you are not going to get much bye asking in a open forum on this subject,my advise to you is to try to pick one that is nice looking,check with multiple sites to verify there legit and call the girl.when you talk to her do not go into details but try to have a conversation and get a feel for who she is.normally you can pickup if there is something not right.i have seen many and never been busted and only one time did i get ripped off and that was my fault i actually got 3 sighns that it was not right and did not run when i should have.most legit ladys will post on the good sites and will sighn into there accounts often.stay away from backpage there usually desperate for a trick when posting there.i have found that the independents are the best and give the best deals.remember you get what you pay for.if you find a good one try to see her again most ladys are looking for reg clients so they can reduce there risk also

Good advice CirusIvan!!