do you book more or less time on a first visit?

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Personally I go for less time in case its a disaster. I'll usually say that I'd like it to be short and sweet the first time to see if we are compatible but that if we are I'll book a longer session later. 60 minutes is perfect length for me.

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yeah same here 1 hour for the first vist. id go for the half but i never get done in that time.

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I'm usually confused and rather nervous when someone who I've never seen before asks for 2 hours.

I don't get it. It's a huge risk the hobbyist is taking. We had someone for a 2 hour 4 handed massage the other day... and that's A LOT of money.. (at least for me it's a lot) and I didn't know him at all. I wonder whether it's something like gambling...

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I go for a half or an hour depending, not more. Still don't get the people who book all-nighters the first time around.

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I actually get a lot of 2-3 hour requests from new clients and not really surprised by it ... may be because I structure my rates to welcome longer dates Smiling

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LuciaMelena wrote:

I'm usually confused and rather nervous when someone who I've never seen before asks for 2 hours....

I agree with you it throws a red flag . 200 4 2 hour therapeutic massage is allot to invest esp when uve never seen them before if their good they are worth it!..

i told a client that once that i thought he was going to be a no show i used to get that allot 2 hours appointments rarely show .
I recommend getting a 30 min if they offer it because if it sux ur not out the whole hour fee if u like it you can extend to an hour or longer if not ur free to leave. i think as a consumer its best to test waters before leaping. I know when i get massage i start with 30 min if their good ill d a 2 hour if not ill try a diff therapist..

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I think for me, it seems to reason you set a time that gives opportunity to get the result you desire. Whether it be sex, massage, or any other kind of service. If you make the time allotted too short to not allow for the service you desire, nobody has a fair chance of making you happy!

I think there are people that PREFER 30 MIN short visits and get out quick! On that flip side I think there are peeple that NEED minimum of 60-90 minutes to get the opportunity for the desired experience.

If you happen to be the type that prefers 24 hours or overnights, you better have bucks and an easy going nature, because their will be some expensive dissapointment!

No matter how good the lady is, 30 minutes feels rushed to me. I like my hands, feet, calves, hammmies done EVERY time just like my back, shoulders neck and arms when it comes to a massage.

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I agree that in general its wise to book less time with new providers but for me it all kind of depends on the mood I'm in. If I'm in the mood to chat over a glass of wine and have fun seducing I might pick a 2 hour slot if the provider is well reviewed. In most cases though, I will book a half hour to have sex and if its good, book a longer session the next time to get to know them better.

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