Taking advantage of review sites...

So I never tell a girl I'll give her a better (or worse) review if she does (or doesn't) do something, but I generally tell the girls when I meet them that I found them because of their reviews. I let them know that I don't review every girl I see, but I review most of them. I think this sets the right tone and encourages people to do a good job. Reviews are an important way to make people accountable, I believe that the existence of review sites like this one (and TER despite its problems) positively impact the quality of service in 2 important ways.

• First they make the girls or allow them them to (depending on your perspective) care about reputation. Thanks to review sites you can be rewarded for doing a good job.
• Second they increase the expectation for guys and raise the bar for everyone.

Telling people you'll lie in reviews about them (positively or negatively) is both immoral and a betrayal of your fellow man who makes decisions based on your honest appeasements. I am new to this site but very active elsewhere. It is great to see a new community developing, Dave has clearly abused his trust with regard to issues in this very post. For the curious, I post most reviews under a different account so I can freely speak my mind without worrying about TER censors.

I let the provider know up front as well that I heard about them through a review site. It also gives them an opportunity to let you know if they want anything posted. I have had a provider ask me not to post anything.

I use a number of review sites and I am well verified on both Date-Check and Preferred411. I try to make my initial contact with ladies through those sites to that verification is easier and they are aware that I am a reviewer/verifier.

I would never use that as a "threat" to get better service, but I do let them know that I write honest reviews, I will not write a better review just to make a lady happy.

I find that ladies who take this business...and yes, it is a business...seriously, ie: the ones who are on the review sites as registered providers, on the verification sites and that participate in the message boards...are the ladies that I have the best time with. These ladies know it is a business and they really throw themselves into their work. They have passion about their jobs and they work hard to earn and keep their reputations as great providers.

Someone who doesn't take this business seriously will just change her name if she gets some bad reviews, if she even is aware of reviews. Those ladies will not be impressed or scared by your review writing warning and yet are the ones most likely to need some enticement to imporve their services.

JMTC