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Believe it or not but many years ago I had the opportunity to become a provider but I turned it down after much consideration. An older friend of mine had been making a mint and he asked me if I'd like to be referred to any women who were seeking out a young guy which I was at the time.
My first thought was "awesome" I'm going to get paid for sex but that quickly changed to "Oh man, no woman has to pay for sex unless she is really ugly". According to my friend, the majority of the women were better than average looking professionals and only a few were real bag over the head types. Still, I decided not to provide.
So my question to the rest of you is, would you be a provider? Think carefully before answering: Could you get it up at will regardless of what she looked like? Could you go down on any woman?
(thinking about this really makes me respect the work that all you providers do)
1. No. Because I'm not that attractive and wouldn't be considered quality material.
2. No. Because from what I hear, most male provider's clients are [b]not women.
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LOL..nice one! I can't remember the name of it but there was a movie a few years back that starred Mick Jagger as a high class escort for rich women. Anyone else ever see that and if so, do you remember what it was called?
The Man from Elysian Fields
also richard gere, american gigolo
i can blank anybody, no problem.
some of my best blanks have been butt ass ugly but thats what the light switch is for yo..
i can turn a bald head into some slip and slide fun and i love the way a big belly hits my hammer just right.
sometimes its difficult to kiss cuz a bad kisser can be very gross with possible slobber and all kinds of crazy ass tongue moves and make me barf stuff.
blanking even at it's worst is just maybe boring or uncomfortable but even so, it's normally pretty easy to fix it by just changing positions or whatever. i tend to take over the driving anyway, so the ride is almost always pretty enjoyable for me.
im a very good driver and i know how to get where i'm going.
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I don't want to get attacked here but I think females have the advantage of not having to get hard. I suppose guys could take Viagra to perform either under the nastiest of circumstances but still... I'd have to say "NO" to being a provider.
Now I may be opening up a whole new can of worms here but what is the POV regarding saying "No" to a customer if you are a provider? Obviously situations may stack the cards against you, but surely if someone was considering being (or already is) a provider, don't they ultimately get the final say on WHO as well as WHAT goes on? Can you exercise quality control over your product to the extent that you choose the recipients?
I realise I may be looking at this whole situation with an outside view but it is being reported that world economics means more & more are considering becoming providers or at least getting involved in the fringes of the Adult industry
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Liquor? I hardly even know her...
Now I may be opening up a whole new can of worms here but what is the POV regarding saying "No" to a customer if you are a provider? Obviously situations may stack the cards against you, but surely if someone was considering being (or already is) a provider, don't they ultimately get the final say on WHO as well as WHAT goes on? Can you exercise quality control over your product to the extent that you choose the recipients?
I realise I may be looking at this whole situation with an outside view but it is being reported that world economics means more & more are considering becoming providers or at least getting involved in the fringes of the Adult industry
Great question, I've wondered about that in the past myself. The provider really does have the final say although it could also be viewed as discrimination if she didn't "serve" a customer because of how they looked--Since prostitution isn't currently legal this isn't a problem but if it were legal then that would be opening up a whole other can of worms.
As a provider you can't say "no, not you, you're ugly" - but you can say "i won't suck that dick, it stinks"
meaning: as long as you have a good reason that isn't discriminating, you can pick and choose.
Or you do what some girls do who offer "massages" (mostly they have no idea of how to give a massage):
if they like the guy, and they get the impression he's not on boards like this one, they offer more.
It's stupid to offer "more" to a lot of guys, though - soon enough you're labeled as YMMV.
They don't like the guy, he gets some lotion spread on his body and a handshake, that's it.
I don't really like calling what most of these girls do "massage".
Actually, if it feels like she REALLY knows what she's doing and it feels just great, you shouldn't assume she offers more. Just relax and enjoy.
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European massage artist in Orlando, licensed for Florida, nationally certified and all that...
not escorting. It's just massages...
You shouldn't assume she offers more unless she "encourages mutual touching" !
Now I may be opening up a whole new can of worms here but what is the POV regarding saying "No" to a customer if you are a provider? Obviously situations may stack the cards against you, but surely if someone was considering being (or already is) a provider, don't they ultimately get the final say on WHO as well as WHAT goes on? Can you exercise quality control over your product to the extent that you choose the recipients?
I realise I may be looking at this whole situation with an outside view but it is being reported that world economics means more & more are considering becoming providers or at least getting involved in the fringes of the Adult industry
a handful of times i've had to tell a guy i wouldnt be able to have a session and sent him away.
i do not give an excuse. . i simply say, i'm sorry i cant do this... i'm going to have to ask you to go now.
in some instances it was because the guy looked unhealthy, like a hard core drug addict or sickly in some way.
in other instances it was because my dog said he had to go... it has only happened a few times but she leaves me no doubt there is something wrong with the person.. . she is just a cute friendly lil yorkie but every once in a while, a person will set her off and she just wont stop barking at them, very ferociously.
of course, we have a choice in who we see... and what we do. ... i make no promises... but i do not take anyone's money unless i plan to earn it.
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I'd totally be a provider but I'd be the toughest screener in the business. I'd require head and body shots of all my potential clients along with in-person testing which would consist of a BBBJCIM before I'd consider taking them on as a client. Reasonable right? The funny thing is that it would probably work.
Now I may be opening up a whole new can of worms here but what is the POV regarding saying "No" to a customer if you are a provider? Obviously situations may stack the cards against you, but surely if someone was considering being (or already is) a provider, don't they ultimately get the final say on WHO as well as WHAT goes on? Can you exercise quality control over your product to the extent that you choose the recipients?
I realise I may be looking at this whole situation with an outside view but it is being reported that world economics means more & more are considering becoming providers or at least getting involved in the fringes of the Adult industry
a handful of times i've had to tell a guy i wouldnt be able to have a session and sent him away.
i do not give an excuse. . i simply say, i'm sorry i cant do this... i'm going to have to ask you to go now.
in some instances it was because the guy looked unhealthy, like a hard core drug addict or sickly in some way.
in other instances it was because my dog said he had to go... it has only happened a few times but she leaves me no doubt there is something wrong with the person.. . she is just a cute friendly lil yorkie but every once in a while, a person will set her off and she just wont stop barking at them, very ferociously.
of course, we have a choice in who we see... and what we do. ... i make no promises... but i do not take anyone's money unless i plan to earn it.
Trust the dog. Could be a terminator in disguise! But I know what your talking about. I have a cat that loves everyone, except one friend who he has tried to smother in his sleep several times. My friend never did anything to the cat. But I understand why the cat feels he must be removed from this world. The boy can be pretty twisted sometimes...
As for being a provider? Not sure. I can keep it down under almost any circumstance that doesn't involve physical contact, which I met a lot of guys that wish they had that control.
But, if I was to be a provider I would need to work out more. Stating the obvious... And that builds testosterone which makes guys hornier. I'm pretty horny now, so I guess I could turn out the lights. Or do what one friend says when asked such questions "That's what doggy style into a pillow is for."
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God gave man a brain. And God gave man a penis. And only enough blood to run one at a time.
-- Robin Williams.
"That's what doggy style into a pillow is for."
You can say that again.
In my younger years I may have said yes but now my answer would be a definitive "not a frigging chance in hell". Why, you ask? Well quite simply because I get turned on by certain women only--I don't get sprung just because someone has a vagina. If I'm not "feeling it" with a woman I simply back away but if I were a provider, I'd have to stick my nose down there whether I liked it or not:sick: Anyone remember the movie Kingpin with Woody Harrelson when he has to "pay" his landlady the rent? If you don't remember, here's a refresher:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28eC57Xniko&feature=related
1. No. Because I'm not that attractive and wouldn't be considered quality material.
2. No. Because from what I hear, most male provider's clients are not women.
1. No. Because I'm not that attractive and wouldn't be considered quality material.
2. No. Because from what I hear, most male provider's clients are [b]not women.
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Ack!!!!!!!
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"Jocks only think about sports, nerds only think about sex". - Louis Skolnick
I know that it sometimes comes up among lesbians... ("I could be an escort only for rich women")
but it's really rare that women pay for sex.
And I'm with HungWell: I can do massages, no problem, and be all nice and loving and what not, but to actually have sex with people I'm not attracted to, who I don't even know ... I can't imagine that. So I just don't do it.
I want to make sure I provide a great experience to everybody who sees me, I can't pretend.
I know that there are GFE providers with the same attitude, and they have all my respect. They provide a real experience without faking anything, they put themselves into the moment with all they have, and that is an amazing talent.
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European massage artist in Orlando, licensed for Florida, nationally certified and all that...
not escorting. It's just massages...
1. No. Because I'm not that attractive and wouldn't be considered quality material.
2. No. Because from what I hear, most male provider's clients are [b]not women.
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LOL..nice one! I can't remember the name of it but there was a movie a few years back that starred Mick Jagger as a high class escort for rich women. Anyone else ever see that and if so, do you remember what it was called?