neither unless i see test results going back at least six months. im not that worried about the big one as much as i am about hepatitis and herpes. herpes is pretty prevalent in the hobby and its nothing i want to deal with.

I wouldn't want to deal with herpes either... but my neighbor's wife is pretty hot.

I have passed on women in bars way back when I used to be able get it for free if I sensed that there was something not right. And I agree that there is way too much paranoia and judgmental attitudes in regard to barebacking. I guess there are some who feel they are God's appointed moralists. I call those the "Kondom Kops."

Herpes is most contagious during an outbreak. You have to use your intuition. I don't think an ASP would deliberately work knowing she had an STD.

I would go with barebacking a provider over the neighbor's wife. With a married couple, you cannot tell whether wifey (or hubby, for that matter) had revenge sex or whether both are diseased and don't know it. A provider must earn a living with her sexuality so I would feel safest with an ASP.

But I would still fuck the neighbor's wife on the side, after which, I would wash my penis in very hot water.
-donnydark

from Donnydark "...And I agree that there is way too much paranoia and judgmental attitudes in regard to barebacking."

Slow down hoss, that's not what I said. What I did say is that people who describe hobbyists and escorts as disease ridden lepers piss me off.

I am healthy and the ladies I date are healthy. In fact, many of the ladies I see are health fanatics. One of the ways they stay healthy is by being safe sex fanatics.

I am not advocating barebacking.

And I am not advocating it, either. It is not offered to everyone.

The OP makes a good point. There are probably less STD's amongst providers than there are amongst civies. That said, a provider who offers BBFS has a much higher rate of being infected with something than a civie because she has more sex with more guys. Plain and simple, your chances of getting an STD if you BB your ATF are lower than if you BB your neighbor's wife. I for one would suggest boning them both at the same time and using a cover so that you can sleep at night.

Just some clarification - much higher rate or much higher chance? You assume the neighbor's wife is having more unprotected sex than the ATF. And lastly, "at the same time" - HG, now that is impressive! I want to move into your neighborhood

Personally, the whole topic of this type of person or that type of person is meaningless to me. I agree 100% that odds go up with the frequency of unprotected sex, same way odds go up playing russion roulette; as more bullets are put into more chambers. Ya plays the game, ya takes yer chances. My only gripe is when ya plays the game without the cover means yer increasing my chances....and that is an added risk I will not knowingly take.

Exactly, this is why people get so heated when this subject comes up. If one hobbyist is going around filling everyone up with creampies it effects all the other hobbyists who see the same ladies.