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So I went all week not hearing from the provider in which threatened me, and which took my business card...she wanted additional fees which were not agreed upon...She just sent me a text that said "I will be at you job on Monday, u raped me im in it alone"

Should I be worried...I work like an hr and a half away from this provider....

I feel she is just trying to scare me...any opinions would be appreciated..

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this is why you never let a girl near your wallet ever. i honestly doubt she will show up at your work if it really is that far away.
she thinks your an easy mark because of the way you rolled over when she decided to jerk you around. this is why you should naver pay extortion because like the old saying goes "once you pay danegeld you never get rid of the dane" she sees you as an easy mark.

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It sound like typical extortion, start of small to see if you are willing to pay even though you know it is not right, and then go for the big bucks. just don't budge. You may want to get her served with a restraining order, if she trys to go to your work or home adress then you can have her arrested. I am willing to bet this is not her first time doing this to someone, she probably has multiple complaints or reports against her. You don't have to admitt to the illegal side, chances are if you don't tell them, she won't either.

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I am sorry gentlemen, not defending or accusing anyone, but something really does not sound legit about this whole situation to me ....

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see his earlier thread, the chick tried to roll him because he looked like an easy mark. her ad should have sent him running but he didnt do any research and now hes finding out why we fellas always research everyone we call.

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Call the cops, or at least tell her that you have. She's betting on the fact that you are too worried to get LE involved. IMO, this has become serious. Whatever you do, do not give her anything else because this will become a never ending story.

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moebius8 wrote:

see his earlier thread, the chick tried to roll him because he looked like an easy mark. her ad should have sent him running but he didnt do any research and now hes finding out why we fellas always research everyone we call.

Did. You right ... WHY people respond to ads like that boggles my mind. With ALL the research tools you gentlemen have at your disposal these days ....

If I were to book someone I know I would research the bejeesus out of the prospective date LOL

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Sensual Lina wrote:

something really does not sound legit about this whole situation to me ....

LOL...ROTFLOL...Sensual Lina offering sexual services f/$$$ is not LEGIT to begin with...lol.

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Hotcock, I want you to go buy or rent the movie made in 2005, titled DERAILED, it will open your eyes to the type of thought process and behavior like the female you are having problems with is using. Derailed, is about the same thing, starting off small, and then using fear to get as much out of you as possible. If for no other reason, watch it for entertainment value. I think it had Jenifer Aniston in it.

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So, did she show up at your job?

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Thanks for the suggestion Turtle..I will def have to do that..

And no she didnt...My opinion is she sent me that text to try and scare me to see if I would send her more $.

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Live and learn, your not likely to end up in this situation again, for now you know where it will go. You lived, and learnned.
Another good reason to read as much as you can about providers before meeting them, to get an overall idea, and if applicable, learn from others mistakes, as some will now learn from yours with the provider you saw.

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Kaden K wrote:
Sensual Lina wrote:

something really does not sound legit about this whole situation to me ....

LOL...ROTFLOL...Sensual Lina offering sexual services f/$$$ is not LEGIT to begin with...lol.

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Hon, cartoon avatar truly matches the maturity level Smiling

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If she does show up, all you have to do is deny, deny, deny. For all anyone at your office knows, she got your card from another john who dropped the contents of his pockets when he dropped his drawers.

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Sensual Lina wrote:

Hon, cartoon avatar truly matches the maturity level Smiling

Sensual Lina you seem to be oversensitive. I am starting to believe that you wear it on your sleeve. You obviously need to grow an extra layer of skin.

If my post offended you in some way, then my humble apologies.

Now that we patched things up, let us hold hands and sing Kumbaya Smiling

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Kaden K wrote:

Sensual Lina you seem to be oversensitive. I am starting to believe that you wear it on your sleeve.
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Actually my skin IS very sensitive ....especially when touched just right Eye-wink and apologies accepted

*murmuring Kumbaya with Russkie accent*

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2wheels2fun wrote:

If she does show up, all you have to do is deny, deny, deny. For all anyone at your office knows, she got your card from another john who dropped the contents of his pockets when he dropped his drawers.

Exactly. "I've never seen you before, please get out of here or I'll call security".

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Glad to hear that you didn't give in to anymore of her harassment.

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Yes its the end of the work day on Tues. and she hopefully got the point...I cannot thank all of you enough for your help...I have truly learned so much from this!

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