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Anyone Have an SO Who Knows?
August 18, 2009 - 12:07
I notice a lot of you guys on here talking about your SO's all the time and I just wondered if any of you had an open enough relationship where your SO knows you hobby? I've been tempted multiple times to just fess up...I wouldn't even be surprised if she said "duh, what do you think I'm retarded or something?". Anyway, just curious if any of your SO's know.
August 20, 2009 - 10:23
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Wish I had an open relationship. My SO would string me up by the balls and steal everything I have.
August 22, 2009 - 10:54
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I hear that i would be hung out to dry lol!
August 23, 2009 - 10:34
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unfortunately, a lot of hobbyists don't know when the "fantasy" is over. We provide together as a couple and a client who knows us (and is in a LTR himself) actually started implying that he'd love for something "more / deeper" to develop. We don't even do GFE, yet this happens.
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August 23, 2009 - 10:38
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Shoot me now....
August 25, 2009 - 12:42
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my SO knows... she's the best!
I kind of have 2 boyfriends who are also totally cool with it... but I they don't really count as an SO I guess since we don't all live together (now that would be interesting)
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Well, I had an SO who found out...and it wasn't pretty.
I'm aware that every relationship is different and unique in it's way - and there are many couples who have no issues with additional sex partners for both parties...All I can say is, before you tell your SO anything you need to be 100% sure that she's the type to be OK with this stuff. If you're not 100% confident that she'd be cool with this, my advice is to NOT tell her....
keep your YAP SHUT.Mine suspects just because I have massages often, and she see's these places being busted on the news. Years ago she said it was "ok" to go to the titty bars, it wasn't ok. Telling her would be like confermining the suspicion, I'm not that stupid. Nope I wouldn't say a word, that could get down right UGLY.
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keep your YAP SHUT.Mine suspects just because I have massages often, and she see's these places being busted on the news. Years ago she said it was "ok" to go to the titty bars, it wasn't ok. Telling her would be like confermining the suspicion, I'm not that stupid. Nope I wouldn't say a word, that could get down right UGLY.
She knows you go to MP's? Wow, everyone knows what goes on there!
I wonder how many providers have SO's that know?
Of course my SO knows *giggle* he and I provide together and is very involved in all aspects of our hobby. He helps write ads, his input to 80% of my discussion comments are critical. He opten has insight or a way of thinking that really help me break out of my shyness. He is truly my soulmate. Luv Ya Baby!
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Of course my SO knows *giggle* he and I provide together and is very involved in all aspects of our hobby. He helps write ads, his input to 80% of my discussion comments are critical. He opten has insight or a way of thinking that really help me break out of my shyness. He is truly my soulmate. Luv Ya Baby!
Lucky you. Your's is a slightly unique solution though since you work together. I'd be willing to bet that more SO's of providers know what they are up to than the SO's of hobbyists...just a hunch.
Of course my SO knows *giggle* he and I provide together and is very involved in all aspects of our hobby. He helps write ads, his input to 80% of my discussion comments are critical. He opten has insight or a way of thinking that really help me break out of my shyness. He is truly my soulmate. Luv Ya Baby!
Lucky you. Your's is a slightly unique solution though since you work together. I'd be willing to bet that more SO's of providers know what they are up to than the SO's of hobbyists...just a hunch.
Hung, We'd have to agree with you on that hunch. We've been shocked at the number of providers who keep the hobbyists from knowing they have an SO. Many do, but "pretend" to be "available". Then there are still others who have SO's and don't hide it, and lastly, the ones who really are single. In all out time, (and we try to network very agressively with other providers) we've only met 2 providers who's SO doesn't know, but they addmitted so to us.
But, nearly 60% of all the others we know, admitted to us that they had an SO, (yet more than half of which claim to be single to their clientele).
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Of course my SO knows *giggle* he and I provide together and is very involved in all aspects of our hobby. He helps write ads, his input to 80% of my discussion comments are critical. He opten has insight or a way of thinking that really help me break out of my shyness. He is truly my soulmate. Luv Ya Baby!
But, nearly 60% of all the others we know, admitted to us that they had an SO, (yet more than half of which claim to be single to their clientele).
I guess there's being honest and then there's trying to keep the fantasy alive. Personally I wouldn't want to know that a provider was married or had an SO. I'd prefer to imagine that her coochie is reserved for me.