Some information for a newbie hobbyist?

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Hi, I've been checking out several hobbyist forums lately and I'm starting to get extremely interested. However, I have no idea where to start. I'm going to be 20 this year (though I look younger), and don't know if that's old enough to hire an escort? I know it varies between places, but like I said - I have no idea where to start. I am a young Asian male from NYC looking for some FS GFE, and extras wouldn't hurt. Any information would help tons, thanks.

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Here's a start - http://www.naughtyreviews.com/faq/new-to-the-hobby

Man, 20 and looks younger....I never even considered hobbying at that age.

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Nothing wrong with starting out young. Pick someone experienced who can show you the ropes and your future girlfriends will be in awe at your abilities. I suppose some providers may not see you as I know that they don't always see younger guys but you seem like an articulate nice guy so most of 'em will probably go for a role in the hay with you. Read over those tips provided by coyote. Make sure you research the provider in question before you see her and don't see a girl without multiple reviews until you get the hang of things.

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All very sound advice.

Given your age, you may need to put your chosen provider at ease (of course, only do so AFTER you have thoroughly researched her).

You should follow her protocol with respect to screening to a tee, offer more info about yourself, perhaps even a face pic.

We have been fortunate to entertain some very young men, who were complete gentlemen, and dispite their lack of years, proved to be very enjoyable. Our youngest so far, 23!

Many ladies do have a "21" age limit (and many are even older) but do not worry, keep searching. Start with places like here and Eros, stay away from CL and BP.

Feel free to PM us if you need any other suggestions.

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Hey YoungNYC, do you have any particular reason for wanting to be with a provider? Are you "experienced" or would this be a "first time" for you? It might be easier for people to make recommendations if they new a bit about your background (not asking for your life story!)

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coyote wrote:

Here's a start - http://www.naughtyreviews.com/faq/new-to-the-hobby

Man, 20 and looks younger....I never even considered hobbying at that age.

Nothing wrong with figuring things out earlier. I hobbied from time to time at his age...I'm just a sex fiend, what more can I say.

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Thanks for all the advice so far. I've been trying to look for an independent provider with real pictures for my first time "hobbying", and I'll be sure to mention my age and such just so there's no surprises. Been through literally hundreds of pages and still nothing yet though.

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Hey YoungNYC, do you have any particular reason for wanting to be with a provider? Are you "experienced" or would this be a "first time" for you? It might be easier for people to make recommendations if they new a bit about your background (not asking for your life story!)

No, this won't be my first time being with a woman, I'm just a bit curious and escorts are so much more experienced than normal girls my age if you know what I mean.

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YoungNY wrote:

No, this won't be my first time being with a woman, I'm just a bit curious and escorts are so much more experienced than normal girls my age if you know what I mean.

Escorts or providers are more experienced than most women my age too Smiling

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coyote wrote:
YoungNY wrote:

No, this won't be my first time being with a woman, I'm just a bit curious and escorts are so much more experienced than normal girls my age if you know what I mean.

Escorts or providers are more experienced than most women my age too Smiling

You calling them sluts? Sticking out tongue

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BigBilly wrote:
coyote wrote:
YoungNY wrote:

No, this won't be my first time being with a woman, I'm just a bit curious and escorts are so much more experienced than normal girls my age if you know what I mean.

Escorts or providers are more experienced than most women my age too Smiling

You calling them sluts? Sticking out tongue

Hey now, let's not be putting words in my mouth. I never made any such correlation. Of course, I may be running with the wrong civvie crowd. Sheesh, everyone is an instigator.

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BigBilly wrote:
coyote wrote:
YoungNY wrote:

No, this won't be my first time being with a woman, I'm just a bit curious and escorts are so much more experienced than normal girls my age if you know what I mean.

Escorts or providers are more experienced than most women my age too Smiling

You calling them sluts? Sticking out tongue

Geez people called me a slut when I was still a virgin.

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YoungNY, absolutely none of my business, but you may want to evaluate what you want out of this experience, then determine whom you want to see if anyone at all. Sex is a journey just as life is and can be an incredible amount of fun in the learning stages.

My comment is one of wondering what happens to your ability to have an exciting and learning experience with ladies of your own age if you start out with ladies that may exceed your experiences by decades.

As you may WOW furture gf's with your prowess, you might also get discouraged by theirs comparing experiences you have had in the hobby. Don't say you won't compare, we all do!

Now that I stated my MYOB, answerable part, the newbies board is the best place to start, yet if you have been to many boards, I would think you have read them by now.

You say you have been through hundreds of pages, nothing yet though. What does that mean? In the hundreds of pages you have not found a girl with real pictures? That is the only prerequisite I have seen in your posts so far.

Make yourself a list of what appeals to your interests. Nationality(if it matters), spinner or not, hair color. Shaved or natural, GFE(everyone says that now a days). Do you want incall or outcall, is age important to you, natural boobs or bolt on's and big tits or small? Once you have all that, then find the ladies that will see you that fit that criteria. I guarantee once you have your wishlist and match it up with ladies with reviews that will see someone of your age. Your list will be much shorter and the decission much easier to make!

GL, Peace!

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