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she wouldnt answer the door .. whats the deal??!!
August 19, 2010 - 18:07
OK so there's a provider in my area whom I've been wanting to see for sometime, but never could seem to get in contact with her (either because of my schedule, or when I would call, it would go to message). So I call her today, she doesn't answer. Then she calls back 10-15 mins later, and we talk briefly and set up a time. So a few hours later I get outside her outcall, call up and get the room #. Go up to the room, knock, and hear her come up to the door ... and she doesn't answer. So after knocking a few more times and standing out in the hall like a jackass, I leave. Get outside to the truck and call again, it rings twice and goes to message.
So, with all that being said, I'm wondering why she didn't answer. Did she peep thru the peephole and not like what she saw, thought maybe I looked suspect, or maybe she thought she "knew" me (ie: in her social life). Needless to say, I was pretty bummed out and a lil pissed that she didn't answer.
Your thoughts, and has this ever happened to anyone else?
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ive never gotten to the door and been left standing however ive been left out in the parking lot a few times.
you booked a session with someone who's either a flake, double booked and the other guy showed up first, or she didnt like your looks and decided to mess with you.
its also possible she saw something shiny on the ground and was too distracted to answer the door.
I hate to say it however most providers arent very reliable. this one sounds like a serious flake. Out her on the boards you frequent so others know what they are in for if they book with her.
Don't take it personally. Perhaps her drugs were about to arrive and you were therefore no longer a priority. Or between the time you set the appointment and reached the incall, some personal situation developed and there was someone who she wanted to see more than you.
Your only recourse is to write a no-show review everywhere you can.
Post her info in this thread and maybe she'll come on and explain herself. Maybe she did know you and was freaking out behind the door? I've never gotten as far as the door before being the victim of a no show but I've been blown off a fair number of times by someone not answering the second call because they more than likely double booked. Oh well, move on, lots of other options out there.
Your post and my reply reminded of this from years ago:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/2319863.stm
i don't know but as a provider I have had clients do this to me too and then i was stuck with a 90$ cab fee to his hotel and home.. Yes i use to take cabs to clients much easier then dealing with drivers/pimps or driving myself and getting lost.. none the less i stopped coming out to clients unless I have dealt with them before.. otherwise I have my clients pick me up and i take a cab home afterwards at least then i have less of the drama and save my money and can charge less
you booked a session with someone who's either a flake, double booked and the other guy showed up first, or she didnt like your looks and decided to mess with you.
its also possible she saw something shiny on the ground and was too distracted to answer the door.
I hate to say it however most providers arent very reliable. this one sounds like a serious flake. Out her on the boards you frequent so others know what they are in for if they book with her.
"something shiny" ... too funny. I took the double booking into consideration at first, but then why the hell give me the room number in the first place? And as far as being a flake, possible, but IDK, she does has some decent reviews for being a CL/BP provider (yes, sad to say, I do often peruse those posting, but not necessarily "use")
Don't take it personally.
OH, trust, I didn't. Unless she didn't answer because of how I look. Not saying that I the most handsomest, but I'm clean cut and fairly good looking. I also thought that maybe she was one of providers that don't see AA men. Which if that is the case, imma be pissed, because, although I am sometimes thought to be, I'm not.
Post her info in this thread and maybe she'll come on and explain herself. Maybe she did know you and was freaking out behind the door?
I thought about doing that, but it would be my luck that she does know me, and calls me out my name, although come to think of it, I don't care. And the only people I really know in my area are those i work with, wait .... hmmmmm???
Your post and my reply reminded of this from years ago:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/2319863.stm
Glad i dont have any daughters ... wow!!!
i don't know but as a provider I have had clients do this to me too and then i was stuck with a 90$ cab fee to his hotel and home..
damn!! i guess i cant complain about my 10 min drive to her outcall, cuz if i had drove more than an hour and she did that shit .. whoa!!!
theres nothing wrong with craigslist and bp girls in general. In fact most of the girls that i see come from those two sources. You do have to do a little more footwork than some other sources may require.
In your case i dunno what happened. if she has decent reviews she could have had some sort of personal issue i suppose.
I still think she ran appts too close together and had overlap or she double booked, however im cynical.
Ive never hobbied in the D.C area or id point you toward a different girl to try.
You point about maybe being mistaken for AA, or anyone else that a particular lady may find unappealing, could be true. That is a sad fact of life in this hobby. But getting pissed won't help. There are too many other ladies who don't have that problem. Spending your $$ with other ladies is the best retribution you have, imo.
well said BGA
you think that was bad.. let me tell u about what happened to me last night about 1am.. had a client contact me . he was like ok 175 for the hr and i pick u up and will bring u home.. Then we get to the hotel he was uber rough hands me the donation is was short.. by 120$ and then he was like ok lets go we walk to his car and he takes off like a bat out of hell.. and leaves me in a very rough area of town.. to bad u look up his number or his name and his home address comes up and his home number to.. not like I will do anything but don't people think about that before screwing someone over?