Abby just texted me.. she had MAJOR phone issues and was very apologetic. I guess crap happens to everybody. She seems sincere and I will take her at her words

Baby, believe me ,,Things do come up. Not only do we love what we do , it is conviemient when you children at school.. Or a bartender an called in for wk. etc ... It works both ways... Honestly we would'nt break our dates on perpose... We have family to take care of.Bills to pay....STAY SAFE..XOXOOOXOXO ..if it happend over an over is when I would wonder..

I am sorry this happened...As a fellow provider, I know what it is like to have something come up last minute and that means the appointment can't be made. We are human as well and trust me, we have had our fair share of no call/no shows. Which we do hate, but it's life...I am sure she will make it up to you hun

I followed the line of advice here. Stayed in contact. Purchased her a gift (I let her know because I needed her sizes). Got a confirmation at 11:30 for a 4pm appointment. Drove 3 HOURS... and again NCNS. Nothing, radio silence. She had been very cool at texting and getting things set up. BUT THIS IS THE SECOND TIME. She is totally inconsiderate and has burned thru my patience. I will post reviews everywhere I can to warn others that she now has a record of FLAKING on he prospective customers. Let me know if I am off base here.

I took the above advice and scheduled again!! She texted and confirmed our appointment and I drove 3 hours for ..... wait for it..... another NCNS.. Be warned she will flake on you. NR will not let me post a review of this incident because "i never saw her so I have no interaction".... total bunk. Be warned.. NCNS FLAKE

Thanks I was thinking about contacting her not now

I have had Abby flake on me as well. She is a free spirit and has her own way of doing things. If you can see her, it is worth the trouble. She is hot and knows it. There are plenty who will keep trying to see her. I angered her by saying she had flaked on me so I am sure I am banned. Good Luck next time.

i have a feeling that this is a recurance with her. If that is how she does biz then so be it. I think we have to let other hobbiest know that she may flake. It's too bad she was upset that you SAID she flaked... but doesn't seem to care if we are upset that she DOES flake!!

Karma...

I'm here to tell ya, Abby has never flaked on me or no called no showed... the only thing is that sometimes it takes her a while to get back with ya, and that I imagine is that she is just busy. If you hear from her and you have something solid, I'm willing to bet she will be there. Oh and when she is there, hold on.. cuz she loves what she does.. Abby is worth all of the effort and I'm afraid she will move away or realize that she could make more money elsewhere..

Well, I have to tell you, I'm not sure what to make of Abby. I met her once and we have a very enjoyable time. I was thinking of making fairly regular appointments with her after our first experience, but not anymore. While she seemed to be wide open with her scheduling and excited to see me, she then had something come up at the last minute when we had plans Sunday night. Ok, well...I thought we'd reschedule. We made plans again for tonight and everything was all set with plenty of communication and then NCNS! What a disappointment. You would think that providers would want some solid regulars, but I'm not sure with her. It's a shame, but I certainly wouldn't do business like that. I am new to the hobby but if this is what it's all about I'll gladly stop wasting my time. I've never tried so hard before to give away so much money and been so unsuccessful. If only the IRS was like this!

Bufpiz she flakes once and you buy her a present the second time? You are a nicer guy than I am! Did you get a text confirmation before driving 3 hours? Thanks for the info, will be in Indy in a few weeks anyone have any suggestions?

I have been trying to make a date with Abby the first time I text her she got back with me pretty quick then she text me at 1 am in the morning and I was half asleep in my bed and heard my phone so I text her back and she flaked wanting to know why I was up so late she got very rude to me accusing me of something that I could not understand what she was accusing me of I have been in this hobby for over a year and every provder that I have seen tells everyone I am a good guy and generous I have never had this experience with any provider that I have had a date with I tryed to text abby again but no reply she does not know what she is missing.

I have given up on Abby too. Texted her many times an can not set it up. I suppose she has more than she can handle. I am dissapointed.

I absolutely got a text confirmation.. including the hotel to call from for the room number. As far as I was concerned, that text was enough of a confirmation to make the drive. As for the gift, it was actually purchased specifically for her for the first time we were to meet (she flaked) and since it was specific to her size.. I just kept it and told her I would give it to her when we met. I did my part... communication, references, followed directions and even showed patience and forgiveness.. she flaked. Actions speak loud, from the line of comments here...I think her actions are those of a FLAKE!!! BEWARE

There are plenty of people who are very happy with me and whom I've never flaked on.
If you were ever pushy, used over-the-top SMS language, made weird or anti-passionate or any other gestures that would turn me off, I probably have flaked on you.

If you've never received a response from me, simple things like "u available today?," "can u get together now?" etc. etc. I never respond to those; I really only respond to texts that intrigue me.

If you've only been able to be verified by the "check my ID at the door" method, I'll ignore you. I get all my verification crap out of the way before we meet, because nothing turns me off more than conducting any sort of business at the door. This is a fantasy first, business second.

I'm sorry, but I'm not 100% all about the money like you probably would like me to be so I can be easy with no chase, but that's just not how I operate.
I'll openly admit that the first time will either be really easy, if I'm excited to meet the prospective suitor. But I can also be a headache especially if you don't initiate some kind of excitable text. I do not blame you for thinking I'm a flake or for those not wanting to see me. I give kudos to those who have put up with me stalling our initial meetings. Real men chase! haha just kidding. Bad joke is bad.

If I've met you before and am ignoring you, I'm either not getting your texts or I don't want to meet with you again.

Lion, I stopped talking to you because when I told you one night I couldn't get together because I was "raiding," you proceeded to tell someone else that I was "being raided by the cops." All it meant was I was raiding a dungeon in a computer game. That irked me so I've never wanted to meet with you again. I was unaware you were telling people I was a "flake" up until now, buttercup.

Tim, would love to see screenshots of me accusing you of that. I was probably being sarcastic if anything, I'm a pretty chill person and don't freak out about things like that, especially since my phone is on silent 24/7. o.O

reddog... don't be a sheep.

Lawnboy... hearts!

Love you Abby - You are truly a unique spirited woman. Anyone who gets to spend time with you is very lucky indeed.

You tell em Abby! You are the one in charge and it is your right to see whoever you want. I don't blame you one bit, you have to look out for yourself.

You all can see that a woman's scorn is severe. I will tell all of you that Abby is one of the all time great courtesans. Flaked may have been a harsh assessment. She merely took it for granted that I had any idea what she meant by she would keep our appointment if she could get out of a raid. I shared the story with a few hobbyist to see what their reaction would have been to the phrase "get out of a raid." All agreed that it sounded like a LE situation.

I really like Abby and got a little to comfortable. I had set up a weekend appointment which is not her usual mode of operartion. She cancelled the first time due to family obligations. I said no problem because I try to understand that she has a real life. The next days appointment was set, and I was waiting for her to arrive. When it got close to the agreed upon time she was a no show. I sent a text asking if she was close by. She responded that she would get there if she could get out of a raid. Now I was aware the she plays World of Warcraft. However my paranoid hobby mind took over. I had no further contact from her that night.

That is a little flaky. I asked a hobby friend whatt he thought. He agreed that it sounded like LE bust and to let it go. After a while I contacted Abby because curiosity took over. It was then explained that it was a video game raid that was just to hard to leave. The damage had already been done because I had shared this story with a girl who was looking at a duo with Abby. I told her the situation and said she could make up her own mind.

That was a mistake. I created a ill will with Abby that can not be repaired. As she clearly states she hobbys at her pleasure. If you cross her you are done. I can tell you all that I wish it could have been different. Abby was great to be with. Just put up with glitches and keep your mouth shut if you want to see her.

Many of us over the years have shared information in an effort to be safe. I don't regret warning my friends of the raid statement. If she had been taken in by LE, it would have kept other safe. Deep down Abby knows that I am right. She is just a strong woman that doesn't welcome any negative reports. This is a dangerous sport so each of you must decide if you are willing to give up safety in exchange for submitting to Abby's requirements. I jumped to a wrong conclusion and paid for it. The lesson is that you should not drive three hours to see anyone. That is a scheduling nightmare for any provider.

I have admitted I am wrong maybe Abby can take just a little of the blame.

I find it all very interesting. Time has calmed my frustrations, but I got an reasonable excuse and an apology on the first attempt, with a promise to make it right next time. Then I got a SOLID confirmation at 11:30 for a 4pm appt. and she knew I was driving 3+hours. I realize stuff happens, and I totally understand the concept of a "feeling" that there may be inappropriate texts etc. I believe I was not only a gentleman in my scheduling, but was forgiving and gracious in rescheduling. In a nutshell, that is a large part of the frustration that lead to the term "flake". It was a NCNS... I'm sorry that it happened. I am sure that if a hobbiest did this to ABBY that she would/should warn others of potential problems. All said, a bad experience, but lots of knowledge and information on the topic passed thru these threads... best luck/wishes to all.

wow, the hobbiest gods have shined on me, I met Abby for the first time about 5 weeks ago and a few days ago seen her for the 5th time. I don't really think that there's a hobbiest god, i think it's because Abby senses that I care about her as a person, i treat her with the respect of royality because i think she deserves it. I'm amazed that she's sees me on short notice, she's always there, she's always great, and I can't wait to see her again and again.

IDK what you people are talking about, i've seen Abby several times, she always responds to my texts, and she responds to me during our sessions. ABBY IS THE BEST EXPERIENCE I COULD IMAGINE!!!

Dude!!!! Your Loss!!

Agreed. Just a warning to others to keep on her good side. I truly like Abby. She is not to be trifled with though.

Interesting thread. I can understand a provider not responding to text for whatever reason, but for a provider or a client to NCNS a confirmed appointment is just plain rude.

Indianapolis is definitely a provider's market because there are so many clients searching for quality providers, but they're numbers are limited.

@Bufpiz- I certainly emphaphize with you, but I do have to ask why in the hell would you buy a gift for someone that initially blew you off? I hope you kept the receipt from your purchase! Hang in there man!

i know very little about ncns, however; I know a lot about Abby, she's not a flake. she is probably capable of flaking if given a reason to.

All I can say is guys you are lucky to have Abby. She left St. Louis and broke a lot of hearts. She is one awesome, sexy, beautiful, passionate woman who leaves you breathless when you walk out the door. Her personality is just plain cool. Abby come back!!

Hey all, I have had Abby wave me off at the wire, and I'm glad she did, I'd rather have our first meeting on her terms. PM me when you feel it, would love to meet you.

i've seen abby's pics and was intrigued. however, i just don't have an interest in seeing someone who's in it for anything other than money. just my opinion.

Yeah, same stuff, she was awesome, and then just started to flake, seems like she just turns you off and your done. To bad, I'm sure like others, she is appreciated. I have gone away thinking what did I do wrong??? Guess nothing, just was done with you. To bad, not looking for love, but really liked her a lot! She could be appreciated by all those she flaked on!