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I recieve many emails, which 95% don't ever make an appt. just keep emailing back & forth always asking me to agree to some ilegal act in writing before they will call, what????
If they ask for something & it seems to b something I'm interested in I politely ask them to give me a call & we can set up an appt. or to give me a call & we can chat.
Everytime lately, the response I get is You are a WHORE so admit it, U r a rude Bitch who r u to tell me what to do I don't want to speak to u until I've gotten to kno you (btw he jus let me know glad he didn't ever call)several of them insist to email back & forth & it doesn't matter how polite I ask for them to call All of them end up saying I'm glad I didnt call u cuz u r a rude bitch....
I don't like people baiting me into agreeing to an illegal act, also someone did hack into my email, I don't know why it was done or who, was it someone's vindictive wife? I've been outted by a wife before & had to deal with drama from it, she contacted my day job even my bank, why do you think I'm posting ads for work now?...You guys r all anonymous wen u contact me so it's really unfair & you put my lively hood at risk by doing so,all because u say u want to remain discreet...well I do too.. who knows what is going to happen in your life & you have correspondence from me on your computer & my IP address to locate me.We can chat & some nice exchanges as long as you don't ever ask me to do anything illegal.
Several reasons Y I don't want to email explicitly: 1) I don't know who you are!!!!!
2) I DON'T KNOW WHO YOU ARE
3) I DON'T KNOW WHO YOU ARE
Do I need to have any other reason for you to respect my request? O, I see I've asked for respect....
Ok, so for your protection....Please do not email me asking me to do anything illegal. I realize u have created a fake email address, used google IP address scrambler, so there's no way to figure out who u r or trace back to you....so please just don't email me offering to pay me if I will do these things with you bb, bbbj,bbg, be in a porn video etc cuz I will always tell you no... Just because I have an ad it in no way means I am advertising illegal activities....but you may email saying hi, or ask a simple question about me (if u r serious about setting an appt, not just to waste my time), or tell me about you, all that is fine.
Emails like that get blocked instantly. I dont give them a second thought.
If I were to be in email with someone, usually in my first reply I ask for references. If they have issue with that, I bin them and move on. I tend to only move to phone after they have verified, and I want to hear their voice to confirm our date. I hate being on the phone though, so I try to handle as much by email as possible before talking to someone.
You know....I'm still sitting on the sidelines waiting to see if I want to jump into this game. I'm an email/text type person and I've been wondering why ladies in this business frequently post in their adds that they do not respond to emails or texts. Thanks for posting this....what you posted regarding what is happening on the other side of the game had never occurred to me. Now I understand why I need to pick up the phone and call or leave a voice message if I decided to participate.
yeah mr racer, i like text and email too. i figure it's kind of an introvert trait to like the writing. i just hate talking of the phone and have for decades. and it always seems so weird to have a short little 2 or 3 question phone call, that still ends up longer than doing it by text would have been.
i was thinking maybe a lot of ladies are extroverts so they just naturally prefer the talking.
guess i need to switch to an unlimited monthly plan on my play phone too. might be a little weird switching from text to talk while checking out at the grocery store though.
yeah mr racer, i like text and email too. i figure it's kind of an introvert trait to like the writing. i just hate talking of the phone and have for decades. and it always seems so weird to have a short little 2 or 3 question phone call, that still ends up longer than doing it by text would have been.
i was thinking maybe a lot of ladies are extroverts so they just naturally prefer the talking.
guess i need to switch to an unlimited monthly plan on my play phone too. might be a little weird switching from text to talk while checking out at the grocery store though.
get a verizon phone at walmart 20 bucks, and your anonymous from activation to tossing it when your done. you just buy the cards with value denominations on them.
no real way to trace it back to you short of cell tower triangulation.
Emails like that get blocked instantly. I dont give them a second thought.
If I were to be in email with someone, usually in my first reply I ask for references. If they have issue with that, I bin them and move on. I tend to only move to phone after they have verified, and I want to hear their voice to confirm our date. I hate being on the phone though, so I try to handle as much by email as possible before talking to someone.
Ditti babe, we're right there with you as we prefer email as much as possible and abhor the "explicit" baiting type questions, in text or on the phone. It's no way to speak to a lady.
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Phone calls verify gender. Unblocked phone #s help verify the caller isn't just competition (in the case of texting). There is really no way to replace a phone call, imo, for screening.
I dont think anyone here mentioned replacing or doing away with phone calls... Just that, at least in my experience, its better to arrange everything by email, then confirm by phone. This way the call is short and to the point. I dont like having conversations by phone, or setting up dates that way...because almost always it lends itself to questions that I do not wish to answer over the phone, or long drawn out conversations that Im really not into having.
Im sure if someone is a phone person and likes talking on the phone its different, but I prefer not to sit on the phone and only use it for confirmation.
....or long drawn out conversations that Im really not into having....I prefer not to sit on the phone and only use it for confirmation.
Worked for me.
....abhor the "explicit" baiting type questions, in text or on the phone. It's no way to speak to a lady.
I had no idea you felt that way about explicit correspondence. Good thing I deleted that draft I was writing - it was fraught with all sorts of lewd innuendo and anatomical impossibilities
I dont think anyone here mentioned replacing or doing away with phone calls... Just that, at least in my experience, its better to arrange everything by email, then confirm by phone. This way the call is short and to the point. I dont like having conversations by phone, or setting up dates that way...because almost always it lends itself to questions that I do not wish to answer over the phone, or long drawn out conversations that Im really not into having.
Im sure if someone is a phone person and likes talking on the phone its different, but I prefer not to sit on the phone and only use it for confirmation.
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oh lord, i think i'm falling in love.
I'm very tall...please dont hurt yourself on the way down.
oh lord, i think i'm falling in love.
I'm very tall...please dont hurt yourself on the way down.
Dang.... tall, prefers email and doesn't like to talk on the phone.....now I'm almost reduced to tears that you are sooo far away from me.....
Dang.... tall, prefers email and doesn't like to talk on the phone.....now I'm almost reduced to tears that you are sooo far away from me.....
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I dont think anyone here mentioned replacing or doing away with phone calls... Just that, at least in my experience, its better to arrange everything by email, then confirm by phone. This way the call is short and to the point. I dont like having conversations by phone, or setting up dates that way...because almost always it lends itself to questions that I do not wish to answer over the phone, or long drawn out conversations that Im really not into having.
Im sure if someone is a phone person and likes talking on the phone its different, but I prefer not to sit on the phone and only use it for confirmation.
I don't get emails from reviewed guys to know they are legit, that's why I prefer phone...with email & text there's a black & white trail confirming that I'm aggreeing to do what they have asked, & it's rare for my email people to actually show up....I like my phone calls to be under 2mins. max 5 if I'm needing a moment to get to know them, but I usually end the conversation if they want to get into details....All my emails have details in them so I just hate aggreeing to that stuff when I don't know the person.....It wouldn't bother me so much if i knew who they wer but still with them always wanting confirmation that I will do what they are asking & knowing they are having both the hobbyists/providers flip so they can get lenietcy, so I just prefer they do their homework before contacting me & then our exchanges only about the appt. time & place....
Thanks everyone for reading & taking the time to reply
I don't get emails from reviewed guys to know they are legit, that's why I prefer phone...with email & text there's a black & white trail confirming that I'm aggreeing to do what they have asked, & it's rare for my email people to actually show up....I like my phone calls to be under 2mins. max 5 if I'm needing a moment to get to know them, but I usually end the conversation if they want to get into details....All my emails have details in them so I just hate aggreeing to that stuff when I don't know the person.....It wouldn't bother me so much if i knew who they wer but still with them always wanting confirmation that I will do what they are asking & knowing they are having both the hobbyists/providers flip so they can get lenietcy, so I just prefer they do their homework before contacting me & then our exchanges only about the appt. time & place....
Thanks everyone for reading & taking the time to reply
Why do all your emails have details in them? If someone tries to get details from me, I write them off immediately and end communication. A guy with common sense and who will be a decent date isnt going to try and get a lady to divulge incriminating info no matter the medium. I dont agree to anything by email or phone or anything...email and texts can leave a trail, and calls can be recorded so no method is a safe way to agree to anything or divulge incriminating info.
I dont do last minute or same day dates with someone Ive never met before, and the majority of the guys who contact me are pre-booking, up to a month or so in advance. So email works really well for me. I dont much like doing the q&a to get all the screening info I need over the phone, plus researching email address is part of my screening process, so for me its just easier to have it all in email. But I can see how one would feel more comfortable talking to a guy to get all that info too.
Ya know... I am kind of stuck on the fact that almost all your emails are sounding the exact same.
Have you thought about the possibility that maybe it is some one harrassing you?
I have in the past had one man use more than 10 different email addresses to contact me.
Sometimes he would pose as someone else to see if I was lying about being available or not.
Anyhow-
It's just a thought that this might be someone stuck on you or just trying to wear you down. Maybe he is upset about something you have said or an appt you have had with him.....
Sometimes you can find out a little bit of info by Googling the email address.
Or [/and], you can do what I do most of the time when ask stupid questions about ellicit acts or illeagal activities....
"I am sorry, but what you are referring to is an illegal act. Assuming that I will include any sort of sexual act as part of my services would mean that I was doing something illegal. I will not engage in illegal activities. If you want to break the law, you will need to find some one else to do that with. Sorry. But I value my freedom. * Now, if you would like to see me for Companionship and or Modeling purpouses ONLY, you will need to confirm that you understand that all that I offer as part of my Services are Companionship and or modeling. But I will need a solid answer of, 'YES, I understand', in order for me to be willing to see you now."
I find that the ones who are just momentarily forgetful(little head stupidity-about 70% or more), will understand and agree. Saves you both from missing out. And the ones who are out to catch you up in something- can NOT agree to this understanding. Then if they agree and keep trying, then I cut them off 100% - I block the email address and if it was through text messaging, I save the number as someone not to answer or respond to.
Hope this helps you out.
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I would instantly put them in the trash bin
Being a traveling provider its sometimes very difficult to answer emails on the go so phone calls are at times much easier.