If you are looking for a provider that offers her service for 40 bucks, that is extremely difficult to find. Remember that they work just like any other person. A streetwalker might offer her sevice for 40 + bucks for 15 minutes and thats it plus you run a greater chance of getting STD. I feel safer with a provider because for what i have seen, safety is a priority. My two cents

Centrifugal.

What kind of budget are you talking about Soul Disconnected? If cheap is what you want your best bet is to go for a streetwalker but that's not something I'd do. You can also find lots of stuff on CL advertising 15-minute quickie specials but good luck finding one that is actually who she says she is...I guess another alternative you might want to consider would be a Massage Parlor as the prices there are usually lower.

That's the dilemma we hobbyists all face Soul Disconnected... Quality vs Quantity (of dollars)

Well said. Anything less than 200 an hour is setting yourself up for disappointment IMO. Then again, if you just want a hole to get off in, you might be just as happy with a 60 dollar quickie from a bait and switch artist on CL. To each his own.

I do not know what kind of Massage Parlor LadiesMan is going to but any reputable Massage Parlor is not going to do any of the things that Soul Disconnected is looking for. Those of us who give actual massages are tired of being asked to become a prostitute for one hour. I charge more than $50 for a quality massage. I think Soul Disconnected needs to stick to the ladies who are actually offering those types of services, not approach those who are doing massages and nothing else. IMO, lol

Well there are many massage parlors and the services range greatly from one to the other. You can't really blame guys for asking about extras when there are so many out there who provide them. Many massage parlors say they are legit but they include a hand job in their services which isn't exactly legitimate. I never push anything but if I'm getting a massage and I don't know for a fact that they don't offer extras, I ask them. If the place is obviously completely above board I wouldn't bother asking. Anyway, I don't think you can really get upset when most massage parlors DO offer extras if you ask for them.

REPLY TO temples post............

If you ask a massage girl for extras it automatic sets up a red flag! That you are LE!

IMO However i do understand the old timers and most hobby... do not keep up to date with whats going on now a days

In Most cases now you need to come a few times and earn our trust.If you are looking for a quick rub I defiantly dont want to be stuck with you walking through my door at my regular job as a therapist.it happens every day...... My day job I get unhappy clients because i dont rub them how they want ..They came for a massage and I gave them a wonderful certified and fun ........ so am I truly to blame? I just work for the company I am not the owner........

the dont ask dont tell just dosent cut it anymore.....
In my experience Most gentlemen understand and appreciate that we are selective and dont "rub" every guy who walks through the door.

............... I have a great article i think i might post......
might help a few girls out....... common no no;s

If I'm having a special intro rate for a donation of.5 for 1hr).
You sure as hell are NOT going to get anything more than a "TOP NOTCH THERAPEUTIC MASSAGE".
I'm very very nice and often fair but Not that nice and the fair isn't until August. Sheesh!

When someone advertises sensual massage I generally assume that I'll get a nice massage and an HJ for that price. Anything above that means that I'm tipping for extras. I don't mind being upsold in that situation. Upselling has a bad name because it is a technique used by Bait and Switch specialists who advertise rates like $200 an hour and then you get there and they tell you that it's $200 just for showing up.

Yeah those types don't last long anywhere without having to constantly change numbers/names LOL

You could, I suppose get FS for 200 from some decent ladies in this area.
Why waste it on a standard massage only?
I feel for guys that fall for that up sale ploy
all to often and then complain on other forums can't do anything about it.
I don't care how hot they are without a HE for that high,
With how this economy and job market is you better change my life and do something
IMHO(just my opinion, no offense to anybody.
It kind of shows that some really are not ambitious about staying in for the long haul
or interested in forming a genuine long standing business relationship with others
(totally opposite of me because
I really do want to have some great people to see & grow with. .
I'm just saying is if I'm having a low donation special and a person comes in
and expects me to do everything under the sun including an actual healing/therapeutic massage(which I do anyway and it can be sometimes tiring work) for that ONE basic SMALL fee....
I'm not trying to be mean or sound full of myself but
It really insults me.
Not just as a provider also as a member of the other tax paying workers.
I put forth a very considerate effort on my part to help others feel better.

I did not go out on my own to make the same amount per client/hour that I did working at A parlor.
Seems kind of pointless to be coming out of pocket like that for expenses only
to get that same result (pardon the redundancy ) if we're talking statistics/monthly averages via spread sheet at that donation it's exactly the same figure even with tips(which some do not get every session.

I also did not spend a better part of half my life in school studying and taking tests & passing the to give people a "bot" experience or to run a mediocre Jack shack LOL
Sorry such a long post.

It's always best to save up and spend a bit extra to have a great time with an "un-bot" provider. Even if it means having half the number of sessions, I'm a firm believer in quality over quantity.

I AGREE WITH YOU!!!!!!!

I want to provide both quality and quantity.
I do & always have.
I'm all for us ladies getting paid what we're worth .

That's why I get VERY put off by gentlemen likeness of soul disconnected
asking for a low cost provider that does greek etc..searching lake street.
Even having the nerve to ask of us lovely ladies for BBFS @70!!!!
LMAO!,

I do hope he finds his way And stays safe .

Not true at all. There are a number of outstanding providers for 100-200. Sounds like an hour is not really what he is looking for but a quickie to do the deed. Do the research, it is out there. There are a few 150/hr ladies that are some of the best in the bizz.

Be very careful with that assumption. Many ladies simply are niave and don't know any better and then some also mislead thru temptation and that assumption may get you a visit out front for your trouble.

One of the nicest young ladies out there right here with the wild flower!

Maybe spring will bring back the purplewildflowers!

Maybe...... sooner than spring

It's been warm enough that some flowers might bloom pretty soon.
The moss on my patio has even greened up a bit - lol.
PWF is such a tease...

FYI NO offense & to each their own, But those who DO NOT offer a HE or any real extras beyond strip club standards need not apply or post to this thread.
(Hence why I see 2's and 3's for performance on another review site.)
Sould disconnected is disconnected with reality.
And I agree with ladies man there are TONS of MP's that offer above and beyond a simple HE.& U wouldn't believe how low the donation is .
Me personally says there's the door>>>>>>>> if one should do that low ball shit to me lol BTW licensed, certified insured blah blah blah has nothing to do with being legit or not.
Look at tantric larry

I try NOT to look at tantric larry but sometimes the mouse click happens before the brain in fully engaged...lol

MN is so one sided with that.
Gay dudes can give out HE's all day long and no one says anything about how many come in and out of the establishment but OMG a lady sees 4 to 6 a day and the whole neighborhood is watching like a hawk- OT sorry
I saw someone bad mouthing this site like it's a rip off yada yada I wish some other well knowns would join in

It must be because their are not enough gay men on the vice lol...
None of them are willing to try and get a guy to admit or touch or be touch by a dude .. but a woman sure ill keep getting my jollies before i finally have to report back to my boss 1 day then black mail the next lady so ive heard many times from other ladies........

Hi, I am brand new to this and I live in the Duluth Superior area. I am a single guy who is 33 and I am self employeed. I am not looking for a cheap trick, but rather willing to pay a lot of money to enjoy myself with someohne that really makes my dick get hard. Any tips would be helpful. I really dont know the ettique of this, but I would like to find a hotty tonight.

Please help with any advice.

Thanks
bandi888897

Its posts like above that FREAK me out.
No offense . My advice try an MP first then when you gotten rid of all that crazy pent up feeling
Try to see an established provider and hopefully all will go well.