So are you saying that the real princess diaries blog or the twitter account links to the booking site? Ive found some references elsewhere that claim so, but nothing difinitive. I can't find any direct links, and we have been following her on twitter and her blog for over a year now - so its not a "sudden" thing.

Further, I did a link search, almost 500 sites are linking to the escort site (not just the booking page). Most seem to relate to the "blogging" controversy, with very little evidence that she is (or is not) an actual provider (with links from directories, reviews, etc).

In carfully reviewing her requirements, it is not uncommon for ladies of the highest caliber to require the personal info that Alexa does, of course, the way around her details is simple, give her 2 recent references.

Simple as that - for those who are skittish, go see two other established providers BEFORE seeing her. Shit, we practically ask for the same things as she does.

While I can't vouch for the lady, I think assuming she is a fake is going too far. If you do not have 2 references, and are uncomfortable with her non-reference requirements, go elsewhere.

Lastly, lets play devil's advocate and assume that her blog, twitter account and site were all a sham. What exactly could she do with the non-reference info?

I think anything she ever could attempt to do with it in terms of some kind of "blackmail" is feeble at best and highly deniable. I just don't see how such seemingly available / public info can be harmful to you (if you have business cards, then you better not ever drop, lose or even give them to ANYONE - if they ever fell into the wrong hands you'd be toast) - Puhleeeeez!

Given her rates and the extreme regard for her safety, she could very well be legit as many upper end gals use their screening not only to turn away time wasters but to also find the truly serious / up-scale clientele - and at her rates, 2 decent appointments a month is a livable income sans the stress and bullshit that many of us ladies put up with.

"You are not paranoid if there are really people out there to get you!"

On serious note ... is there nothing else to be concerned with whether or not someone who has a website and a blog provides or not?

Whether Alexa is hot sexy gal who is extraordinary provider or middle aged bold guy with fantasy and computer ... really none of my or your business.

You want investigate? Get two provider references and see if she is for real!

We'll be waiting for report

Alex/Christine,

I too have been following Alexa for quite some time and have corresponded with 'her' on more than one occasion. I am not quick to make accusations and have thought about this for quite some time.

Now, Are you suggesting that there has never been a connection between the blog/twitter account and the booking site? Are you suggesting that the person who purports to be AlexaRPD and the alleged escort who goes by "Alexa Dicarlo" are two separate entities?

If you've truly "followed" Alexa, then you would know that it is incorrect to suggest such a thing.

I discovered 'her' booking site via the facebook account linked to 'her' blog, which 'she' has since deleted along with 'her' Myspace account. 'Her' name on facebook was "Alexa Dicarlo".

'Alexa' has sent me links to photographs via 'her' AlexaRPD twitter account. These photographs were stolen from the "blue eyed Cass" cam girl site. These were photographs of the same girl used in the "portfolio" section of the Alexa Dicarlo booking site. (The portfolio is now conveniently password protected).

Additionally, a search result for who owns the domain alexadicarlo.com compared with a result for who owns realprincessdiaries.com reveals that both domains are owned by someone calling themselves "Alexa Dicarlo", PO Box 61359 Sunnyvale 94088 CA.

If you don't want to take my word for it, take another look at the following posts and feel free to contact the authors for more information. The argument is more than convincing.

http://sexademic.wordpress.com/2009/12/24/alexa-dicarlo-anonymity-and-se...
http://katstories.tumblr.com/post/289557047/faux-ho-bloggers
http://ccexpose.blogspot.com/2008/11/caitlains-corner.html
http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/i-love-television/Content?oid=3209684
http://jennydemilo.blogspot.com/2009/12/can-you-tell-which-thing-is-not-...
http://mistressmatisse.blogspot.com/2009/12/fact-or-fiction-i-was-intere...
http://www.feminisnt.com/2009/speaking-of-faux-ho-bloggers-what-about-am...
http://www.tastytrixie.com/blogging/alexa-real-princess-diaries-faux-ho-...
http://carnalnation.com/content/41783/286/reality-and-faux-ho-bloggers
http://hecumsonherface.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-comment-on-alexarpd.html

Idk that doesn't jive with me.
I do know hosts will assign multiple sites with the same 3rd party proxy server, so a whois lookup doesn't mean anything.
However, I notice way TOO MANY coincidences there deleting accounts, locking pics = fake or busted .
I'm leaning to faux - haux
fo sho but who are we to judge ?
I think if they aren't really hurting anyone like taking money and such its not a problem until we make it a problem.

People Harvesting info is nothing new, or shocking.

its wierd but then there have been all sorts of weird misrepresentations going back to usenet and the prime/vax days.
there was an epic thread in alt.flame where we all thought it was two guys going at each for years.
it turned out to be the same guy trolling the group into two camps and that was back in 89.

I agree. Internet fakery is so common. The online world attracts people who like to pretend to be something other that what they are...and provides them with the tools to convincingly pull off the masquerade.

It cracks me up when someone is discovered to be a fake and people act like it's the most shocking thing they ever heard. It happens.

That being said, one of the main purposes of these boards is to publicize the fakes, rip-offs, and scams that hobbyists encounter everyday. So I guess this is sort of in that category.

Don't know anything about tihs Alexa stuff. I do have two different handles depending on which board I am on and by now I am sure you all have realized that there are a lot of personalities running through my head, so does this qualify?

Having a different handle for each site can be a good thing considering what has happened over the past year-2years.

All I'm going to say is this - Alexa, real or not, has passed a good amount of business my way. I also like the blog.

As far as the booking site, if she's not real I wonder why people who've filled out the form and passed on their information have not come out in the past 18 months complaining about the fact they've never gotten an appointment yet gave her their info? I'm sure hundreds, if not thousands, have filled out the form. Why not at least come out and say "Yes, I filled it out and was duped" if that's the case?

Well, I for one know that a lot of guys looking for high-end escorts don't exactly waste their time blogging about not getting a proper response from an escort they sent an application to. They just move on.

I mean, this "Alexa" person is kinda up there in price, she has a minimum 2 hour session for $2,000.00. The guys that would seriously consider her, over the other great San Fran girls, are probably not dwelling on any lack of proper response...I mean your rate is lower, you're lovely, and you're real! That's probably why you're getting referrals from her. LOL!

I know this, if I gave my personal info to someone who was called into question I'd chime in with "Well I gave her/him/it my info too and now I'm kind of worried" or "I gave my info and had an appointment, she's real" just to help clear up stuff.

NEWSFLASH:

if you spend $2000 to spend 2 hours with anyone, you're getting scammed.

there are no high end girls, only high end scams

once you put your information on a contact form, you're not going to say sh*t to anyone.

you think any guy is going to risk his job, his family, his peace of mind just to warn other guys ?

a warning that will just get removed anyway ?

i've seen a few anonymous warnings go up on high end girls but not many and they always try like hell to get the dude to identify himself while their cartel of pimps defend their "honor"

whatever.

the "high end" girls are all kinds of vicious to anyone they think may cause them problems.

I respectfully disagree. At any rate point there are scams and gems.

Lina

yes there are scams at any rate point.

but any girl charging you $1000+ minimum is a scam.
the ONLY exceptions to that are ACTUAL pornstars, or those women who have attained some celebrity status OUTSIDE of escorting. these are your gems.

all these other women who try to bill themselves as something they are not, are just scamming guys... most of them require a deposit and i suspect that they don't even exist.

there's some well known shillers in phoenix that were pushing a red-headed crack star from cali named (i'm scared to say her name).... she's definitely real. ...don't know if it's the same one, don't care, don't need the nightmares.

jeez.

i wouldn't walk away from this one.

even if i can't remember where i parked my rocket, there's gotta be a spare cannon around somewhere.

I totally agree with you. Whether they are actually scamming in their mind is one thing but the plain fact of spending $1000 an hour is a complete and total rip off. I don't care if you can suck like a hoover, some of the most gorgeous and sexually talented women in the world are charging 300 an hour...anything more than that is overpaying.

Here is where I disagree with both of you - use of word SCAM. Overpaying? Possibly. May be even definately.

In NYC you can go to Canal street and get "Hermes" bag for 100. This bag will look just as good and perform just as well as Hermes bag you buy on Madison Avenue for 10,000. You probably are going to have slightly different shopping experience though.

Now, does it mean that anyone who bought Hermes has been scammed by the company and sales people? NO. Does it mean you overpayed? Possibly. If you make 20,000 per year paying 10K for a bag would be pretty dumb. If you make 2M per year, it does not seem like overpriced item anymore.

It all comes down to what price point YOU are comfortable with.

Lina

Lina, I see your point, BUT! I would be willing to bet that if the rich person knew that the bag was only worth 100 bucks and was being sold as such in a different store, he/she would bitch loudly! Rich people don't like overpaying any more than the poor guy, maybe even more so. How do you think they got there? They are usually very shrewd when it comes to paying for things! Go to a casual resteraunt like Perkins or Applebees and ask the waitresses which type are most likely to leave a good tip!

Your point would be better stated that a rich person is more likely to buy a Mercedes than a Yugo, because they CAN afford it and want to SHOW off their money, but they won't over pay for it!

no no no no

the hermes was worth the 10k but you got a deal on it..
.
thats a lil different than taking a hermes label from one bag and putting it a kmart bag and charging 10k for it.... thats a scam.... selling something that is being represented as something it's not.

i'm not at alll surprised people are doubting her existence.. if you go to kmart and see a bag with a $10k pricetag and a hermes label, you'd be questioning that too. ..... she's an escort. if she was worth $1000 per hour, she wouldn't be an escort.

but yeah, there's suckers out there. .. and somebody has to rip them off.

We are with Lina on this. And I think we have a better analogy.

Alex and I are both wine lovers.

Disclaimer:
We are not "collectors", we have a modest stash. We do not "invest" in wine, we buy what we like and intend to eventually drink. We are what as known as "value wine drinkers", the ost expenive wine we have ever bought was about $69. The bulk of our collection is $20 or less. We are very active wine "tasters" and have tasted wines costing $200 a bottle and up.

Now, for the analogy...

Why do some people spend $200+ for a bottle of fermented grape juice? In our experience, there are plenty of comparable options at $20 and under that are practically identical in taste.

Here is why...

A) Because they can and in certain circles becomes a symbol of ones status.

B) They "percieve" a difference. While the slightest incremental improvement in taste is one of vastly diminishing returns, to a well trained palate it could be the difference between "euphoric" and "plain acceptable".

C) Exclusivity, rarity, etc. and possibly knowing that so few others can may be motivation enough.

Why would a hobbyist pay $1000 per hour? See items A,B & C above.

When you get to the extremely higher end of any product or service, the reason why those items can exist in the marketplace comes down to the reasons listed above, there is a finite degree to which workmanship, quality etc can be improved, yet, they exist.

Just our 4 cents.

cheap wine will make your head hurt.

although i agree that some hobbyists will pay those rates just because it gives them a certain status. .. like i said, there's suckers out there and i guess it would be a shame to let them go to waste.... i've just never heard of a guy that was happy about ispending that kind of money on an escort.... other than the pimp shills.

oh and a couple of guys who met pornstars that they had fantasized about. .. they were happy.

alot of guys say they felt ripped off.. i'm not talking specifically about "this girl" (gawd don't say her name).... but just in general.

here's what makes me look down on these girls.

i understand that yes there are men out there who will pay this rate, especially if you surround yourself with enough pimps to convince them to.... HOWEVER, how can any girl possibly think that she's sooo great that she is worth that much.....

i've always been told i could get a much higher rate and i even have some guys that voluntarily overpay, i've even gotten cash via fed ex but i keep my rate reasonable because i KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that i'm worth it and more.... i know that the guy is not going to regret spending his money on me.... even on my worst day, he'll still be getting a great deal......can i get a thousand dollars an hour ?? of course i can .... ANBODY can, it's really not that hard but i'm not willing to meet a guy who has a thousand dollar an hour expectation from me. ... i can't even fathom what a thousand dollar hour would consist of quite honestly.

just because you CAN, doesn't mean you SHOULD.

tell me what escort in her right mind really thinks she is giving a dude a thousand dollar hour ??
none..

THEY KNOW they are running a scam...... but they aren't worried about what they're giving, are they ?... no, they're only worried about what they're getting.

that's high class crack star mentality.

in regards to "this girl" ugh.....
i do know that the girls who outed "this girl" have suffered vicious attacks on both their personal and their professional lives. ... someone started a blog offering big cash rewards if anyone could give them any personal information about the girls that exposed "this girl".

girls like jenny demilo and kimberly cline who have both volunteered alot of their time to the sex worker rights movement and who have always been willing to give new girls advice and help other people in the industry..

so no, "this girl" is not a fine wine, nor is she a well designed purse....she's something else.

who is anyone to determine someone else worth, just because you may charge a certain amount doesn't give you the right to pick someone elses rate.

Many factors go into a rate that high.

1. Maybe she has a career so if 1-5 guys book her during the year its an extra 2000-10,000 a year vacation money for very little work and she's not exposing herself to many people or wasting alot of time, cuz let be real 99 out of 100 men who see that rate will skip right on over it and see the 200 an hour pro 10 times.

2. Not everyone is poor yes most are but you have the actors, athletes, recording artists, tv personalities, politicians, drug dealers, wall street, ceos who make lots of money, I used to promote concerts and some of these acts make 20,000 a night the real good ones can ask 75,000-250,000 for a performance, athletes they make more in a week then most make in 10 years, politicians steal all the tax money, actors makes lots per episode or film, and drug dealers all of the above pay them plus the bp/cl girls with the 200 a day drug habits paying em too.........

would i ever pay that amount very doubtful, the last few years i pretty much figured out that the vast majority of porn stars escort for 300-500 I enjoy that experience much more because i can watch the films and see exactly how they get down and theyve been the best experiences ive had, blow jobs and sex these days is not to difficult to get for free and while some civilian girls may get nasty most arent deep throating, face painting, enthusiasm, and slobbin like the porn stars do. thats the real fantasy come to life, not to mention if your a fun/good/attractive client also, which i must be they dont mind staying longer or overnight if they have nothing else going on they love dick with a passion ive become friends with more porn stars then escorts cuz with most escorts its mostly all about the money (and the porn stars are charging the actor/athletes the 1000+ an hour getting clothes airfare gifts and hotel to keep her mouth shut cuz a few thousand a night is much better then a divorce or bad publicity and trust me a lot of these famous people are running thru them porn stars on the regular a lot more then u think they damn near get everything free anyway so it balances out)PLUS PORN STARS ARE TESTED EVERY 30DAYS ITS THEIR JOB TO KEEP THEY PRODUCT CLEAN

but i wouldnt ever think to determine someone elses worth, i just move on a pro sets the price she is comfy with that fits her situation

remember u dont pay a pro to - - - - you pay so u can get up and leave safely, location, exclusivity, and discretion all factor in

the funny thing about women in the adult world they dont want anyone to point fingers and judge them, but u have escorts, porn stars, sugar babies, dancers all calling each other out talkin bad lookin down/jealous/bitter towards eachother..pots calling the kettle black dont hate congratulate

i wasn't trying to determine anyone's rate.
i've built websites for several high dollar hotties.
but they aren't frauds.

i stated an opinion.
i see you disagree with my opinion.. THAT'S FINE.

people are wrong all the time, there's nothing i can do about that.

congratulations to all the girls who DON'T rip guys off.

and congratulations to alexa hampton stone, aka Cupcake aka Heather of Zeniful aka Heather of Beyond Spa aka Ava of Beverly Hills aka I Want Candy aka Fairy Godmother for just being you.

now the real question is does Zeniful know shes working at Beyond Spa too? not many high dollar ladies work at MPS that ive ever heard of...