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It seems like more and more providers are advertising Greek these days although it is certainly not as common as other services. Perhaps due to the proliferation of Greek in internet porn, it seems to be something that everyone wants to try. I wouldn’t call myself a huge fan but I have enjoyed it about half of the time I’ve tried it. With the right provider Greek can be great but once you’ve tried it you might find it isn’t really all that different to vaginal sex. A few things to keep in mind when going for some back door action:

1. Don’t bother doing Greek with a provider who doesn’t like it. While it is tempting to try and convince a provider to do it, I’ve found that they have a difficult time relaxing, it hurts them, and your dick often comes out brown because they haven’t washed themselves properly.

2. Don’t use a ribbed condom—I’m not sure if all providers would agree with this but the one time I tried it with a ribbed cover the girl in question complained about it.

3. Follow her lead—Try and remember that this is not the same as vaginal sex and so you really have to pay attention to her and how she wants you to do it.

4. Don’t just push it in right away. You should start off by gently fingering her anus and then applying lube directly to her anus while gradually working your finger in. Next, add another finger or a small dildo to get the sphincter nice and relaxed.

5. Once you’ve got the two fingers in, you are probably good to go and should start to slowly insert your cock while she pushes back on it at the same time. Once you make initial penetration, wait 30 seconds or so for her to relax and then go to town. Encourage her to touch her clit as you pump her.

6. Depending on the provider, CG is often the best way to start as they have more control over the act but many seem to offer only Greek Doggie. Once again, you’ll have to listen to the provider and take her lead—if she only wants in Doggie then so be it.

7. My favorite Greek position is definitely RCG so if you can find someone whose into that you should definitely go for it. Mish is also great and spoon works well too. Just remember that you’ll have to take her lead.

8. Make sure to keep an eye on the condom. The ass is tighter, at least while you warm it up and the chance of a condom breaking is higher. The last thing you want is to leave the session worried about an STD.

9. If you’ve been playing with her ass, don’t go back to touching her pussy with the same finger/cock because you can give her a nasty infection.

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Great post man! Letting her take the lead and making sure things are stretched and lubricated are definitely important. I would also add Lazy Greek to the available positions (nothing better IMO). I'll be taking a tour of Greece soon and I wondered if you or anyone else could recommend a good lubricant? I've used Astroglide in the past and while it works, it tastes bloody awful! Not that I'm going to be trying ass to mouth or anything like that but i'd like a lube that was a bit more neutral in taste because its going to get all over my fingers and there is a good chance that it will drip down to her other hole making a second shot Y session out of the question.
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What is "lazy greek" Hungwell? Is it Italian or something different?
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No, Marauder, Lazy Greek is infinitely better than Italian imho. Like in Doggie, the girl is positioned with her stomach facing the bed (or any other surface that tickles your fancy), but instead of being on all fours, she lies flat down on her stomach. You often have to enter her in regular K9, because it can be tough to make initial penetration, and then push her down with her legs together. There is nothing tighter than a good session of Lazy Doggie. You can fuck her vaginally or anally and if you like taking control of things, then this is one of the best positions out there. Because her legs are together, the sensation is significantly tighter. You can either lie down on top of her, which i guess would be the classic Lazy Doggie, or straddle her and fuck her while kneeling. If you haven't tried this before you haven't lived!
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I hear you hungwell. I find that Astroglide tastes horrible and also that it can dry up too quickly. I've also heard from a few providers that Astoglide contains a lot of glycerin (sugar) in it and that it can therefore cause yeast infections which is not a good thing for the girls!

Anal sex is something that definitely requires lube and you greatly increase your chances of picking up something nasty if you don't use the proper lube because you will end up tearing the asshole if you don't (even microscopic tears can kill ya!) While you may see guys spitting on a girls ass and then pounding away in the movies, this is NOT a good form of lubrication. Other things to steer well away from are lubes that are oil based like Vaseline, baby oil, massage oils etc.., because they eat through silicone and will therefore cause your condom to break.

So, what should you be looking for the next time you are looking for supplies to take with you to Greece? If you are looking for a lube that doesn't taste bad then look for a water based lube. The drawback here is that they don't last very long and you generally have to reapply frequently. If you keep a glass of water handy then you can just dip your finger in the water and apply it to the area and that will give you some more time. I think the best lubricants are silicone based ones and that would be my final suggestion after this long-winded reply! These offer the best lubrication, the longest duration, and they don't cause infections. They cost a bit more but they are readily available at any shop. Hope this helps!

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This is a great post. Do you think that less women/providers offer Greek because most guys don't do it properly or is it for some other reason? I'm surprised that it isn't even more common especially when one considers that it has become incredibly popularized by the porn industry. If trends in porn were a reflection on real life, then girls would probably be having anal before even trying conventional--at least that way there's no fear of an unwanted pregnancy.

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Provider Input --

I myself don't offer Greek, simply because of the safety hazards, I do suppose if one of my regulars requested it, I would, only because I know how they like to do things... but to me, the safety hazards easily out weigh the pleasure.

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You certainly seem like you are willing to bend over backwards to please your clients. I don't think there is anything wrong with a provider making a personal decision not to provide any type of service though--it's your body after all. I guess Greek is more risky but I don't think that it is that unsafe if you take all of the necessary precautions. If you make sure to use enough lube and use a good brand of condom then you probably won't have any problems. Some people like to double bag it when doing Greek although I find this to be a bit unnecessary and it does reduce the sensation a bit as well. I think this post has a lot of good information in it and it emphasizes the most important part about good Greek sex--don't do it if the woman isn't into it because if she isn't relaxed it will hurt.

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Great Post!

As far as lube, personally, I HATE Astroglide. I use an all-natural product called "Oh My! Hemp". It is a hemp-based lubricant. It is pH-balanced so that there is a lesser chance of yeast and bacterial growth, and it actually helps heal those small little fissures (think tiny paper cuts around vagina/anus) we ladies sometimes get from time to time. It is edible and comes in a variety of flavors. And no, you won't fail a drug test if you ingest it or use it...

Just to keep in mind about lubricants, though; the higher the content of sugar, which many flavoured lubes have, the higher the chance of the lady acquiring a yeast infection, which can put a gal out of commission for anywhere from a day or two if caught early to a week or two (if the yeast infection is not caught, it can become severe, even limiting the lady's ability to have children in the future).

The very first time I did Greek, my tour guide was absolutely lovely. He was slow and gentle, and I actually enjoyed it. I've had several since who don't really know how to do it correctly, and I think that's why I don't care for it, personally.

However, you gentlemen need to take care as well; if any of the lubricant that has come into contact with her anus, any seepage of lubricant or fluids from the anus while doing Greek that flows into the vagina (particularly while doing doggie or lazy Greek) can cause a bacterial infection. Bacterial infections suck, and not in a good way!

Just two cents from a provider....take them for all their worth.

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Great provider input on a great thread. I hadn't thought about the possibility of the lubricant seeping out of the anus and getting into the vagina so that's something I'll look out for. I think if the lubricant is gushing out of the woman then you've probably overdone the amount of lubricant used. I also hate Astroglide because it tastes absolutely horrible and will give your "Oh MY! Hemp" a chance.

I have anal sex quite frequently and it is no wonder to me why more providers don't offer it. Providers always tell me that they enjoyed the Greek and that they were surprised to have such a good time. The reason more providers don't do Greek is because there are too many guys out there who don't have a clue what they are doing and end up causing the woman pain. If you take it slowly all should be fine.

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Thanks to everyone for a really informative thread (cue back pats all around). I'm not big into Greek myself because I didn't have a very good first experience with it. To be perfectly honest, I made the mistake of begging a bit too much until the provider gave in and said "fine". She wasn't into it and I had no idea what I was doing. I think I might give it another try after reading this thread but this time I will make sure to pick a provider who actually claims to enjoy Greek and not one who just does it to make her clients happy. Is it common for Greek providers to use an enema beforehand?

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In my experience, those who provide Greek on a regular basis are clean--I have no idea if they use enemas because I've never asked but I figure they must because otherwise I would have had some brown experiences...I suppose you could also give her an enema yourself if she was up for it but that isn't my thing.

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Am I the only one here who doesn't see the big thing about Greek? I convinced my SO to do it for the first time and while it was a turn on from the fantasy perspective, once I got going I couldn't tell the difference between ass and vagina. Her ass expanded quite quickly to fit me and it really felt exactly the same to the point where I had to check to make sure that I was in her ass after all. IMO, the big attraction to Greek is that it is seen as forbidden and not because it feels any better, at least not for the guy. I don't have any problems with Greek and would do it if asked but I'm not sure that it's something I'd specifically look out for. All the same, the OP's tips are dead on if you do decide to explore the Hershey Highway.

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Limmerlick wrote:

Am I the only one here who doesn't see the big thing about Greek? I convinced my SO to do it for the first time and while it was a turn on from the fantasy perspective, once I got going I couldn't tell the difference between ass and vagina. Her ass expanded quite quickly to fit me and it really felt exactly the same to the point where I had to check to make sure that I was in her ass after all. IMO, the big attraction to Greek is that it is seen as forbidden and not because it feels any better, at least not for the guy. I don't have any problems with Greek and would do it if asked but I'm not sure that it's something I'd specifically look out for. All the same, the OP's tips are dead on if you do decide to explore the Hershey Highway.

I see where you are coming from but Greek can definitely be nice for a change. I would argue that those providers who don't do it too often are definitely a tighter fit in the ass than they are in the pussy. Obviously someone has anal 10 times a day is going to have a looser back end than front.

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While the following comes from the world of hardcore porn, it shows the majority of the OP's tips in action. Notice how the guy first starts by lubing her up with an abundance of lube and then how he starts to finger her with one finger before adding a second. Next, he pulls out a small butt plug, follows that by a larger butt plug, and then finally inserts the old anal beads. You'll notice throughout the video that they go from inserting smaller objects to inserting progressively larger ones--a good rule of thumb to remember when you are contemplating butt sex. By the time the guy puts his porn star-sized cock inside her little ass, he has no problem getting in there without causing pain and they are even able to start out in RCG. So the OP's tips are definitely bang on the money. Here's the clip I'm referring to:

http://www.redtube.com/308

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SupaFly wrote:

While the following comes from the world of hardcore porn, it shows the majority of the OP's tips in action. Notice how the guy first starts by lubing her up with an abundance of lube and then how he starts to finger her with one finger before adding a second. Next, he pulls out a small butt plug, follows that by a larger butt plug, and then finally inserts the old anal beads. You'll notice throughout the video that they go from inserting smaller objects to inserting progressively larger ones--a good rule of thumb to remember when you are contemplating butt sex. By the time the guy puts his porn star-sized cock inside her little ass, he has no problem getting in there without causing pain and they are even able to start out in RCG. So the OP's tips are definitely bang on the money. Here's the clip I'm referring to:

http://www.redtube.com/308

You dirty man supafly! Do you think she actually enjoys having those beads shoved up her pooper? And what is the third object that they stick in her ass? It kind of looks like some kind of a glass butt plug.

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I think its a butt plug but I agree that it looks a bit like a glass. Either way, she's really earning it in that video. Anal beads aside, you can tell that they know how to get the ass read for anal with lube and then upping the size of what they stick inside her...still, i'm not sure that she's really enjoying that.

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yeah, but is greek on your menu?

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Love the post, especially the clean aspect. Guys, definitely take your cue from the ladies and don't double dip with the same digit!

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Keeping with the subject of anal, I thought this was a pretty good list of all the possible anal positions. I'd personally like to try out the wheel barrow positions since it sounds like it might be a good one:

Doggie Style- Probably the most commonly thought of anal sex position is "doggie style", where the receiving partner kneels on all fours and the inserting partner approaches from the rear. Though this is the most common anal position, it's not necessarily the most comfortable or the best beginner position, as the position of the receiving partner tends to tighten up their anus.

Flying Doggie- A variation of the popular doggie style position in which the giver stands behind the receiver (instead of kneeling) and places their feet outside the legs of the receiver. You'll find that the giver will be positioned higher and will be inserting into the anus in a more downward fashion (you're almost in mid-leap if you were playing leapfrog).

Missionary- The standard missionary style position (man on top, partner on bottom) is actually also the best beginner position for anal sex, as it allows the receiver to fully relax the anus, making penetration much easier.

Anal Drop- This position puts the receiver on top and the giver on the bottom. You might think that this is the best beginner position, since it gives the receiver control over how much - how fast, but being on top actually causes the receiver to involuntarily tighten up the anus, making penetration difficult.

Double Penetration- Available only to women as a receiver, the art of double penetration can bring extreme pleasure to the woman. Because the anus is highly sensitive and there are many shared sexual nerve endings between the walls of the vagina and the anus, simultaneous stimulation can be quite erotic.

Side Anal- Another good beginner position is side anal, where the receiver lays on their side and the giver approaches from the rear. The receiver can relax the anus and the giver can easily access the entire anal area.

Wheel Barrel- In this position, the giver approaches the receiver from behind, similar to doggie stye, but lifts the receiver's legs into the air. The receiver must support themselves with their arms only or lay flat on a bed or chair.

Read the rest: http://www.anal-sex-positions-tips.com/

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Lazy Greek or Lazy Mish are both great positions. Here's a photo of said positions so you see what's being referred to:

If you don't have a very big penis, this may not be the position for you.

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For deepest penetration I suggest the following Mish variant. I admit it takes a bit of fine tuning to get the right angle but once you get..wooo! Works well for vaginal sex too!

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There a lot of positions, but some of them actually require some mobility from your body because you need to stretch. My advice for some of the people that try impossible positions: be sure to have what it takes to do that or else you might end up with broken ligaments.
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tiberiu wrote:

There a lot of positions, but some of them actually require some mobility from your body because you need to stretch. My advice for some of the people that try impossible positions: be sure to have what it takes to do that or else you might end up with broken ligaments.
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LOL, maybe certain positions should have a disclaimer! It's true what you say though, it often takes a bit of practice to get it on in certain positions.

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HungWell wrote:

No, Marauder, Lazy Greek is infinitely better than Italian imho. Like in Doggie, the girl is positioned with her stomach facing the bed (or any other surface that tickles your fancy), but instead of being on all fours, she lies flat down on her stomach. You often have to enter her in regular K9, because it can be tough to make initial penetration, and then push her down with her legs together. There is nothing tighter than a good session of Lazy Doggie. You can fuck her vaginally or anally and if you like taking control of things, then this is one of the best positions out there. Because her legs are together, the sensation is significantly tighter. You can either lie down on top of her, which i guess would be the classic Lazy Doggie, or straddle her and fuck her while kneeling. If you haven't tried this before you haven't lived!

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The spoon position will also allow you to reach around and stimulate her pussy with your fingers or a vibrator.... did it with a past girl friend and it was wild.

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turningleaf wrote:

The spoon position will also allow you to reach around and stimulate her pussy with your fingers or a vibrator.... did it with a past girl friend and it was wild.

Nice tip.

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FIRST - Never "Double Bag"!!! NEVER! Any safe sex data will tell you that using 2 condoms at once creates binding and will nearly always result in BOTH CODOMS BREAKING!

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I have lead classes in the pleasure of anal sex. IMHO I like a thicker silicone lube. Silicone lubes are totally inert, meaning they will not cause an allergic reaction (with the exception of some brands which may add flavoring (yuck) or warming agents). Silicone lubes vary in viscosity, or thickness. They are sometimes marketed as a body glide massage "oil" but they aren't oil.

I love the smooth wet feel, and there's no, read NO taste at all! Some people report that silicone can stain clothes and bedding, but I have not had that happen. I do know that some toys made of silicone will react - so test before you accidentally ruin a favorite toy.

KY makes one called Intrigue. Recently AstroGlide came out with a silicone lube called "X" in a grey bottle featuring a purple and black label. My favorite was Eros Pjur, and for years I ordered it from Germany where it's made. Now better adult shops carry it, and I order it for less on line!

As far as cleaning or preparation... you bet! This is something I have heard for both males and females. You can use a "fleet" enema to wash the area. They use a small amount of water with salts that attract moisture and do a great job. Fleets are inexpensive and can be picked up in most pharmacies. In some cases it's not a required step, as the rectum is more a hallway than a storage area! If you don't know that the woman has prepped, you will want to insert a (gloved) finger to check.

Starting slow is required. I find that using a good vibrator helps relax the sphincter, and you might even be able to see that happen. Then slowly massage with some pressure and lube, pressing in gently. This can be done with the head of the penis, again lots of lube, and once you gain entry wait for the "give" before any more motion! The worst thing you can do is yank your finger or penis out if there is a spasm or discomfort!!! Yanking it out will be more painful then waiting!!

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