Good questions. First of all I would try to avoid this situation as it could lead to a lot of trouble. But, if I did here's what I think:

1. I'd hope that the sex would be better as I got to know her better.
2. If we really became an item, I'd prefer it if she pursued a different career. I just don't think I could deal with knowing that she was screwing other guys.
3. This one's a tough one and I guess you should never say never. I think I'd rather cut back my expenses than have her go back to work.

Good questions...

1) Do you think the sex would be as good as when you were paying for it.

It would probably be very different, since I would now need to be concerned about her satisfaction in addition to my own.

2) Could you handle it if she said she wanted to keep on doing her job.

No. I would not agree to a relationship if she insisted on continuing her escort job.

3) Or what if you got married and she said she would not do it any longer but later on you guys needed money?

Many married couples face hard financial periods. Escorting is not the only way to deal with money problems. I would not expect her to go back to escorting in order to get through a hard period - the strain it would put on the marriage wouldn't be worth it.

1. I think sex would be good for awhile and then it would get less and less in frequency and then eventually I would have to seek out a provider.

2. If I met her when she was a provider and she was happy with her job, I think it would be hypocritical of me to ask her to stop.

3. I don't think I'd want my wife to sell her body because we were having tough times. I'd rather take on a second job.

Wow what if you started taking her out and she did not give you sex atfirst and said she wanted to take it slow?

007 i dont no if you could anwser question 2&3 that way so if your wife was a provider when you met her it would be ok.

Funnily enough I could imagine that happening. I remember having a very drunken one-night stand once. A week later the girl called me and we arranged to go out and she said she wanted to take it slow. I thought it was a little strange since I'd already fucked her but hey, it kind of made sense at the same time.

I think questions 2 and 3 are different. If she stopped providing by her own choice when we met, I would not encourage her to go back to it. That's different than not pressuring her to stop in the first place....a lot of time could pass between her willingly stopping and us having financial difficulties.

1. I guess it would depend on what the sex was like before. Did you pay her for some particular fetish that she didn't really like doing? If that's the case you might find that the fetish is no longer in the bedroom repertoire.

2. no.

3. no.