Ok I am going to answer your poll lol

1) Yes, I do enjoy being a provider. I have met a lot of wonderful people that I wouldn't have had the chance to meet otherwise.

2)No, I live a double life lol. That is one of the downfalls of being a provider is there is no one to talk to about your day.

3)Yes, that has only happened to me once thank goodness lol and thats all i want to say about that

Awww Beth, come to Atl - you can talk to me

Yes no, but they probably wouldn't care if found out & yes but I don't waste their time by letting them book and get all the way to me just to hear no.

Do you enjoy being a provider? Yes i do enjoy it .. i have met some wonderful guys and ladies since 2002 ..

* Do friends and family know what you do? younger son found out afew yrs ago, but we dont discuss it.. the older 2 dont know and i prefer to keep it that way.. it would be harmful to me if anyone actually found out what i did..

* Have you ever had a client that just turned you off so bad you couldn't perform?
I had one date like that.. but since then i take the good with the bad.. its my choice now i can accept the date or not.. since i do work a FT job.. in addition to seeing dates..

SweetPeach

Firstly, I hope you don`t ask these questions before meeting or during sessions. Asking probing questions can be very uncomfortable for most providers.

so just something to think about from someone with a little more experience in these situations lol.

I agree with katrina, some providers won't be comfortable answering those questions. I'm not one of them though LOL.

1) Yes, but it's far from "easy money". I don't just lounge around in my lingerie all day waiting for the phone to ring. I put in about 8 hours a day of clerical work answering messages & screening potential clients, which I don't get paid for - I don't actually get paid until I get an appointment; and contrary to popular belief, I'm not running a revolving door (and I doubt very many ladies are, unless they're offering $60/hr). There are the types who belittle, threaten, and then there's the generalized risk involved... but there are also the gentlemen I meet who respect me & treat me as well as I treat them, and we have a great time together. THAT is what makes it all worth it for me, and that's what keeps me here. I love being able to put a smile on someone's face and knowing that I made a positive difference in their day.

2) Generally speaking, no. My family does not know and for now I'm going to keep it that way. Only two of my friends know, and one of them happens to be an escort herself (and no, I didn't meet her "in the business", we've been friends for 15+yrs). I see no reason why anyone needs to know, and I have no desire to listen to anyone pontificate about why I'm a bad person for making a decision they don't approve of.

3) Yes. While I try to find that special *spark* of chemistry with everyone I meet, there have been a couple people who slipped by my screening & it ended up that once we met in person, our personalities didn't match. If I can tell ahead of time that it's not going to be fun for me, I'll turn the gentleman away - better to turn him down first than end up putting myself & him through a negative experience.

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Same here i dont answer these questions if any pending date asks them.. we talk about other things.. to break the ice..
what goes on in my life stays in my life.. and i dont answer to anyone ..
JMO
SweetPeach

Actually I do ask these questions in my first session with a provider, question number 1 is very important to me as i don't want to be with a provider that hates her job, so far I've seen about 15 providers who all claim to like their professions.

I ask a lot of questions because I'm fascinanted by the profession. I'm sure that if I was a hot chick who liked sex i would want to be a provider.

LOL of course she isn't going to tell you that she hates her job... this is a fantasy after all!

Well, i like my job it has given me a chance to explore different type of things that i dont think i would normal get to explore otherwise as well as great men i have met along the way . yes, most of my family and friends know what i do. They are there for me always last question yes thats what lube is for . lol

Goddess Juanita
www.juanitawants2play.com

A rookie? After reading your reviews it appears as though you get your dick hard just trashing these hard working ladies reputations. Did you ever stop to think that a provider may love her job or she may not? Did you stop to think that maybe this is a provider's sole Income to put food on the table for her kids? That she may be the sole provider for her family? That the kid's father may be a loser who refuses to get up off his ass and work or may have passed away?

Not my battle, but before anyone weighs in on the merits of trashing a hard working lady, you might want to read the OP's review of her and the associated review comments. You can make up your own mind.

All you have to do is look at the rest of my reviews dear.

Sometimes I do & sometimes I don't, I like the ones with a good attitude..... I get frustrated with it when the guys do ignorant stuff or when I've had to put up with alot of games from guys texting all day...
I get run down when I deal with negativity from the guys & the threats when they don't get their way (I refuse to see them for free, or for a review, this happens)
Yes ppl know what I do, thanks to all the reviews & everyone outing me cuz ppl who aren't a part of my life all felt they should just blab my business...they ruined my custody battle (my child suffers because I became sick & lost my home & couldn't work a steady job I even got fired from a really good job over being outed & I only had 2 clients at that time & I wasn't advertising) A provider outed me after I introduced her to one of them!!!!!! A provider who black mails her clients, but they trust the slander she dishes...
Yes, there have been a couple & I did my best to get thru it, one I just gave back his money it was a personality issue, not a looks thing, that part hasn't ever bothered me, its the personality that I sometimes can't deal with...
One guy wanted gfe....so 30 minutes into the session I burst out in tears & locked myself in the bathroom 30minutes later as he knocked on the door I screamed for him to leave

now that's a true gfe.

Lucy, I don't trash anyone and I certantly didn't trash you, we didn't click, you didn't fulfill my expectations of what a session with a provider should be like. yes you have tons of good reviews so i'm not sure if I caught you at a bad time or if the other providers I've seen has set the bar too high.

My review of my session with you is honest and accurate, I didn't do it to damge or trash you, I did it so hobbyist could have another view of you, and also so you would know that some hobbyist expect a erotic, sessual experience from the minute you open the door.

BTW I have over a dozen reviews, 80% are good, 100% are honest and accurate!!!

What a rollercoaster post. Sorry to hear about your pain, but gotta admit - your ending gave me one of the best laughs I have had in a couple of days.

Careful, you are going to end up hijacking your own thread...

This will always be the problem with Hobbyists and Providers being on the same board. Someone somewhere will be upset about the subjective opinions that they don't agree with, or worse, claim are false.

I have met only a few 5 star providers, with most being more 3's with a category or two being higher, and while Tonyas review might be an aberration compared to Lucy's prior performances, I find it easier to believe that her prior reviewers just don't grade as critically or specifically as Tonyas.

JMO

I agree, however; I don't understand why Lucy33 is so upset about my review, if you read it I didn't trash her, I didn't really say anything bad about her, I gave an honest review, she just didn't do anything for me

Hello i'm Ceira101 and I enjoy what i do. It gives me pleasure and helps to support me as a suffering Real Estate Agent the Housing market sucks right now and i have met some really cool guys. and A few people that i wouldn't won't to know have found out but the same people wouldn't help me if i needed it so IT IS WHAT IT IS,LIFE ,if u'd like check me out Http://www.ceira10.escortfiles.com HAVE A WONDERFUL YEAR EVERYONE.Call me Ceira 616-570-5378

No kidding! lol. Even if you saw her ankle manacled and chained to the bed, and a scarey looking dude let you into the room, after unlocking the padlock on the door, she is still going to say how much she loves being there!!

Not that there aren't very real providers who do enjoy what they are doing, but some of the questions people ask just have you shaking your head. There are other ways to make a connection with a provider, prying into her personal life (asking about what her friends/family knows), gossiping about her clients (any clients she refused or didn't want to see), and asking that predictable "do you like your job", well there isn't really any other way to answer that one besides "yes, I do".

But if a session with a new provider gets off to a rocky start, the OP may just want to rethink his approach here. I would rather talk about anything else; I'm sure other providers would prefer the same.

1) I honestly enjoy my profession. Like most of the girls who replied I enjoy meeting people from different cultures and experiencing their different outooks (speaking onSD arrangments).
2)My family does know, by a mishap I had with mailing some paperwork, but after we had a sit-down they understood that escorting is not so bad after all.
3)I am very thorough on my screening process so situations like that do not occur. Either way, Im sure if a client made me that uncomfortable I would try my best to make him feel comfortable, because I believe that satisfaction is the best reaction (:

Good questions!!. Yes i like being a provider. Even though in my "personal life" I have certain men Im attracted to, during work hrs I try to find a common interests with every one I deal with. It makes the experience much more enjoyable. I also like my job because I feel like Im doing a good "deed" so to speak. Most are lonely, bored, or just dont have time for a real woman in their lives, so to bring joy to someone is the best regardless!!

Second, yes my family knows what I do...god for bid if something were to happen to me during business hrs. I take this business seriously and my parents know this. If I were just playing in this game it may be a different story. They support me 100 percent.

Yes I have talked to jerks, fortunately for me I havent met anyone whose treated me bad. I get texts and call from guys once in a while who wanna talk crap and waste my time. But besides that all in all has been good.!!! No LE problems either (knock on wood). THanks

Yes I enjoy being a provider. It met alot of cool people and traveled around the world. Its really awesome.

My family dont know what I do all they know is that I have a job and I can pay my own bills and not asking them for money.

There is always a guy that turns me off every now and then but I just sip on more wine and go into my own little fantasy.

Great thread!!

I understand the responses by some of the ladies that it really is not a good line of questioning.

As these moments are a fantasy for most of us - I consider it equally important for myself to act like a gentleman - to remove the potential stresses that come from being inside an intimate situation for the first time with a stranger. There are a bunch of x-factors that could happen inside these moments, keeping the atmosphere relaxed, fun, and laid back is the least I can do.

I would think if you found someone you visited on a regular basis, that developed a sort of trust with you... the questions would come across a little more innocent.

Just my 2

I love it makes me feel so special when a man chooses me tp append time with. No family not no. I'm a very horney sexy rothman setup zen ladies and always asked them a couple questions because I'm fascinated by their profession. Here's the questions.

* Do you enjoy being a provider? Yes

* Do friends and family know what you do? No

* Have you ever had a client that just turned you off so bad you couldn't perform?
No way it's such a huge turn on to have a man choose me. I get to be a total sex kitten itfew
If I was a hot female who liked sex I think I would love being a provider because what could possibly be more flattering than people paying you to be intimate with them.