Providers and Racial Preference

One of the reasons we pay for it is to be able to choose who we fuck and what they look like.  You can't control what kind of woman turns you on.  If you have a thing for Korean women then go for it, fuck em all!  I wondered if any Hobbyists have ever come across discrimination from providers?  An old buddy of mine once told me that an SW turned him down because she didn't do black guys. Reminds me of the scene in Full Metal Jacket where the Vietnamese hooker doesn't want to do the black soldiers because she says they are too big.  Either way, if you are paying for it, you should be able to choose.  Do you guys think it is racist if a provider turns you down because of the color of your skin?

Screw the guy that claimed you're a racist for preferring Asian women, so do I when it comes to things erotic.  They are far more submissive and respectful towards men than white women and are more about pleasing the man than most white women are who are often too full of themselves.  I'll turn down a white woman in favor of a small petite Asian woman when it comes to paying for something like a massage and "extras" which I pretty well limit to hand jobs.  

I second that.  You're paying for it so pick who you want.  Some guys like blondes others like redheads etc.. and that certainly doesn't make us racist.  I agree with you about Asian women too. They are generally more submissive and openminded.  I love petite women and practically every asian woman is petite and accomodating. 

As a provider, I don't descriminate.... If your willing to pay me for my talent and time, I'm willing to serve you.  I guess, by what I've observed so far in my "chosen career", most white women are bitches about things ... I guess I'm one of the rare ones that isn't a bitch.  I aim to please, If I don't please, I don't get good reviews, and therefore, don't get new "customers" ... basics of business right there.  The providers that turn men down because of their race need to grow up.  I've talked with several of my now regulars, and they all have told me they love submissive women, and thats why they come back.  In this line of work, the provider has to be willing to be her clients dream girl ... or she won't get far at all. 

The person that called you racist needs to rethink the meaning of racism, and fetish ..... you prefer asian women because they're tiny, submissive, and good at what they do .... I'm sure if you found a white woman who was tiny, submissive, and excellent at what she does, you'd like her just as much ....

And yes, if you're paying for it, you should get what you want, and how you want it.  Unfortunately, most providers don't see it that way ....

So if any of ya are passin thru Des Moines any time soon, let me know, I'll show you what real woman can do lol