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How Many Times Do You See the Same Provider?
March 31, 2009 - 10:45
I've seen a lot of posts and reviews on this site where guys are referring to their ATF's and I wondered how common that really is? I personally prefer sampling the wide variety of providers out there and am not a big fan of seeing the same woman multiple times. To those that do see the same woman all the time, would you say she is more like a girlfriend? I consider myself to be a gentleman but I see providers because I like to have sex with beautiful women and I don't want a relationship. Does that make me outside of the norm or are there more guys out there like me who prefer to sample all of the earth's delights?
April 27, 2009 - 13:41
#14
Probably it's nicer to ask her not right after... but maybe another day by email.. or if she doesn't have time when you want to see her, you can ask whether she knows somebody.
I sometimes get emails answering an ad of mine from one of my regulars - and they write like they've never seen me.... so I write back "hey it's me" and recommend someone good I know who does something similar..
but it's really funny, some get so embarrassed "oh, no, I don't want to see anybody else.. only you.. I just answered the ad because I thought she was someone I knew years ago.. just wanted to catch up and check if she moved back to Orlando.."
yeah. right.
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April 27, 2009 - 23:11
#15
I see my favorites on a regular basis, at least monthly, usually every couple weeks. However, I make a point to see a new provider every month. I like the variety of trying new experiences, but I have learned that seeing the same provider repeatedly, gives a much better experience. These girls are always looking for regulars, and chances are if they chemistry was good enough for you to come back, then she will remember you too, and will remember what you wanted, and liked, and those little details that make you stand out. When I see a provider the 2nd time is always better then the first, I believe it is because they now know you intend to be a regular, which they are always wanting more of, so they give you the even more of a good time to keep you leaving with that "wow" feeling. That way every time I come back I never know what she has in store for me, but I know it just gets better and better! They will reward us for regular business with that girlfriend feeling, and rule breaking, and extra time, and whatever it takes to keep us happy and wanting to keep coming back. No one wants to have someone get bored of them. My advice is if you find a girl you really enjoy, and the chemistry is there, then see her most of the time, but allow yourself visits into the realm of the unknown and see a new girl every other time, or maybe every couple months, depending on your schedule.
April 28, 2009 - 09:51
#16
I see my favorites on a regular basis, at least monthly, usually every couple weeks. However, I make a point to see a new provider every month. I like the variety of trying new experiences, but I have learned that seeing the same provider repeatedly, gives a much better experience. These girls are always looking for regulars, and chances are if they chemistry was good enough for you to come back, then she will remember you too, and will remember what you wanted, and liked, and those little details that make you stand out. When I see a provider the 2nd time is always better then the first, I believe it is because they now know you intend to be a regular, which they are always wanting more of, so they give you the even more of a good time to keep you leaving with that "wow" feeling. That way every time I come back I never know what she has in store for me, but I know it just gets better and better! They will reward us for regular business with that girlfriend feeling, and rule breaking, and extra time, and whatever it takes to keep us happy and wanting to keep coming back. No one wants to have someone get bored of them. My advice is if you find a girl you really enjoy, and the chemistry is there, then see her most of the time, but allow yourself visits into the realm of the unknown and see a new girl every other time, or maybe every couple months, depending on your schedule.
Totally true man. Best part is that they know what you like so you can avoid all the things you don't like. True about rule breaking too...those guys who prefer BBBJ will probably all agree.
April 28, 2009 - 14:27
#17
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I've heard this advice before in the past and it is good advice. My problem is that I don't feel comfortable asking someone I've just had sex with to "recommend" someone else for me to try.
Not always the best idea in this "cut throat" world . for both men and women
if you can get verified "without" asking another lady to "recommend" you IMO is best for both parties
I personally hardly ever announce to another lady I may be or did see someone she knew
I believe in being discreet on both ends
I don't agree, again, only had lap dances. But, the strippers I see like the fact I move around. I guess they see it as a good thing, so I started thinking why?
What if your new and every client is only interested in their faves? Your not going to get any business except for the newbie clients.
What if you pretty much only get regulars? If they move or die or become broke and can't spend on you anymore then it hurts your cash flow.
I think the whole trading clients thing might actually be better for the economics of the profession. Even in the restaurant industry I've met a lot of people that like it when no competition comes to the area. I know a guy who's good at economics, I'll ask him what he thinks.
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I see the same provider twice or thrice a month and I have been seeing her for over 6 months.
Having sex with someone once let’s you know that someone is chemically suited for you. Having sex multiple times with that person allows you to explore the possibilities, and push the boundaries, of that chemistry…
I do massages, so I think it makes sense that the guys who really like good massages come back. It's hard to find.
The ones who would hope for something else stay away after the first or a few times...
But for my private life I agree with madmandon: Sex always gets better after several times - if not, something is seriously wrong. That's why I don't like one-night-stands.
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I'm with you DingDong. Variety is the spice of life. When I want to be nagged and asked whether I really love someone every five minutes I just go home. I'm not saying I never repeat with a provider but I tend to see more new ones than repeats.
I'm more likely to see an MP more than once because the second sessions are generally better than the first. I think there is a big difference between standard providers and MP's though because standard providers don't have walk-in traffic so they can do their screening before they even agree to see you. Anyone who has been to an AMP that offers FS will tell you that the mileage is much higher if someone can vouch for you---that's how they stay out of trouble after all.
Many gents are seeking a "regular" as is providers . Then on the other hand there are providers who prefer that they see whoever as long as it is an hour appt.
For some of us who are more of the GFE and low volume , that is not the case . Most GFE providers are wanting to make sure they do get some sort of " chemistry" so they may give "quality " . I believe it just depends on the personality type you seek .
Thanks
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Yes. I think if you are seeking out a true GFE time then it obviously makes sense to visit the same provider more than once. I've always had a better time on second and third sessions as the provider and I get more comfortable with one another and learn about each others' likes and dislikes. That said, I do enjoy sampling new providers from time to time. I guess I'm kind of in the middle--I like repeating but I also like trying something new.
I'm still new as I type this and never had a provider. But, I like strippers! When I go to a strip club, I look for my favorites because I like them, they have good customer services skills (among other things) and we fell comfortable with each other. But, I still save a bit of cash for the other girls I haven't met yet. Funny thing is all my favorites realize I do this and they actually appreciate it. Maybe it's a sign that tells them they don't have to worry that I might become a stalker. Maybe they look at it like "He shops around but he knows who's best." Or maybe they just like hearing my reviews of the other girls. So I guess I'm in DingDong and HungWell's party. I like my fave's but why not try something new?
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Yes. I think if you are seeking out a true GFE time then it obviously makes sense to visit the same provider more than once. I've always had a better time on second and third sessions as the provider and I get more comfortable with one another and learn about each others' likes and dislikes. That said, I do enjoy sampling new providers from time to time. I guess I'm kind of in the middle--I like repeating but I also like trying something new.
So, do you find that a provider will actually remember you? I'm not just talking about your face, but your likes, dislikes, quirks, fantasies, preferences etc. How many times after seeing the same provider, did you notice a sense of "compatibility"?" If you had an exceptional time with a specific provider, do you find yourself compelled to return? What about for a new hobbyist with limited experiences (P4P, and IRL)? A new hobbyist might feel like a "kid in a candy store" at times, and feel compelled to "test the waters" a bit, but on the other hand, knows he had a "sure thing" at the beginning. So, when you started hobbying, what were some of your deciding factors as to what avenue to go down? Do you take your chances, and play "Russian Roulette" with someone that might not be compatible (personally, sexually, and financially. Yes, I'm referring to the gargabe on CL), or go with what seemed to work in the first place, and enjoy an increasingly more intense GFE? I'm kinda on-the-fence too about this, and as I've stated before, I'm not Rockefellar, and can't afford to go throw away my hard-earned dollars on all the flakes, and sketchy, so-called "reputable" providers I've been looking at, and I'm really not experienced enough to know the difference anyway. "Playing the field" can be quite a frustrating experience at times, when you find yourself constantly comparing them to your first.
So, what's a new hobbyist to do?
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Yes. I think if you are seeking out a true GFE time then it obviously makes sense to visit the same provider more than once. I've always had a better time on second and third sessions as the provider and I get more comfortable with one another and learn about each others' likes and dislikes. That said, I do enjoy sampling new providers from time to time. I guess I'm kind of in the middle--I like repeating but I also like trying something new.
So, do you find that a provider will actually remember you? I'm not just talking about your face, but your likes, dislikes, quirks, fantasies, preferences etc. How many times after seeing the same provider, did you notice a sense of "compatibility"?" If you had an exceptional time with a specific provider, do you find yourself compelled to return? What about for a new hobbyist with limited experiences (P4P, and IRL)? A new hobbyist might feel like a "kid in a candy store" at times, and feel compelled to "test the waters" a bit, but on the other hand, knows he had a "sure thing" at the beginning. So, when you started hobbying, what were some of your deciding factors as to what avenue to go down? Do you take your chances, and play "Russian Roulette" with someone that might not be compatible (personally, sexually, and financially), or go with what seemed to work in the first place, and enjoy an increasingly more intense GFE? I'm kinda on-the-fence too about this, and as I've stated before, I'm not Rockefellar, and can't afford to go throw away my hard-earned dollars on all the flakes, and sketchy, so-called "reputable" providers I've been looking at, and I'm really not experienced enough to know the difference anyway. "Playing the field" can be quite a frustrating experience at times, when you find yourself constantly comparing them to your first.
So, what's a new hobbyist to do?
you met someone that gave you a good experience... so if you want to experience someone new, ask her if she can make a recommendation.
most of us are happy to do that and in fact normally we have a few other girls we frequently "trade" clients with.
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Yes. I think if you are seeking out a true GFE time then it obviously makes sense to visit the same provider more than once. I've always had a better time on second and third sessions as the provider and I get more comfortable with one another and learn about each others' likes and dislikes. That said, I do enjoy sampling new providers from time to time. I guess I'm kind of in the middle--I like repeating but I also like trying something new.
So, do you find that a provider will actually remember you? I'm not just talking about your face, but your likes, dislikes, quirks, fantasies, preferences etc. How many times after seeing the same provider, did you notice a sense of "compatibility"?" If you had an exceptional time with a specific provider, do you find yourself compelled to return? What about for a new hobbyist with limited experiences (P4P, and IRL)? A new hobbyist might feel like a "kid in a candy store" at times, and feel compelled to "test the waters" a bit, but on the other hand, knows he had a "sure thing" at the beginning. So, when you started hobbying, what were some of your deciding factors as to what avenue to go down? Do you take your chances, and play "Russian Roulette" with someone that might not be compatible (personally, sexually, and financially), or go with what seemed to work in the first place, and enjoy an increasingly more intense GFE? I'm kinda on-the-fence too about this, and as I've stated before, I'm not Rockefellar, and can't afford to go throw away my hard-earned dollars on all the flakes, and sketchy, so-called "reputable" providers I've been looking at, and I'm really not experienced enough to know the difference anyway. "Playing the field" can be quite a frustrating experience at times, when you find yourself constantly comparing them to your first.
So, what's a new hobbyist to do?
you met someone that gave you a good experience... so if you want to experience someone new, ask her if she can make a recommendation.
most of us are happy to do that and in fact normally we have a few other girls we frequently "trade" clients with.
I've heard this advice before in the past and it is good advice. My problem is that I don't feel comfortable asking someone I've just had sex with to "recommend" someone else for me to try.
I kinda' feel the same way. I'd be afraid of insulting someone.
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I've heard this advice before in the past and it is good advice. My problem is that I don't feel comfortable asking someone I've just had sex with to "recommend" someone else for me to try.
Not always the best idea in this "cut throat" world . for both men and women
if you can get verified "without" asking another lady to "recommend" you IMO is best for both parties
I personally hardly ever announce to another lady I may be or did see someone she knew
I believe in being discreet on both ends
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I've heard this advice before in the past and it is good advice. My problem is that I don't feel comfortable asking someone I've just had sex with to "recommend" someone else for me to try.
Not always the best idea in this "cut throat" world . for both men and women
if you can get verified "without" asking another lady to "recommend" you IMO is best for both parties
I personally hardly ever announce to another lady I may be or did see someone she knew
I believe in being discreet on both ends
That sounds like the best way to go about it although I'm sure most providers are professional and realistic enough to know that they aren't the ONLY one we see. I've asked a provider to refer me to another one in the past and never had any problems.