I think it's racist straight out. Maybe they think black guys have bigger cocks? Let me tell ya ladies, if that's the issue better look out for me

There could be many reasons why she wants white men only. She might have had bad experiences with other races, or just simply prefers white guys. It may be more of a turn on for her to have white meat. I think it's good that she is able to pick and choose who she wants to play with. I know there are men out there who are just as picky as this woman is, so don't get offended if you're not everyones cup of tea....I know me and my hubby aren't, but that's fine with us.

So you're saying she's racist. Just because she had a bad experience with a Black guy doesn't mean that all black guys are bad. I wonder if she'd turn down a call from our President?

This is a business and people have the right to refuse service to anyone. The whole world is prejudice/racist. Put it this way, those who prefer blondes, brunettes, Christians and Jews...are they prejudice? What about those who prefer curvy/heavy women over thin women....prejudice? Like I said, we are all somewhat prejudice/racist so we can't get offended.

Call her what you want, who cares?

This is a personal/intimate service and the provider should be able to have parameters as to who she sees and doesn't see. Let her have fun with her white companions.

Businesses do not have the right to refuse someone service based on the color of their skin. Sure the whole world is prejudiced but that doesn't make it right. I don't like racism because I thinks it's for uneducated fools so I guess an ad like that kind of gets under my skin.

So your racists against racists? I'm just kidding, seriously!

How is her preference different from a hobbyists preference? I see a lot of posts from guys on here that say they're Looking for an Asian provider, etc. - so why all of a sudden are we pissed at providers who mention a preference?

I said it before and I'll say it again: That's bullshit. People dig what they dig. You're libido can't be racist...

Well said globalmacro2012!!

My suspicion is that it isn't a preference based on what type the provider desires, it's a preference based on fear of a Black stereotype.

I have yet to see a provider ad which states: "Black Men Only"

I doubt the ACLU is going to be coming down on prostitutes who aren't racially diverse. Wal Mart can't refuse to serve a black customer but an escort certainly can and she doesn't need a reason. So she's either racist, she's afraid of black cocks or maybe she just finds white, asian and latino guys more attractive. Go to any personal's site and I guarantee you'll see an abundance of ads from women that say black men only. Telling someone to fuck a particular person is more offensive than that person saying they don't want to fuck them.

I've never come across an ad that says "for black men only". A hobbyist is able to be picky because he is the one paying for the service so he can choose what he wants to buy...just like a WalMart customer. On the flip side, a provider is offering a service, so if she is choosing who she will serve based on race she is obviously a racist.

What about the ones who don't swallow? What would you label them?
A woman is squeamish about whatever she happens to be squeamish about. I see not wanting to sleep with black men as the same thing. It doesn't mean they are racist; in fact my SO provider has a few black friends, she simply doesn't wish to sleep with them. I wouldn't call her racist. She also doesn't like to swallow
If the roles were reversed, my ad would say no fat chicks. I have plenty of heavy set friends, yet thinking of them naked is a major turnoff.

A very short definition of racism is when someone believes that they have more rights or who are more superior than another. So for those hobbyists who believe they have more rights to be picky over a provider right to be picky...where do we put them? And since when has attraction for a person fall into being a racist? The beauty about being an American is that we have the freedom of choice. Her choices aren't necessarily hurting anyone. I think its fair that she is able to choose who she brings into her bedroom. It's her personal choice.

Also, if you want to see ads that seek only "big black cocks" from white women check out Adult Friend Finder.

I call the Better Business Bureau when a provider places an ad I don't like. I also go out of my way to find something to bitch about and pretend I got my feelings hurt. So, I really feel for you.

Her body, her rules. Any women has the right to say "no", or "yes", to whomever she pleases. I've seen ads that place restrictions on race, age, and weight. Even the rate a woman charges is a restriction of sorts. So what? If you don't like it, go to the next ad. The fact that a little money changes hands affords no hobbyist any special privileges.

i mean come on if your providing "services" you really dont have the right to be picky. I agree she is racist or she just cant handle black meat. But being picky is not really an option is this economy. She better make her money where she can.

I understand where you are coming from. I think some people just get a little caught up in the fact that it is 2009 and people are still being discriminated against due to their race. Still, it's your body so do what you want to it I guess.

It kind of blows my mind that so many people are talking about these providers as though they're running delis. Despite the fact everyone here supports prostitution in one way or another (one assumes) the fact remains it's a very underground business. It's sex for money and most of society heaps scorn upon it. So to try to apply these standard rules of polite society onto something that would get any of the parties involved arrested is silly. It;s like the people who go to the cops when they get stiffed by a drug dealer, it's stupid.

This woman may very well be racist. If that's the case, then it's her deal. She lives with that, it's her ignorance, but what's the discussion? She should not be racist? Sure, we can agree to that, I guess. She should fuck people she doesn't want to fuck because it's a service industry and you don't have a right to discriminate? Come on.

Hi Ian. ChefHawkTut here.

1. Underground? It's on Craigslist and in every city paper in the USA...It's also legal in many countries and in a couple areas of the USA.

2. Comments like this irk me. How do we expect sex work to be regulated and legalized in more areas if we, the clients and the escorts, treat the business as if it is immune to ethical scrutiny. This is a legitimate discussion from the perspective of both the sex worker and the client. I, for one, feel that a provider who advertises "no blacks" is stereotyping and is actually putting herself at more risk because she believes that a white client might be a "safer" client. The Craigslist killer was white.

I'm not really sure where I stand on this. I kind of agree with both sides of the argument. Sure, racism is bad but it's also true that women are the owners of their bodies so who are we to tell them what to do with them. It's a shame that black people are still portrayed negatively in our society...just turn on the news for your daily fill of bad black men robbing corner stores, participating in high speed chases etc... The majority of the Black population is educated and middle-class, not sure why we haven't seen any of that in the media since the Cosby Show.

I dare any provider, or any human being for that matter, to turn away this man!

LOL, or this man for that matter:

I'm sure they do that to discourage the stereotype gangbanger from trying to pay a visit. I bet if you were an educated black man and you called any of these providers they'd have no problem seeing you...unless of course it's true what they say about black men's dicks.

But, in our society, it is not legal still. So it is underground. Tons of people smoke weed too, but it's still underground insofar as it's not allowed. I fully realize the prevalence and ready availability of it, I'm just saying it is not condoned. So there is no legislative committe who can come in and say do this or do that, it can't be regulated so we can't assume to impose rules.

To look at it from a different point of view, however, does it actually need to be racist? And make no mistake, I'm positive there are racist providers out there, but can it not be preference? Prostitution is not a business like any other business. It's not a hair salon or a mini mart. It involves a degree of closeness and comfort with another person that you will never, ever have in any other business, legitimate or otherwise, ever. Isn't it fair that a person who, to be blunt, is letting you fuck whatever holes in their body you so choose, has some say in exactly who gets to fuck them?

If you're looking to pick up in a bar, are you wrong to only focus on blondes? Redheads? Women with big breasts? If you are really attracted to big breasted redheads and you just feel no attraction to a brunette with a petite frame, that's simply your choice. But we're saying when cash is involved, it's no longer a choice. A prostitute, to be ethical (ironic as that sounds), must fuck whoever pays. But isn't that the exact opposite of ethical? That's debasement. That's rock bottom, the absolutely lowest you can go, doing whatever, wherever, simply to get money in your hand. If prostitution ever does become legitimized the one thing we must do is respect the providers themselves, and their wishes. Imagine a world in which prostitution is legal, is regulated and policed like any other business, in which we force women against their will to have sex with people for money. That's utterly and completely fucked up, it's like business rape.

You can't regulate thought and we all support freedom of speech. We are all free to believe as we choose. Even racists have a right to their beliefs. We can try to educate them and change their views, and we can impose rules if their beliefs become hateful and dangerous, as well we should, but an escort saying "no blacks" for reasons of racism or simply personal preference should not have anyone else's views imposed on her and should certainly not have to fuck anyone they don't want to fuck, that's horrible.

Kudos Ian, You managed to say what I've been trying to say all along. This is intimate business like none other, it cannot be forced into the sterile comparisons of walmart or mcdonalds.

If prostitution were ever legalized, it must respect the wishes of providers themselves, That notion may in fact be one reason the right holds it's position is out of fear of the slippery slope that if legalized, it would evolve to regulation and the debasement you mentioned.

My final thought is this, fellas, you can certainly tell a difference in a service provided by someone who enjoys providing said service versus someone compelled to do so strictly for financial desperation. The quality of YOUR experience in the end will surely suffer if it is required to see anyone/ everyone regardless of the service providers preferences.

Just our 4 cents

It would be interesting to see what happened if prostitution were legalized. I think Ian makes some great points but if it were legalized, prostitution would have to be governed by the same equal rights laws that govern other businesses...if legal, sorry but I think providers would have to take it in any hole from anyone who chose to see them. I don't agree with it but I don't see how the law could rule in any other way.

I think nobody would see an issue if the ad said: "Sorry I can only meet with guys who I find attractive, please send a picture."

Probably many would say it's bad for business, but if it's just a fun little thing on the side, everybody would understand.

There's always an asshole who ruins the fun for everyone else. Yesterday I read an article about a dickhead lawyer who sued the San Diego Padres because they gave out free sun hats to the first 7,500 women to generate awareness for breast cancer. The guy sued and one claiming discrimination against men.....so, welcome the USA Lucia....sure you still like it here?

LOL well my point was that yeah, she sure it racist. I don't believe it's about who she's attracted to - I think she won't turn that fat old white guy away if he shows up in a shiny new Benz.

And yeah, I still like it in Florida. I like not having to deal with winters.

There are assholes everywhere... and lots of idiot neofascist racists east of where I'm from. You always have to pick and choose who you want to spend time with.

i get off on the asian dicks the most, but sometimes have a problem with the black dicks so i guess my HAMMER is racist but i meet guys regardless of race.