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I find it hard to meet providers beca use they have a day job is that common ?

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yes, some have regular day jobs.

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Just like in any other service Industry, there are people who work part-time, and others that work full time.

Part of the appeal to this career is that in addition to all the fun meeting really nice people, the money is pretty good and the schedule can be as flexible as a provider needs / wants it to be.

We know many ladies who are full-time mothers, so they entertain only while the kids are in school.

Others use this as a means for an extra side-income, in addition to their day-job. This is similar to people working a second side job.

Further, we have noticed that many ladies who "might" be able to adjust their schedule with a couple days notice do not post their schedule or keep "office hours" even if they have other obligations.

Keep trying, and be up-front about your schedule when trying to book.

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FlirtyChristine wrote:

Just like in any other service Industry, there are people who work part-time, and others that work full time.

Part of the appeal to this career is that in addition to all the fun meeting really nice people, the money is pretty good and the schedule can be as flexible as a provider needs / wants it to be.

We know many ladies who are full-time mothers, so they entertain only while the kids are in school.

Others use this as a means for an extra side-income, in addition to their day-job. This is similar to people working a second side job.

Further, we have noticed that many ladies who "might" be able to adjust their schedule with a couple days notice do not post their schedule or keep "office hours" even if they have other obligations.

Keep trying, and be up-front about your schedule when trying to book.

Just our 4 cents

FC and or Alex always explains things so well.

Another scenario I know for fact exist is that there are some providers who have a normal civilian career, that just love being a provider on the side (I'm sure the extra cash don't hurt either)

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Hello everyone,
I'm a full time student working towards gett 2 degrees at the same time. " I hope " I also have a full time job. I will be the 1 st admitt. I am hard to get a hold of. I do not talk sharp when I am at work. So if you r serious about seen me. Its alway best to leave a message as to when I can call back. I know if you don't leave a message. I know its not a serious call. On my days off. I only have 2 classes a day. One in the morning after 9 am and per haps 1 in the evening. 2 classes no matter what and I am very (SELECTIVE). I'M a personal Trainer. So, I will never talk sharp inside the building and I am very dicrete. I have a lot on my plate. But when it comes to me time. Itz a break time 4 fun ine sun. Have a good evening, with hugs n kisses, muah !!!!!!!!!!!

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the ones with an actual job tend to show up on time rather then the ones who dont fwiw.

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moebius8 wrote:

the ones with an actual job tend to show up on time rather then the ones who dont fwiw.

Gee Moebius, you men that providing is not an actual job??? I'd like to think I am a little bit of work. Laughing out loud Phrasing aside, I agree with you and again, the reputable agencies are also pretty good about punctuality.

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ya i goto school n work .. lucky i work from home n school online. so i am flexible

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That is what I do as well. College degree on line. Regual job put side my home. Full time job. I am always on time.

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Update here.. I have been in this profession since 2002..back then it was seeing datse all the time.. now since 2010, i started working for XYZ nationally known store and my hours are flexible to see dates when i am not working.. my calendar on my site is always updated every sat.. when my days off are and when is the best time to see me.. We all arent providers 24/7 ..if the economy wasnt that bad, i would be working less hours and seeing guys more.. but its the opposite.. i work more hours and see less guys now lol

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As well as day jobs , most of us have real lives aside from providing too! I know ladies that are musicians, artists, and have talents other than the ones we show you. Smiling

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Providing is my side job, I have 3 jobs total & tons more hobbies, projects and kids.

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sweetpeach4u wrote:

Same here.. with me.. right now on break from college online classes but still working part time at my "nationally known store".. as of feb 2nd, i will be off of my pt job as i gotta get surgery done.. and will be offering french lessons.. college for me starts up in march .. and that degree will be helpful too.. i got flexible hours as well with the store job.. i am off 3 days a week now.. but i put in over 34 hours when i am working.. the extra i make as a provider? pays the rent, car insurance etc.. as i have no " partner" in my life.. Good luck with your surgery. I hope every thing goes well Smiling

Just my 2 cents worth and yes i am always on time.. too

have a good weekend everyone!!!
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I agree with a lot of the comments in here. I go to school full time and work two other part time jobs in addition to FBSM. I do it because I absolutely love it. I have no full time boyfriend in my life so I am able to take out my sensual frustrations on my callers who in turn just think I'm the best provider in "Sacramento for what I do for them. I am as the song says a "Krazy Bitch" and that seems to work for me. When booking appointments, my jobs and school are all pretty much flexible so I rarely have trouble accommodating schedules. Last minute appointments are always the hardest.

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Yes I work part-time as a Nursing assistant, and I love the dynamics between both of my professions.

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Rapunzel wrote:

As well as day jobs , most of us have real lives aside from providing too! I know ladies that are musicians, artists, and have talents other than the ones we show you. Smiling

Amen!

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Rapunzel wrote:

As well as day jobs , most of us have real lives aside from providing too! I know ladies that are musicians, artists, and have talents other than the ones we show you. Smiling

I had a normal job.I worked 12 hour shifts,three days a week and made $300 a week.The problem is men often wanted to see me those days,so I lost a lot of money.The reason we need a socially accepted job is: Need a job to get an apt.Most places want you to make 3 times more than the rent.To be able to get a car loan,we need a job.I quit my job after moving to my new apt.

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sassydream wrote:
Rapunzel wrote:

As well as day jobs , most of us have real lives aside from providing too! I know ladies that are musicians, artists, and have talents other than the ones we show you. Smiling

The reason we need a socially accepted job is: Need a job to get an apt.Most places want you to make 3 times more than the rent.To be able to get a car loan,we need a job.I quit my job after moving to my new apt.

That's an aspect I never thought of SassyDream.

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I have been on my day job for 24 yrs. Oh and I have 6 more yrs to go....and I love my 2 nd job.

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I can't speak for others but I have very professional public lyfe very subdued. This allows me to live out my naughty side., allowed me t

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perfectkitty wrote:

I can't speak for others but I have very professional public lyfe very subdued. This allows me to live out my naughty side., allowed me t

I love hearing this, as my normally life is also very public....very community active.

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Rapunzel wrote:

As well as day jobs , most of us have real lives aside from providing too! I know ladies that are musicians, artists, and have talents other than the ones we show you. Smiling

Most of the ads I have seen list call anytime or avail 24/7. Wouldn't it be better to list best days and available hours? Then there is a better change for a meeting knowing if schedules match or not.

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maybe the agency behind that 24/7 number mans the phone at all hours.

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Some ad sites, especially BP limit the # of characters an advertiser can put in her ads to 500.

Gets pretty challenging to try to reveal a little personality, rates and also put ones schedule in the ad and yet be under 500 characters.

Thus, why it is so important to go beyond the ad (especially if found in BP) with basic research, googling the phone number as "123-555-1212" and email address (also in quotes). Follow links to her website, and read any reviews that come up in results.

In our opinion, you could possibly complete research in about 5 to 10 minutes (and you may have to rinse & repeat) perhaps a dozen times to find one with whom all the info you find doesn't send up any red-flags and whos requirements are acceptable to you.

Thus, it's a good idea to do your research a few days in advance of when you'd like to have your date.

Just our 4 cents.

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FlirtyChristine wrote:

Some ad sites, especially BP limit the # of characters an advertiser can put in her ads to 500.

Gets pretty challenging to try to reveal a little personality, rates and also put ones schedule in the ad and yet be under 500 characters.

Thus, why it is so important to go beyond the ad (especially if found in BP) with basic research, googling the phone number as "123-555-1212" and email address (also in quotes). Follow links to her website, and read any reviews that come up in results.

In our opinion, you could possibly complete research in about 5 to 10 minutes (and you may have to rinse & repeat) perhaps a dozen times to find one with whom all the info you find doesn't send up any red-flags and whos requirements are acceptable to you.

Thus, it's a good idea to do your research a few days in advance of when you'd like to have your date.

Just our 4 cents.

but don't book that appt till the last minute!
or you'll make the rest of us look bad

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but don't book that appt till the last minute!
or you'll make the rest of us look bad

Yeah, like making any of you look bad is top of mind to me when it comes to seeing a lady. Puzzled

Of course I feel sorry for the fella that has to come after me, what with me setting the bar so high and wearing that poor lady out with all those O's she has had. Laughing out loud

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I'm a double major and a mom that's enough work for me lol.

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bornready wrote:

I find it hard to meet providers beca use they have a day job is that common ?

With more supply than demand,we need a full time job to pay the rent.Sometimes we go a week or two with no clients,just guys calling and playing games or no shows.During spring break I am getting calls from college or highschool boys,playing games.Men forget this is our business and time is money.

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If a provider were able to work an average of 3 days a week, and see 3 clients a day. (don't know if that is possible or if that is way to many.) At $200 an HR, thats $600 X 156 or $93600 a year tax free working 156 hours (minus getting ready).....Think about the Management companies (pimps) with 10-20 girls, taking their cut off the top, sad to me. geez.

A smart independent full time working girl should never have money problems with that earning potential. But i would venture that someone who met 9 clients a week for an extended period of time would have a hard time not looking super rough after a while.

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sassydream wrote:
bornready wrote:

I find it hard to meet providers beca use they have a day job is that common ?

Sometimes we go a week or two with no clients,just guys calling and playing games or no shows.During spring break I am getting calls from college or highschool boys,playing games.Men forget this is our business and time is money.

Well that seems to be the case here.. i have had guys browse NR site & call me in the wee hours like 230am thinking i am available and i can just go drive up to Northbrook or Schaumburg,IL? thats why i deleted my classified ad.. Time is money in my book.. esp for those who think we can drop what we are doing & just go see them... i had to explain to one guy.. i dont do this 24/7 i have a life outside of being a provider.. lol

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