Hey Jackattack.  I have never been asked and if I was I would be most suspicious.   On the other hand, if I like somebody then I don't mind helping them out.  Let us know what happens.

I had a girl once who asked me to prepay and I refused. She still let me visit her, but after that, she still insisted on prepaying, so I stopped seeing her.

Maybe a 50% upfront thing works?

Never *ever* prepay.  The only exception that I can think of is if you're planning on doing an "all-nighter" with the provider.  Other than that, stay far away from prepaying.

I would never prepay with a provider.  There are to many choices in Atlanta and to many things can go wrong where you get screwed.  If she demands you prepay for a session, my suggestion is to find someone else to see.

Just My $0.02,

Aliados

Hey, So I decided not to go with the prepay thing after all. I just explained to her I wasn't interested and she relented and said she trusted me. So I still went and saw her, although the whole experience left a sour taste in my mouth, so I might go see someone else.

I think that's a smart move Jack...

It's ok to prepay if you have a longstanding relationship with a woman you trust. For a while, I was seeing a provider who went by the name of Star every week at the same day and time. I had this relationship with her for 7 and a half months. for the last 10 weeks of the relationship, I began to pay for up to three meetings in advance, just to save me the hassle.

Guys, I trust Star more than I trust ALL of my business clients. She never dissed me and is a good friend to this day.

Why would you possibly have to pre-pay for a meeting with a provider? If you know her then it can't be a trust thing as you would have proven that you were honest in the past. If she is a regular of yours then I would say it is pretty disrespectful of her to insinuate that you would suddenly stop showing up for your appointments. If you've never met her before then obviously you aren't going to pay before you've even sampled the goods.

The only reason that I can see for prepaying is if the provider has some sort of an emergency and needs cash. Under this scenario, I suppose we would be talking about a loan more than anything else. I did this once with an ATF and I never got the money back so I personally wouldn't suggest it. It created an uncomfortable situation as I continued to see her and she would let me stay a few minutes longer here and there and I could never be sure if this was her way of paying me back. I would have taken the money or an agreed upon number of hours with her but got neither and eventually she stopped being my ATF.