This is a good question J. In order to determine which women will be cool with playing with toys or which ones really enjoy doing so, your best bet is to do your research and read reviews about them. You are right that you can't really ask about that on the phone, so you'll have to just rely on the reviews. As for whether or not to bring your own toys, I have done so in the past but just made sure they were in their original packaging so that it was obvious they had never been used. I've never tried to take a used toy but I'd imagine that wouldn't go over very well no matter how well you cleaned it. The worst case scenario if you bring a new unused toy is that she will say "no" so there really isn't anything to worry about.

Thanks for the advice man. I guess it could get pretty expensive if you had to buy a new toy for each provider you visited...maybe I'll try it once and hopefully I won't like it too much. Alternatively, I'll read the reviews and just try to find someone who has a toy box of their own.

I'd imagine that most providers are probably okay with you bringing a long a brand new packaged toy providing that it isn't some freaky type. Of course if you bring a John Holmes sized dildo you may not be greeted with quite as much eagerness!

Anyone know what the most acceptable toy would be if you are winging it and not sure whether she will be into it or not? What would be the most preferred toy by the majority of women? A little pocket rocket or some crazy octopus-type probe?

I don't want to speak for the ladies but I think your safest best would be to take a pocket rocket. If you see her once and she seems to enjoy it you could always ask her if she'd be interested in you bringing something a little bit more interesting the next time.

Yeah, the less intimidating the better to begin with and try to pick something you think would appeal to her aesthetically and not just to you.

Toys are an awesome addition with the right woman especially those who enjoy a bit of anal play. My favorite thing to do is to insert a small dildo in her ass while pounding in Doggie. I don't think I've ever lasted more than a minute while doing this as watching both her holes getting filled up is simply way to erotic for me!