I think you have a point HornyPony although I really don’t understand why anyone would prefer a great BBBJ with good hand action to a standard HJ. Some of the best BBBJ’s that I have received have been at MP’s with girls who knew exactly how to use their hands while at the same time warming things up with their mouths.

I don’t always like FS and there are many times when I’d be happy to pay the same for a great BBBJ but I don’t think I’d ever feel right paying the same for an HJ. I generally go for an HJ when I’m a bit strapped for cash and just need a nice release from a pretty girl. When money’s in the bank, I seldom opt for anything other than FS or a BBBJ.

Different strokes for different folks but I’d imagine that the majority would prefer the BBBJ, right?

Yes I prefer a BBBJ but I have had some amazing HJ experiences in massage parlors. There was this one hot girl from the Ukraine that gave such a great HJ that I almost bounced off the table!

A provider who really knows how to give a good HJ can make the experience feel almost like having sex with a virgin. The fact of the matter is that with an HJ, the grip can be much tighter and therefore it often leads to a faster release. Most guys who masturbate know that it can be a pretty pleasurable experience and that you can get yourself off much faster that way. A woman who has been taught correctly can certainly do a good job as well. Still, I'll take a BBBJ any day of the week.

I am more of the opinion that a HJ is almost a throw-away.Yeah - I've had awesome ones, and begrudging ones, and messy ones that rival FS but nothing gets me poppin' like CIM BBJ. Personal preference, I suppose. I guess that's more SO expectations? But - Throw in a little shower action with the HJ and that's a different story . . .

If I wanted a handjob I'd give it to myself for free! When it comes to manual stimulation of my member nobody can do it as well as I can! For a BBBJCIM on the other hand, Santa requires a little helper.

oldsofty...... would like to agree with you , but after reading the other post, I just wanted to put out my humble opinion ! sure I love bbbjcim just as much as the next guy, but what I have found out since I have been going to amps is the following.if you really relax and get a serious sensual massage and a gradual erotic lead up before the flip, sometimes the he can be as stimulating and erotic as the bj.friends of mine say no way, but they are not into massage, sensuality and trying to relax and get the whole package.nothing wrong with stroking the goat as my east indian friend calls it , but......... I would rather have a sexy asian do it while I have my hands all over her low end ! happy new year to all !

I can see where you are coming from dog. I think this is a case where the AMP lovers are going to defend the old HE and others will back the BBJCIM. I've had a couple of great hand releases over the years but oral for me is a step above. If the oral is covered however, I'd probably rather have a manual release.

If there's a cover then neither BJ or HJ is going to do it for me. At least doggie will give me something to enjoy at that point.

Different services for different needs.

I get the clients who see me for the massage expertise. Sure, a lot of my regulars would like to DATY or get a blowjob... but they still come back.

Most just want to completely relax, let go, be serviced. One of my favorite compliments was "I've never felt so relaxed and so turned on AT THE SAME TIME"

And, yes, HornyPony... "wow, I've never come like this before" happens often.

Guys who typically look for the best GFE just don't know. Really. And don't think you have to pay more for a BJ than a HJ....

when I still had ads on CL I sometimes got emails like: "Really.. that much for a HJ?"

That's SO off the point. Sounds like a HJ is a thing that's always the same and has a fixed price.

Sorry but a BBBJ in my opinion is still far superior to a HJ.

no need to say you're sorry. as i said... different services for different needs.

I've had some good HJ's in my time but I personally wouldn't pay the same as I would for a BJ. I don't consider myself to be cheap I just think that you have to have some kind of metrics with pricing beginning with an HJ on the low end of the scale and Greek on the high end. Just my two cents.

That said, an excellent massage with a sensual release can be wonderful when you're in the mood and on a budget.

That's funny... I charge $ 200 for my massages. I won't say that works for someone who's "on a budget"

I think Oldsofty is probably just referring to the fact that MP's are usually a cheaper option in general. I'm sure your service is worth every penny.

The hand job is making a comeback

LOL, nothing wrong with a handjob!

I love a good hj once in awhile. My first experience in the hobby was a massage and release and it was ALMOST better than sex. I still see her once in awhile because she gives a great massage too.

Might just be me but if I'm getting an HJ I'm always hoping she'll move her head down and wrap her lips around my cock. An HJ is better than masturbating but it's the next step up in my rankings. My favorite from most to least would be this (with a provider):

CFS with swallow finish
CFS with finish in pussy
BBBJNQNS
BBBJCOF
GREEK
BBBJ spit
BBBJCOB
BBBJ
CBJ

HJ

HJ is more economical. If I don't feel like doing it myself and I have 60 bucks to burn there are worst ways of spending my money. If I can resist, better to save money from 2 HJs and get a good BJ.

There's a right way and a wrong way to give a hj...

LOL, everyone's different I think. I broke my right hand years ago and I had to use my left for a few weeks. It felt like a stranger was trying to jack me off! I only use my right hand and I like to grip it firmly on the base ....i like my HJ's to be the same. And no, I'm not one to cover up the "pooper". Anal play with an HJ makes the HJ worthwhile.