Hi "LadiesMan", ChefHawkTut here.

From what I've been told, most women could really feel a difference when they invite a thick cock into their love den. Apparently length doesn't matter as much as thickness when it comes to enhancing the way a woman feels. Some women refer to such cocks as "Mexican dicks". Here's an example...

And, of course, clitoral stimulation is pretty much considered the best kind of stimulation so neither length nor thickness matters when you think along those lines.

Length matters because someone very long will hit your cervix and it's not the best feeling in the world.

Width however provides a sensation of fullness within and that's much more enjoyable. In some situations I have had to extend a session with no extra charge just because he was too wide to immediately jump into action and we've had to do some stretching out before the activities.

Um I know personally that 6-8 is ideally what I like length wise and that 9 or more = cervix banging which can not only hurt but cause bleeding too. (There is nothing scarier than bleeding when it isn't time for your monthlies.) But I've had good sessions with a regular who is probably about 4 inches erect. I have the good fortune of having a rather elastic vaginal in that if I don't have sex for about day, it will go back to normal. If I know a client is smaller than average, I'll abstain so that he'll be a good fit.

Doggie seems to be the most problematic for those of us who are on the larger size. I often find that when I go balls deep in doggie, the person I'm inside of will ask me to be careful. Some women seem to like it when you hit their cervix and I enjoy the sensation of having my head hit...as long as the woman isn't in pain obviously. Still, thickness seems to be more of an important factor than length according to the vast majority of women who I have discussed this with.

See, being well-endowed in the length department could actually work against you. It's all about the girth fellas.

i lick looking at and feeling a big hard dick however, when it comes to actually having intercourse, the smaller it is, the more likely i am to have an orgasm.
my ex-husband had a big dick and normally, i'd orgasm after he'd go soft inside of me.

i'm a gusher so my orgasms are extremely powerful and quite a few guys have just cracked up at me for getting all buck wild on their small limp dicks.
it's the same as a tongue you know.

i will tell you the truth that most women do talk about liking big dicks but most women dont really enjoy sex, do they ?
but there are a few, like me, that totally dig the lil wieners.
i think because sex is powered by desire, and if the dick is small, it makes you want more and your body is reaching for more and the desire is building and building and WHAM.... whereas, when you have a big dick pounding you, there's nothing left to desire.

isnt it true in life that once you get what you want, you dont want it ?
so yeah i want a big hard cock, but actually getting it normally doesnt get me to orgasm... although it feels good in a different way, sort of like scratching an itch.

further complicating this issue is a woman's monthly cycle.. i dont know about other women but the 2 days before i get my "vacation" each month, you could bus in the big cocks and i wouldnt be able to get enough.. it is seriously not safe for a man to walk down the street in front of my house for those 2 days. .... but the rest of month, i'm hunting some eds.
LOL.

this is an entry from my blog a while back:

LOST -- 1 lil crooked wiener

so ciara let me know in an email i was being grumpy and i told her yeah

well im a lil cranky

had a lil cutie phillipino boy
with a lil wiener
and crooked too

so i thought groovy

we're getting all busy and he's sporting it through the bj which hardly anyone ever does ( which is why i gotta be bangbang if i ever want to get laid - and even then it's IFFY )

then he's headed for russian/french combo and im thinking ok it's way too early for this and he's gonna lose it with a shot to the face but woo hooo look at him go -- he's riding it like a champ.

so i thought cool.. dude got STAMINA and im gonna get to go to town on his lil crooked dick which is like very rare (lil dicks are not rare but lil crooked ones are rare and lil crooked ones with stamina are like almost non-existent) so i'm REALLY looking forward to it tingling from my Hammer to my toes

he even invites me to get on top
YEEEEES !!!
YES SIREE BOB
im thinking my boobs are going right in ya face and i'm gonna power 'plode all over ya puppy

then shit goes down hill.. he dont want to stay still and let me do my thang... he's wiggling around ??? and then MOVING ME

then he wants on top and then its over

WTF ?

the person on top is the driver - except when i'm on the bottom.

I thought there was a memo ?

Interesting Freudian slip...

I have to make a road trip to see you someday.

LMFAO!!! Ana, sounds like you met your match!

For those of you feeling bad about your size...here are 13 points to make you feel better:

13. You have something to take the focus off your receding hairline.

12. It makes your otherwise-dainty hands look huge.

11. You get to have fun watching your sexual partner come up with creative compliments (God bless her) to make you feel better about your modest member, like "You're soooo hard!" "It grows so much!" and, worst of all, "It fits my vagina perfectly."

10. You can relate to women better because you more or less have a vagina.

9. Your son's penis envy will disappear by the time he hits 11.

8. Your balls look much more substantial.

7. You have a 14 percent better chance of talking your significant other into backdoor action.

6. You are marginally less likely to get your pecker caught in a wood mulcher. (It can happen!)

5. You can fit your entire chub in a $10 quarter roll and play a really awesome trick on a bank teller.

4. You have a perfect excuse to buy the new Ferrari 458 Italia, Rolex Yacht-Master II watch, or cigarette boat.

3. Smurf condoms only cost, like, 40 cents per pack.

2. Devoid of a false sense of entitlement, you will be motivated to develop an actual personality, a professional skill set, and the means to make a useful contribution to society.

1. You can write a best-selling memoir about your penis and make up with celebrity what you lack in length and girth!

oh and the reason women groan and roll their eyes whenever a guy starts talking about how big his dick is, isn't because of all the times we've heard it before, it's because we know dude isn't going to have any skills.

some men with big dicks have skills but not the ones that talk about how big their dick is because these are the guys that think that's all women want and all they have to do is ram it in long enough and hard enough....ok well really if that were the case, there would be no lesbians.

these guys tend to also brag about how their last girlfriend would have 9 orgasms every time they had sex and again, we aren't rolling our eyes and groaning because of all the times we heard it before, but because we know it wasn't really 9 orgasms (can you imagine having 9 orgasms ? omfg, i'd need an ambulance)....... ... that was actually just 9 attempts to get him the hell off of her. (trust me, i've heard this from women)

on the other hand, guys with small dicks are normally insecure about their dick size and in order to compensate for it, they'll learn the 87+ other glorious ways to please a woman.

LIL WIENERS ROCK !!!

There you go small-dicked men, climb down from the ledge...it's not so bad!

As someone who is on the larger side of the scale, I find that almost all women get excited when they see my cock so there must be some truth to the fact that big dicks are better. Even just visually speaking, it must be more of a turn on wouldn't you say Ana?

i probably wouldnt buy lil wiener porno

i also do not like to watch monster cock porn cuz it looks painful.

6-10 inches makes a great visual for me.(width/girth proportionate of course)

So everything in moderation then.

Love your posts, Ana.

BUT: I can come 20 times. in about an hour.

yeah, I'd only do that when I feel safe, because then I'm likely to pass out, often can't speak coherently and have weird twitches

For me it's really best when it's short and thick. I don't have much room lenghtwise... more than 6 inches can get annoying...
and I have a BIG boyfriend who in doggy is just not moving at all... he lets me do all the moving because otherwise it's way too dangerous... but hey, I start coming as soon as he's inside... (need to be well warmed up though).. it's all about girth.

I totally agree that the ones who are so proud of their dicks are the worst lovers ever.

I'm proud of Little Jimmy...does that make me a bad lover?

Actually, according to this article, penis size only really bothers guys when there are other guys around..."locker room syndrome"

i remember reading an article in gq years and years ago titled "pee-formance anxiety" about how guys simply couldnt pee in public bathrooms cuz .. well they just couldnt.

i thought damn, poor guys, why not just build their bathrooms like the women's.. nobody wants to pee in front of people for crying out loud, thats why we have bathrooms instead of toilets in the living room. (i hope)

I honestly think that peeing in front of people is not natural. We're biologically wired to desire solitude when we are vulnerable and exposed. I avoid peeing in front of people whenever possible.

I used to avoid it as well until my aim improved. Some people just have no sense of humor when it comes to another guy peeing on their pants.

Yeah what is it about guys getting all mad when they get pissed on? Lighten up.

I hate public bathrooms....especially when a guy decides to pick the urinal right next to mine when it's not necessary.

I have had almost every provider tell me the same thing as Ana, now every girl has different reasons, no one said it the way she did, but they all say they prefer smaller to larger dicks. At first I thought they just said this cause I am not 8 inches, but after the first few, I started seeing a genuine pattern. Some say the bigger ones cause discomfort, even stomach cramping, but a smaller one used right can let them focus on pleasure and not discomfort.

I guess we will never know for sure if it is something they say to make us feel better, so we don't lose our confidence and then our libido, or if their really is truth to it, many women prefer smaller.

the cramps are the worst in the world.. i thought i was dying the first 2 times and seriously, if i could've gotten to a phone i would've definitely called an ambulance. ..it scared me, it scared the guy...... after the 3rd time, i figured out what was triggering them because they always started one minute after the sex was over but the feeling of a cervix hit is very distinct in an oddly pleasant way.... ..so now i can adjust before it hits too many times and i've managed to avoid the cramps ever since...

just in case you're ever in this situation, i timed them the last 2 times i got them and they lasted 45 minutes and then everything was fine.

ill admit i've never had great sex with a pencil but my finger is a f*cktastic size 7 !!!!

I only know 84, what are the other 3?

Holy wishful thinking, Dr. Freud! Cracking my own self up at my dsylexic typing...should have read, "I only know 3, what are the other 84?" Decided not to edit, because - a guy can dream, can't he?

My first wife used to use this tactic when our relationship started to go downhill - all kidding aside it's something to be aware of.

She'd feign orgasm so that I would finish and get the hell away from her as fast as possible. It's sad actually, that two people could be so close together and so far away at the same time.

Geez if I don't like how it's going I say "sorry, it really doesn't work for me."

Faking it just gets you more of the same in the long run.