1. A CBJ is simply nowhere close to as good as a BBBJ. If for health reasons you don’t perform BBBJ at least make sure to drink a lot of water beforehand so that you’ve got plenty of spit to lube up the latex with
2. While a bit of teasing is nice, don’t spend too much time being sensual and giving love pecks all around my Johnson or I’ll start to lose interest. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be playing with the boys but your mouth or hands should always be taking care of the shaft.
3. Watch the teeth!! While some women can get away with a hint of tooth scraping this is generally not advisable as it hurts us—think about it for a second, you are using the sharpest part of your body to play with the most sensitive part of ours.
4. Its true that the head of the penis is sensitive but probably not as sensitive as you think. If you’ve ever seen a guy jerk off you’ll notice that he doesn’t only focus on the head so make sure that you open that throat up and pay attention to the entire shaft. If you really can’t take the whole thing in your mouth, use your hand!
5. Move up and down—This is probably the best part of a BJ. Just the site of watching a woman bobbing up and down is enough to make most of us explode.
6. While bobbing, don’t be afraid to use your hands to play with the boys.
7. Eye contact—this goes hand in hand with bobbing up and down. We love it when you look up at us with those slutty eyes while your lips are working their magic. The best BJ providers are the ones who get this and look up the whole time.
8. Show some energy and emotion—this is kind of a difficult one to explain but the most important part in a good BJ is that you really put your energy into it. Maybe you could get yourself excited by playing with your pussy while you suck us off?
9. While jerking off, gently lick and suck the balls and remember that some of us guys really dig a bit of salad tossing but that some don’t. Venture past the balls and gauge the reaction, if a guy flinches just move your attention back to the boys.
10. Finally, we go down on you and we love to slurp up your fluids so grin and bear it and swallow down ever drop!