I didn't realize you could use silicone as a lubricant, thought it was just for insulation! Rimming first is a good idea because you can tell whether she needs to be stretched out more before you take the plunge.

Good ol' pornstars sure know their stuff. I liked the line about how she looks forward to the anal scenes because they give her sore vagina a rest...poor thing!

Silicone lube must post a real coating over the ass. I'd imagine it would dull the sensation considerably. I didn't know there was such a thing either. I thought water based lubricants were always the way to go.

I use silicone based lube, it waaay better than water based. it doesn't dry out and get sticky, and you only need a tiny bit. The coating it does form doesn't reduce sensation - and its just my theory but i reckon it acts a bit like a barrier cream, so that's always handy for added safety. using a few drops of silicon lube inside the condom and about 1-2ml on outside I have never had a condom break, and because its always slippery I don't get sore if its an expended session.

Silicone lubes are expensive however, but the don't have a taste or smell, other than the slippery you wouldnt know they were there. Water based lubes are a mix of water, glycerine - by product of making soap and methylcellulose or similar - which is a thickening agent from plant cells.

Silicon lube is good for shaving as well - it is the same stuff as those fancy silicon based shaving "oils", but its way cheaper and comes in bigger bottles.

So what are they referring to in the video when they say that silicone isn't good for vaginal sex?

Same stuff, but i never had a yeast infection using silicon lube, it doesn't contain anything that natural bacteria would digest like cellulose or sugars, you don't need much of it - so washing oneself out with soap seems very unnecessary, usually cleaning and a vaginas natural self cleaning action and newer secretions pushing everything out seems to do the job very effectively. I get that porn stars have a lot of sex, but I don't think it rivals that of any busy sex worker.

The best thing about it is that you can use any left over to shore up any holes in you house.

GREAT advice! Thanks!

That was a GREAT video!
I didn't realize that youtube had and allowed for this category of videos...learn something new everyday.
I start by rimming and/or slowly fingering with lots of silicone lube or good ol' fashion spit....my fav is to do vag doggy style while slowly tickling the Greek door...this usually leads to a yes or no....then a finger.
May the Greek gods Smile on you!

Good post HW.

"Can anyone recommend a good silicone lube. Has anyone tried silicone for vaginal sex and did it work?"

Yes, I have used Astroglide and Pjur, both were good. (I thought the second was more expensive for no real difference!) Silicon lubes work well in areas that are not self lubricating, so the rectum is a perfect example of that. Astroglide also has water based products for Vaginal sex and I keep both types on hand at home.

The comments on the potential negatives for Vaginal sex I have not found to be the case. First it does wash off with just water, and I agree with the poster from Australia that it will come out under normal circumstances. If someone is really concerned they can always douche.

The beautiful thing about women is almost none of them are exactly alike, so you do have to allow for sensitivity differences between women. I have a neighbor (poor thing) who in addition to Celiac Disease seems to be sensitive or allergic to just about everything. Only water based products for her. Still the water based gels work well for vaginal sex so if you are really concerned just stick with that.

For vaginal sex, I find it a bit of a turn off when the provider lubes up in front of me. Usually, synonymous with a rushed date. I know I'm paying for it but I'd like to think I can do enough to avoid the lube requirement.

Hey BB, I used to feel exactly the same way. Worse. for those girls that get into the spitting thing. Not a slam on anyone that prefers that, it is just not my thing. However, had one lady savvy enough to see the shadow cross my face as she lubed up. She slowed the action down and made quite the show of lubing up. Only downside was the show was so good, almost negated the need for lube in the fist place.

Since then, whenever some lady pulls out the lube and starts applying, I make a joke out of her putting on a show. Some laugh, some make some comeback about that being extra (in context of a joke) but I never had any lady get miffed at me. And sometimes a heck of a show ensued.