dinner date session, an over night and a weekend - so logical endings were pretty obvious.
However, we are always trying to better connect and serve our market. We added a 2 hour session and a 90 minute session.
While we don't watch the clock, we do feel its important to preserve the value of the session. If someone were to always book 90 minutes, but consistently get 2 hours, then the real value of 2 hours would be the price of 90 minutes.
We avoid discounts, specials and other gimmicks that mght tend to decrease the value we place on our time.
However, every client enjoys a full 90 minutes, (plus 5-10) as you wont catch us glaring at a clock. So far, this seems to work more often to our advantage since many clients rarely use the full session.
I think "clock watching" needs to be a two-way street of common courtesy and consideration. Gentlemen, you are also responsible for NOT overstaying your welcome (or trying to extend your session into overtime) without first asking, and second, compensating the lady for her time. fair is fair.
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I think "clock watching" needs to be a two-way street of common courtesy and consideration. Gentlemen, you are also responsible for NOT overstaying your welcome (or trying to extend your session into overtime) without first asking, and second, compensating the lady for her time. fair is fair.
very true.
I think "clock watching" needs to be a two-way street of common courtesy and consideration. Gentlemen, you are also responsible for NOT overstaying your welcome (or trying to extend your session into overtime) without first asking, and second, compensating the lady for her time. fair is fair.
very true.
Im asking cause i am a stickler for time (trust me). Especially when it comes to this. But I am asking for knowledge being fairly new to the game. I have only been in MP's and sessions ALWAYS feel rushed. I hate that. But what im really trying to ask is if she is not worried about it should i be? is it polite to ask hey have u noticed the time or what?
you should be concientious of the time, in fact, your contientiousness of it will make her more relaxed and less of a clock watcher.
Guys, heres a tip:
You are MORE likely to get an extended session if YOU watch the time and plan to exit more than 5 minutes early - assuming you plan to see the provider again. Leaving a noticable time early will make most provider feel they "owe" you some time.
If you seem to bear no responsibility for leaving "on time" then, expect the provider to become more "observant" of time constraints during future sessions.
BTW, some of our questions to references is "did the gent arrive on time?" "Did he overstay his welcome?"
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some of my questions to my fellow hobbiests are, did she watch the clock, did she bail before the hour was over? if yes its time to make a new addition to the old dnc list.
Hey bboy,
I started out going to massage parlors before I "upgraded" to providers. Overall, Providers are waaaay better. I suggest that you try to find a really good massage provider, someone who is listed as "professional" in the massage category.
Parlors are too much like an assembly line sometimes. You are going to love the personal attention you get from a provider.
tip: if you are ever in the area, check her out...you will never go back to parlors...
an indy can give you as much time as she wants
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tip: if you are ever in the area, check her out...you will never go back to parlors...
U know it is funny that u send this link cause i been VERY curious about this one I guess that its a sign that i should give her a try. Is it really that good?
an indy can give you as much time as she wants
True, but it probably isn't something that they want disclosed in a review...makes every guy who sees her think he's going to get more time than he paid for.
Be respectful of the providers time...There's a big difference between rushing and only providing the time agreed upon.
Bboy
I started at massage parlors when i got on this site i contacted the guy with the most reviews and points and got some great advise on who to see how to handle myself and anwsered questions for me one being a provider doing a l.e. check i did not no what this was. but look at reviews and see who they like they will say if provider pushed me right out when done.
but then again what are you looking for paying for an hour and get multibles you have to see if she does this dont just assume because you paid one price for an hour you can do what ever you want as many times as you want.
i pay for the hour even if we did not use the whole time because i want her to know i dont want to be rushed.
Bboy
I started at massage parlors when i got on this site i contacted the guy with the most reviews and points and got some great advise on who to see how to handle myself and anwsered questions for me one being a provider doing a l.e. check i did not no what this was. but look at reviews and see who they like they will say if provider pushed me right out when done.
but then again what are you looking for paying for an hour and get multibles you have to see if she does this dont just assume because you paid one price for an hour you can do what ever you want as many times as you want.
i pay for the hour even if we did not use the whole time because i want her to know i dont want to be rushed.
Good advice. The hobby is not a place to be nickling and diming and you'll actually save a lot of money in the long run and will have better experiences if you take this advice to heart.
Good advice. The hobby is not a place to be nickling and diming and you'll actually save a lot of money in the long run and will have better experiences if you take this advice to heart.
trust me i dont nickle and dime except for once! that was a rookie mistake lol. but at least i went back and made amends for it.
tip: if you are ever in the area, check her out...you will never go back to parlors...
U know it is funny that u send this link cause i been VERY curious about this one I guess that its a sign that i should give her a try. Is it really that good?
She's very pretty...you know the rest.
MP are good for a yank yank. Sometimes a slurp spit. But I found that just calling a chick from BP or CL that has a few reviews does the job great. Not need to worry that much about numbers and ratings this and that, just that you get what you want out of what you give is the entire point.