Thanks for being so open George. It sounds like you're pretty down on yourself and I don't think you should be. You say you're an older guy who doesn't look his age so that's certainly something you've got going for you. My advice for you would be to look for more experienced providers and not the kids who advertise on Craigs List. I've heard on this very forum countless times, from countless providers that they enjoy the company of older men. As long as you focus on established providers, I think you'll find they are happy to see you. When you contact them, don't send them a big long email but you could briefly mention your age and penis pump requirement to them. I'm surprised none of the providers have responded yet. Ladies, would you have a problem spending sometime with this nice guy?

Nobody I know would have ANY problems - and some of the Tantra instructors and tantric masseuses have a lot of experience with ED.

One of my best friends has several clients who have to use pumps and she only mentioned it once as if it's the most normal thing in the world.

I see a lot of clients who have ED and just don't want to deal with the pressure of having to perform - they schedule with me because it's obvious that I don't do FS and that sensuality is most important thing about my sessions.

georgewxxx,
My suggestion to you is to contact a small handful of reputable providers via e-mail in your area. Give each lady a breif synopsis of your condition along with some sincere reasons why you wish to meet with them. It would be helpful if you used humor and kept your message upbeat. If you are impressed with her reviews or if you feel she has pretty eyes or great legs, tell her so. Repeat the process until you are successful.

In regard to the screening process, you might consider first seeing a non-FS provider. Later, you might use her for a reference (ask first). It is not a crime to be retired. Girls are simply skiddish of being busted by LE or being hacked to pieces by a serial killer.

The response or lack of response to your e-mail should be very telling as to the character of each provider. Gentlemen such as yourself are one of the most significant reasons why the escorting profession exists in the first place! Amazingly, there are some providers who can afford to turn down new business but a compassionate one with a good head on her shouders is the type you should see. This is a self-correcting marketplace.

Good luck to you and I look forward to reading your first review!
-donnydark

Great advice, Donny.

Hey George,
I hear you.
I am 66 and have had ED problems since my early 40s due to a deep seated prostatitis infection that took a smart doc to get rid of it. So there is some nerve damage. So far ED meds have been working to a point Cialis works pretty well, and Also Viagra super active. I buy these online.
In the event I fail with these, I would consider an implant. Some, especially the inflatables work very well. I read with great amusement in one of the "Dear Abby" type letters that a man was driving his wife crazy after his implant because he was always ready morning, noon, and night. There is no failure to perfoem with an implanted device. I might be a viable option.

Luckily I'm of good health but I did have ED (psychological reasons) for a few months when I was younger. It was very frustrating but I was eventually able to work it out with a few very understanding and hard working providers.

Best thing to do with some is after you explain to them either use the pump yourself like after a shower or somehow make it part of the game. It depends on how long it is effective. Good luck.

Oh and regarding the references I never figured that out.
There are plenty who do without the references and there are ways to phony one but avoid those 411 sites - just rip offs.

I am an older hobbyist that also has problems with ED. Viagra also did not work satisfactorily for me. But what did was a self injected ED drug referred to as Trimix. It worked well. Libido or not it is entirely local and will give you an erection come what may for a few hours. Desire is not required. What more could you ask for! See a Urologist and talk to him/her about it. It might work for you too.