I suppose between her legs while your'e doing her mish would work.

HaHa...stop picking on the newbie Blake.

jaguar33063, I think you may be surprised how comfortable a quality provider could make you feel. I suggest that you meet her at her incall location and chat with her there. It's an environment where you're both alone (hopefully) and you could speak with relative openness about the things that you may have in common.

Check the reviews before you choose a provider. Pick a woman who provides a GFE if you're looking for high quality intimate conversation. Take a look at our tips for new hobbyists too: http://www.naughtyreviews.com/faq/new-to-the-hobby

Break a leg!

Not sure I really understand your question jaguar. Are you asking on where you should take a provider to get to know her better or where to go to meet providers outside of their work? If it's the first, I'd suggest a place you feel comfortable with like a nice restaurant.

well i started just about a year ago, and in my experience its nice to book the first meeting for a longer duration..go out to a nice restaurant for a drink and dinner to calm your nerves (and hers).

lets skip over that nonsense and get to good stuff.

LOL...ROTFLOL...blakeofboca there are other places that are more conducive to building a rapport with a provider, but thanks for the comic relief my brother...lol.

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I meant like you cant be explicit on the phone so I was wondering from what I am looking for and what she offers where would be a good place to do this?
I do like the restaurant idea but i guess I would have to invest in her time for that

Look at reviews to figure out what she offers.

You can't expect her to discuss specifics anywhere. You'd only get her paranoid. You can get together to see if you like her, and some girls would even agree to briefly meet you for coffee without charging for the time... but you better ask VERY nicely.

In general, the really good ones don't need that... they have enough guys who GLADLY pay for her time whenever they meet.

So your only hope is to get somebody who's inexperienced (and you can be VERY lucky that way, but also waste a lot of time)

Yep, read her reviews. If she's got reviews you could also PM the reviewer with specific questions. What exactly are you looking for anyway?

You are right Lucia...I am going to invest in the money and time and just go slow and find out if she is what I am looking and if she offers it. Plus she might know someone who does. Looks like I might have to build up my rep first.
Thanks to everyone here with great feedback. I just want to enter this world mature and not stupidly

Slow and steady wins the race. If you take your time and do things properly you have a much better chance of enjoying it when the time comes.

We advocate for PM ing the reviewer to ask about specifics and concur with much of the other advice given here-in

Things become much easier when you build up your relationship with the provider. Once you've found a few good ones who're comfortable with you the sky's the limit.

we know what you're looking for
some girls might pretend they dont because they dont want to actually give good service but trust me, we know what you want.

unless you have something very specific or odd, you really dont need to tell us anything, we'll figure it out...
but if you really feel that discussion is necessary, you'll at least need to be naked first.

reviews should be looked at as a guide, not necessarily a word for word truthful account and even if it is, that doesnt mean you'll have the same experience.

you have to gamble here... reviews gives you better odds but its still always a gamble nonetheless and always will be until the laws change.
i'm not going to jail just cuz you need me to agree to some acronym.

no thanks.
i dont do nothing.

Well said. The only acronym that is 100% accurate 100% of the time is YMMV.

Thank you Anna, we've been trying to say for a long time now that a huge element of the hobby is the "gamble" you will never be 100% sure about anything.

unfortunately for the guys, the girls will pretend to be confused about what a guy wants and use it to upsell or rip them off entirely.
HOWEVER, guys need to realize that any girl who DOES agree to the acronym, is either

a. setting you up
b. not worried about keeping her word.

example:
guys asks do you do bbbj ?
girl says yes

CAUTION
most likely, you are not getting any bj.

you could be under arrest at this point, however even if you're not,
no girl who does bbbj will ALWAYS do bbbj .. please have common sense here... there are some things that NOBODY is gonna put their mouth on so any girl who says she will is really not worried about coming through for you... .. just because you took away her "i'm confused, i didnt know what you wanted" excuse, doesnt mean she doesnt have plenty of other excuses.

most guys have learned from expensive experience after expensive experience that just because you get the agreement, doesnt mean you get the service...
it only means you are now gambling both your money and your freedom.

we're not robots... although there are some provider that are very "mechanical" and do the exact same thing for every single guy, the good ones are always going to be YMMV.

some people think YMMV is a bad thing but passion, which is the driving force in this activity, is based upon nature and chemistry and those elements CAN NOT be purchased or planned, although some are better at contriving than others... i'm not one of them, nor do i need to be.

im very lucky to be a natural born slut, (thanks mom) and i very rarely meet a man i don't want to blank.
twice.

bang bang

Exactly. And if I may read between the lines, if you are uncircumcised and don't wash that cheese out of your dick every day..you can forget about BBBJ.

Geez, some providers are so picky...I mean what? I pay them and I STILL have to take a shower???? Something's just terribly wrong with that.

I certainly hope you are kidding, but based on personal experience, probably not! Why wouldn't you want to wash regardless of whether you are or aren't seeing anyone! Disgusting.....!

No sense of humor.

Every post is an ad.

Showering is for sissies right guys?

use soap
and then scrub.
and then rinse.

all that.

you paying your wife for no bj at all so im not listening to you bitch about it either.
studcakes

not sure who you're referring to but if you're looking for a girl with a sense of humor, check out my website and call me !!!

There's no doubting your sense of humor anna.

I asked if you were kidding? No sense of humour.