Find, review & share local adult entertainment -- plus avoid the ripoffs!
Common Mistakes Us Hobbyists Make
Wed, 10/22/2008 - 15:29
#2
I think you make some good points however I feel that every woman is different. I've been with some women who have begged me to bite their clits and others who were sensitive to the lightest touch. Some like to be spanked or have their hair pulled while you do them from behind while others want nothing to do with that. I think in general that the more you know a provider, the better the sex gets for both of you. My advice would be to try and read what she likes and doesn't like and above all, not to be shy and to ask her directly.
- Login or register to post comments
1. Don’t go straight for the pussy. If you didn’t know this already, girls like you to warm them up a bit before you ram your finger inside them.
2. Learn how to kiss. I was lucky enough to be taught by my SO at a young age. Kissing isn’t all about how far you can stick your tongue into their mouth.
3. Remember, her clit is more sensitive than your cock so don’t squeeze as hard as you squeeze yourself!
4. Stroke and caress her everywhere, not just her pussy. In my experience, women seem to enjoy touching in many areas unlike us guys who generally like a girl’s energy to be focused on Mr. Johnson.
5. Related to number 4—be gentle with her nipples. I’ve noticed that each girls is different and while some do like you to squeeze their nipples hard, you should start slowly with light touching of the breasts and then gauge her response and react accordingly
6. Shave! Girls hate stubble and you probably won’t impress them if you leave razor burn all over them.
7. Wash!—enough said.
8. Leaving the finished condom on the floor or on the bedside table—The providers I’m usually with tend to take care of this for me which is a nice touch but since this is a list for both civy and provider women I thought I’d leave it in there.
9. When getting undressed, try to do your best to undress her slowly and sensually and if you don’t know how to take off a bra, let her do it!
10. Related to number 1, when you are making out with a girl, don’t rush to get your hands in her panties. Take your time and tease her a bit and when you get close, rub her pussy on the outside of the panties before finally slipping inside.
That’s my list of how to be a better lover. If there are any women on this board I’d love to hear what they think about it. Anyway, I find that the better I get with all of the above, the more I enjoy sex and the more my partner does as well. Let’s face it, if a provider likes fucking you, she’s probably going to be less hurried and provide more!