One of the things that turns a decent BJ into an earth shattering one for me is when a girl knows how to stimulate the perineum. A girl who knows how to apply pressure to the perineum (the space between your balls and ass!) can turn a run of the mill orgasm into a full g-spot like explosion. So the next time a girl is going down on you, have her push that area with her knuckles and wait for the earth to move! Basically what she's doing is stimulating your prostate without sticking her fingers up your ass. I'm not really into having a girl stick her finger up my ass but if I was then I suppose I would add that to the above list as well.

Hmmm,
For me, enthusiasm counts. A guy wants to see the lady enjoying what she is doing, eager. Acting like its a job, or an unpleasant chore, like cleaning the litter box, is insulting. We can get that from our wives, and thats EXACTLY why we came to a provider.

One of the biggest mistakes a lady can make is to stop when a guy starts to cum, yes slow down and lighten up but do not stop until I’m finished or I say to.

Definitely the worst.

Great list of suggestions @Sinsational - I was hoping to learn a trick or two, but instead, have a few of my own to offer:

1) Alex happens to love when I show my enthusiasm by way of humming and slurping, my eager and obvious enjoyment for pleasing him drives him wild

2) Not all guys respond or like the same things - so a lady must look for feedback, reactions, and if necessary, ask for guidance.

Some guys are not very vocal or responsive, so sometimes it's necessary to just whisper, "do you like this more, or this?"

Guys, keeping what turns you on a secret doesn't help, so please try to be expressive.

Lastly, I'm sorry but there is a large # of gents who do not DATY, so using the excuse, "WE all do yours, so you should do ours" doesn't pass the muster of reasonable logic. Nice try tho.

Bottom line, to swallow or not is a personal choice and often a preference, not all men taste as sweet as pineapple, smokers, tokers and those who frequently dine on spicey foods can be very sour and salty, to the point where its difficult to hide an adverse reaction.

Great suggestions otherwise, thank you.

Sinsational your are sensational

I kinda figured the swallowing comment would get a reaction. And I can understand the provider perspective on that one. Personally, I dont care if she swallows or spits or even if she doesnt' catch it in her mouth (although that is nice). But I agree strongly with Sin on his comments about continuing to stroke the shaft. Just putting it in your mouth is nice, but not enough. Keep the stroking action going!

Wow flash from the past. I just looked at the date of the OP. Still is a great post though. Oh and Christine, if you don't like the taste it helps to push the penis right back behind your tongue so the cum goes straight down the hatch

I have been hesitant to ask this, but this sort of ties to the topic. Been a long time since I had to worry about the cover. (still make it a point to have some handy though, just in case.) At any rate, for those ladies that do CBJ, any ones you avoid due to taste? I know, I really should pay more attention. Looking for brand and style (not size) you'd recco for a civvie encounter.

No spermicide.
It tastes like acid but without hallucinations wtf ?

I would suggest that girls make sure to brush their tongues with a toothbrush. Scrub good. Your tongue should be pink and SMOOTH.

Some guys want you to let go immediately when they start, some want you to continue working the shaft and stay away from the head, some want you to tickle the head with your tongue, so please state your preference or blame yourself if I do it wrong, I can't read minds.

There really is no one technique that will make every guy happy. I have even had guys ask me to bite down, HARD, "like you're trying to bite it off".

I think the most important part of giving a blowjob, is listening... listen to his stiffie, when stiffie gets stiffer, he's telling you he likes that and vice versa is true..... . take note.

2 Thumbs up to a BBBJ...I prefer it this way & I am a lover of a man allowing a swallow finish!!!! I want that hobbiest to enjoy how my mouth waters...

YUMM!!! Say no more!

Its all about enthusiasm and that is why some of our profiles say "best BBBJ in New England" and I agree the guys love a explosive prostate massage....)

i agree with many comments im glad i can figure out likes and dislikes when giving the bbbj. im super happy about the comments i get afterwards Awesome, Amazing, WOW, your good at this, your the best i ever had thanks so much Men if your in my area come check me out and add your comments. Backpage adds as well clintontownship 19mile

I give on going directions to the girl and I always have a great time

i have gotten 3 BBBJ and what i dont like is when she stops blowing too soon to start doing a hand job to finish the last 5 seconds.i asked to cum in mouth and keep going,she said ya,but ate too much that day..other than that BBBJS are the best thing in the sexual doings

Honestly I like a playful girl that uses a bit of post orgasm torture. Just keep going til I actually beg you to stop.

I don't think I have ever told anyone, "I will blow your mind". What if I didn't and someone was disappointed because they expected so much more? So I've never made promises I couldn't keep but I am told that I've blown a few lol! I loved reading this because I think of all my encounters thous far and I can't help but feel my panties moisten with the overwhelming pleasure of knowing how happy I've made so many men! x) Gosh I'm so blushy blushy now! Men do need to be more direct when a woman is giving a bj! I don't like a guy DATY when he doesn't know what it is he is doing, I give direction when needed!

Sometimes we don't know what directions to give. As one who never experienced completion from a BJ until just recently, I really didn't know what to say to get there, still don't as that is just a blur now . Like you, we can give advice when it isn't good, but coaching good to great - not an easy thing for me at least

I love giving a man a bj it just turn me on and it shows in my performance but i never claim to be the best. That is where my website helps i have a teaser vid so hobbyists can get an idea for themselves what i am able to do for themselves. I like it when a man gets into it as well and talks dirty to me and give me directions on how he likes me to satisfy him. As for cbj that is why they have flavored condoms that i try to always keep with me cause the taste of condoms is nasty i just wish the golden seal would come out with flavored condoms as well.

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Momma, I went to your website to check out your vid. Unfortunately my malware blocker threw up a warning, meaning the site tried to send some sort of virus to my laptop. I know you don't personally manage the software or server so I certainly don't hold it against you, but thought you would want to know. And any others who dont have a good malware blocker may want to reconsider.

Well with a woman I am told "There is only one place I really need to worry about"

And what I mean is, do you like your balls played with more then the shaft? Stuff like that. Nothing hard just some clue. lol

I personally like lots rolling of the tongue around the head with every back and fourth motion The rolling of the tongue around the head drives me wild and makes me cum harder

There are few who know how to do it right. Those that do, know who they are. Bless them all!!! giggidy

Claire,
All three time we were together your BBBJs were GREAT. I don't recall any directions from you on my DATY.

Thanks for letting me know i just sent my provider an email

Seductress Juanita
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Thank you honey! And you didn't need any direction! I was blown away from your skills!

One thing that every single one us can do is always remain open minded and willing to learn. I love exploring a new cock, slowly tantalizing every possible crevice, paying close attention to the responses given, like little gifts-or clues as to what he likes or doesn't like.I have practiced deep throating to the point that I don't have a gag reflex so I can use my throat to squeeze the cock as it is buried deep in my throat.I had a gay man teach me the lollipop lick-you lick from the balls to the head and back down again.You can slowly repeat this and he will cum a lot sooner then you might think lol.I also love to lick EVERYWHERE and I sometimes ask them what is their favorite nursery rhyme-giggling as they stutter and choke. Then I hum the rhyme with their balls sucked into my mouth lol

And where can one locate you?

That's a pretty solid 1st post right there!

Pretty amazing if it holds true also.

I love a woman who possess the art of fellatio. Not many who truly love cock in their mouth/throat. I'm ALWAYS on prowl for that one lady who fits that. Safe or unsafe, bbbjtcnqns is where its at. I'll be sure to spread the word fellas, if I find her.