She Says Swallowing Makes Her Feel "Queasy"

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I haven't been hobbying lately because I've been in a relationship that is actually enjoyable for once. I figured this would be a good place to ask this question even though it isn't hobby related per se. The SO is great and adventurous in the sack but she says that cum and even precum make her feel sick afterwards. Kind of makes BJ's impossible. My question is whether any of the ladies have had this experience? I don't need advice on what to eat or that I should wash my balls as I take care of all that stuff. I find it hard to believe that a little bit of precum could actually make her sick. Maybe she just doesn't like giving head?

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JJ - you asked the ladies and I don't qualify. But, your situation is not so dissimilar to many other guys. I know the hobbying gods are going to strike me down, so this may thankfully (to some) be my last post. A good BJ does not necessarily correlate to a good SO. Still, CBJ answers her objection, does it not? If she still seems hesitant, then you know she has a mental block about giving head and all the words and schemes are not going to change that.

If CBJ is okay and she remains "great and adventuresome in the sack" then count your blessings young man. Many of us would be envious to have such a lady. I am sure the ladies here can offer more valuable insight on the actual intent of your OP, I just wanted to share my tangent thoughts. Parting word - ENJOY!

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Sometimes it just makes girls feel sick idk if its texture, taste or what. But
its best not to read into it as if she doesn't like giving head.I think she would avoid it altogether if that were the case.
being like that can put hidden feelings of negativity in your relationship which has to come out and rear its ugly head eventually and isn't good for either of you.
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Perhaps trying a flavored CBJ may help her not feel that way?
OT sort of,
I had a boyfriend years ago that couldn't cum from bj yet he kept wanting me to do it and he made me gag the taste the everything about it just made me ill,
finally I just said No,im not wasting my time doing this for you anymore I am not happy giving you head
so go find another lady to do it and I dumped him lol

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im in the bbjwcimnsnq crowd myself of course im not the one no spitting or no quitting either lol.

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If BJ's are important to you, you'll probably either have to dump her or pay for some head on the side from a pro. No offense Coyote but I really don't think a CBJ is a viable alternative. It's one thing to get a CBJ from a provider and quite another to get one from your girlfriend. It sounds to me like she just doesn't like giving head. I've never sucked a dick before but I can't imagine that just precum could actually make her feel sick. Sounds like a bit of a primadonna to me.

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Sinsational wrote:

If BJ's are important to you, you'll probably either have to dump her or pay for some head on the side from a pro. No offense Coyote but I really don't think a CBJ is a viable alternative. It's one thing to get a CBJ from a provider and quite another to get one from your girlfriend. It sounds to me like she just doesn't like giving head. I've never sucked a dick before but I can't imagine that just precum could actually make her feel sick. Sounds like a bit of a primadonna to me.

No offense taken. I would have agreed with you had it not been for a girlfriend I had with the same hangup. CBJ (my first time with oral as I never considered putting on a hat prior to that) worked for her. Apparently, she had this phlegm or gooh-like substance mental block that made her want to gag. She was a lot of fun when she had a cold (sarcasm intended) My advice was based on the potential of similarity between OP's lady and my old girlfriend.

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I wouldn't be able to cum from a CBJ so it would defeat the purpose for me.

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HungWell wrote:

I wouldn't be able to cum from a CBJ so it would defeat the purpose for me.

HW - you are speaking like a hobbyist, not as someone with a SO. Not that there is anything wrong with that Smiling

Oral is foreplay for me with a SO, not the end goal.

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coyote wrote:
HungWell wrote:

I wouldn't be able to cum from a CBJ so it would defeat the purpose for me.

HW - you are speaking like a hobbyist, not as someone with a SO. Not that there is anything wrong with that Smiling

Oral is foreplay for me with a SO, not the end goal.

LOL. When the SO gives me the annual BJ I make sure to save up to real blast one out in her mouth Smiling

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HungWell wrote:
coyote wrote:
HungWell wrote:

I wouldn't be able to cum from a CBJ so it would defeat the purpose for me.

HW - you are speaking like a hobbyist, not as someone with a SO. Not that there is anything wrong with that Smiling

Oral is foreplay for me with a SO, not the end goal.

LOL. When the SO gives me the annual BJ I make sure to save up to real blast one out in her mouth Smiling

That is probably why it's only once a year. Smiling

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I know I'm a newbie, so please don't flame me...but what exactly is "precum"?

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Alpo wrote:

I know I'm a newbie, so please don't flame me...but what exactly is "precum"?

the little drops that come out when you get turned on.

some guys have that more, some less, some stay dry until they ejaculate.

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Precum is obviously designed through evolution to provide additional lubrication during sex. I find that it isn't always noticeable but when I'm REALLY hard and turned on I can notice it. You might not have noticed it before Alpo because its kind of hard to see when you're balls deep!

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hm well if u eat and drink allot of pineapple for a week it will help with the bad taste.
maybe she needs needs a bit more time/ practice to build up her comfort level
maybe its just not for her.

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There's plenty of remedies for the taste, as I'm sure you all know... and drinking lots of water helps with the consistency. But if it's the texture and slimeyness that she objects to, and some of my gfs feel that way, then it's really a matter of one of you making some major concessions for the sake of the other's happiness. Her feeling queasy is probably a psychological response, so work with her on that - offer to share it with her, maybe.

But don't go the condom rout. A mouthful of cum is nectar compared to a mouthful of latex.

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no precum can't make you quesy cuz even if it was that stuff that is supposed to make you throw up, there's not enough there to actually make anyone quesy.

that's her way of saying it just grosses her the f out.

a lil bit of precum is normally ok but some girls i know, do get a lil grossed if you're oozing out all over the place..... some just work through it but i know some that will do cbj instead of bbbj on the oozers.

maybe just put some kleenex near the bed and then be like, "jeez baby you got me oozing all over the place", and laugh and wipe it off for her... she might grab it and put it in her mouth, she might not but it can't hurt to give it a try.

i dunno if any of the ooze haters will speak up and say if this would make a difference or not.

normally the cbj girls are more worried about the gross factor of the ooze than the std's in it. LOL.... sorry but it's a lil gross and even though i can deal with it, i wouldn't object if you grabbed a kleenex and gave it a quick wipe.

ok don't shoot the messenger

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no precum can't make you quesy cuz even if it was that stuff that is supposed to make you throw up, there's not enough there to actually make anyone quesy.

that's her way of saying it just grosses her the f out.

a lil bit of precum is normally ok but some girls i know, do get a lil grossed if you're oozing out all over the place..... some just work through it but i know some that will do cbj instead of bbbj on the oozers.

maybe just put some kleenex near the bed and then be like, "jeez baby you got me oozing all over the place", and laugh and wipe it off for her... she might grab it and put it in her mouth, she might not but it can't hurt to give it a try.

i dunno if any of the ooze haters will speak up and say if this would make a difference or not.

normally the cbj girls are more worried about the gross factor of the ooze than the std's in it. LOL.... sorry but it's a lil gross and even though i can deal with it, i wouldn't object if you grabbed a kleenex and gave it a quick wipe.

ok don't shoot the messenger

you remember that girl in elementary school who liked to play with frogs and slimey things ?

you should've kept her #

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JennySwallows wrote:

But don't go the condom rout. A mouthful of cum is nectar compared to a mouthful of latex.

ah, found her.

jenny, would you please share with the class and tell us how many frogs you took to school ?

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anabangbang wrote:
JennySwallows wrote:

But don't go the condom rout. A mouthful of cum is nectar compared to a mouthful of latex.

ah, found her.

jenny, would you please share with the class and tell us how many frogs you took to school ?

LMFAO Ana. Thanks, you just made my day...and reminded me of a young ugly little girl who followed me around the playground to no end. Guess I should have treated her better.

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