There is always the potential for a YMMV scenario with any of the providers on here or any other site, and sadly there is sometimes no rhyme or reason to it. One aspect of having a potential client not come to their door, but rather be in a visible place prior to entering, is for the provider to give the date a visual once over before letting them in. Perhaps something happened that precluded her from being there, or maybe she was spooked by something, hard to say. But ultimately, you will find there is a strong thread in the Hobby Hangout about provider safety, and they are likely unapologetic about it. Bottom line - sorry for your missed gig and lost time.

First - I feel your pain. Although it has not happened here in LA, I have had that happen before in another city - and I understand your natural anger and frustration. Not that you would have been happy with it, but you are right that it goes a long way in smoothing things over if you get a courtesy call from the provider. I know that on the flip side, I have many times had to cancel for reasons out of my control, and as a courtesy I called my intended provider back to alert them to the cancellation. Most although disappointed, were gracious because of the call.

Second - and full disclosure here - I have wanted to meet and entertain with Devin but have not had the stars aligned yet. I do know that she can be difficult to catch initially and arrange things with, but that hasn't daunted the desire, at least for me! I look at her overwhelming positive reviews, and have exchanged PMs with her on here, and I would have to say it wouldn't seem in her nature to do that unless there were good reason. She may choose to comment or not, as that is her decision. It would be nice to know that for us future first timers, there is still hope.

Lastly, I agree with the points that SFVKESEF has made, and we can't discount that some element of your exchange could have been the reason for the cancelled meeting. We may never know, but, if you get the chance to revisit and complete your intended meeting, please let us all know the outcome.

Sorry that happened to ya. I myself am always very punctual and on time! Some girls just have bad time management and lack of respect! Things may come up, but a courtesy call is always nice and only takes a minute to let someone know you can't make it anymore.

I find it's always better to take the high road in these boards, and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. We have only seen one side of the story, so while it is easy to guess what may have happened, it would only be a guess and therefore not a basis on which to make a judgement.

Cheers