While I noticed a great deal of threads on this site about DATY which I admittedly enjoy with the right woman, I couldn’t find much about fingering. Sure, there is a recent thread about rimming but that’s a distant cousin to fingering. I’m pretty selective about who I DATY due to health concerns but there’s nothing I love more that getting a woman off so I find digits to be a great substitution for my tongue. Those who don’t think you can drive a lady crazy with the old hand simply don’t know what they are talking about. Here’s how I go about rocking her world without having to work about STD’s after:

Firstly, I think a lot of guys make the mistake of diving in and grabbing the pussy before the woman is even turned on which is a big mistake. You’ve got to heat up the oven before you stick anything in it so start off with kissing and stroking her. Once she is turned on, make a slow move down to her kitty but take your time getting there. Rub her ass and stomach and then slowly creep up her inner thighs. Hopefully, when you do finally get your hand in there, she’ll be sopping wet but if she isn’t, you could always wet your finger a bit first.

Using my index and middle fingers I like to rub the clitoris softly in a circular motion. I modify speed and pressure by watching her and seeing what she likes and doesn’t like. While I’m rubbing her clit, I’ll often start to tease her vaginal opening with my ring finger to see whether she’s the type that likes penetration at the same time.

If she is into penetration, I recommend continuing with the clitoral stimulation while inserting first one and then two fingers from your other hand into her pussy and sliding them in and out. If she’s the type that likes g-spot penetration I will normally rotate my hand so that it’s palm up and start to rub the button.

Finally, I find some women really dig anal stimulation at the same time so if they do, give her the “shocker” by inserting your pinkie finger into her butt while you continue on with everything else you were doing.

The above works for me but I always have to modify a bit according to each lady’s reaction. I personally find fingering to be just as exciting as DATY and a heck of a lot safer. Anyone else feel the same? Anyone have any additional tips that I could add to my arsenal?