This is a good question. Someone asked something similar in the hobbyist hangout a month or so back and I think the conclusion was that porn has had a huge influence on this. Seems like every pornstar takes it up the ass routinely making it seem like more of a normal thing to do. Add that to the fact that guys always like what they can't get and I think you have your answer.

I think that the Hershey highway is perhaps slightly overrated, but the bottom line is that it is a tight space that feels really good when you enter it. Different than vaginal intercourse but not necessarily better.

As far as the do you want to be with a shemale also comment: I assume you mean that if you could also get a particular sex act from a guy, you have some kind of innate homosexual tendency? Well, I could get a blow job from a guy too...does that mean that I desire a "she-male" if I let a girl blow me?

No what i was asking was if you are ignoring a great pussy for ass does this mean that maybe you would not mind being with a shemale or does the male part make it tabue so being with a lady and doing anal fill your fantisy.

Does it matter if someone would want to be with a shemale? Anal sex doesn't have to have anything to do with not wanting pussy, it means you want ass. If you don't want to have anal then don't, but some people really enjoy it, men and the women receiving. I'm not sure anal's popularity is anything recent either, it's just becoming more acceptable now. Doubtless people thought the same thing a few decades ago about oral sex, it was a very taboo and hushed subject but now blowjobs are second nature.

No i dont care who you want to be with, i think every guy at one time or anouther has wondered if the blow job would be better from a t.v
But then why do women charge extra for anal is because of it's popularity or it's pain. Hell i have a hard time getting through the doc rectal exsame.

lol I dont think I have ever wondered what a blow job would be like from a t.v. , I think if you do wonder then you have some sort of homosexual or bi thoughts in your head(or something else,Im not a head doctor), not that there is anything wrong with that. Besides I dont know why it would be any different, a mouth is a mouth, the good blow job comes from enjoying what they are doing.

I think anal is just popular because of the taboo nature of it like someone above stated. Personally I think it looks hot as fuck in a porno when a chick is taking a big ol whatever up her pooper, but in my personal experiences I have found it to be a little overrated feeling wise, as far as giving it goes. Some women partners do seem to enjoy it though, especially after a bottle of wine lol.

Sometimes it takes two bottles of wine

Seriously though, in my opinion anal is totally overblown. In my experience the first few thrusts might be a bit tighter and it can be kind of exciting just knowing that you are doing something taboo but after you get going it feels just like a vagina minus the wetness.

So what you are saying is most of the women that let you do it are just trying to make more money i see most of them want 75-100 more they call it vip parking. i wish a women would respond that has done this and tell me she does it for the money or really likes it.

i know a girl who likes it

she still charges extra for it

Ana
You seem really cool, i like a girl who can provide and also partake in the forum comments not just the guys point of view.
So tell me alot of providers ask for a reference and it seem like alot of the girls would not no who it is your talking about anyways
and what if you just go to M.P. then what do you do?

We suggest that lacking references, that you use a known, trusted verification site like Date-Check.com or Prefferred411.com Then start seeing ladies from there to build a reference history.

Thank You Christine.

OK back to the outher subject i take it from the info i got it is just the new thing to do anal. it has nothing to do with border line gay or gay curious.
and so the profiders know if they can handle doing this it is a nitch for them to make extra money. Man i guess i am just to much of a rookie at this i thought it was cool the first time i went into a m.p. and got a h.j. being a new divorced guy this a new world.

i consider networking to be a huge part of my job and i spend quite alot of time on different forums getting to know people so if i get a reference from somebody i dont know, i can normally ask around and easily verify if she's legit ... we verify other providers just like the guys do, website/reviews/networks.

beyond that there are several other (and in my opinion much more reliable) ways to screen a client.

sorry Ive never been to a MP but i do know that lucia melena, who is an indy massage provider likes to exchange emails back and forth for at least a few days... on the other hand, i imagine there are some MP's that you can simply just walk into anytime with a reference from benjamin franklin.

escorts dont have a policy and procedure handbook so we rarely ever do things the same way as other escorts
we have to figure out through trial and error what gives us the results we want so if something goes wrong for me today, my procedures will probably be different tomorrow.

Benjamin Franklin seems to be the one policy that is standard across the board amongst providers!

he was a genius !!!

In my opinion, I really like it... i have better and more intense orgasms.

There it is...anal is better! Karma, do you have orgasms just from anal penetration or do you require some form of vaginal play at the same time?

I thank my affinity for buttsex that I have only one child, and he was a wanted child not an "oops".

Amen.

D.

i am saving my anal cherry for marriage.

even after that, i reserve the right to change my mind and rustle up some imported a**hole for the hubby.

but i have to say you definitely scored a point there.

Will you marry me ana

ShadowCountry: I like your line of thinking. In terms of avoiding pregnancy, anal sex is safer than condoms...you heard it here first.

I'm saving my anal cherry too.

For Ever.

D.

LMFAO. Never say never. Forever is an awfully long time!

I do have them from just anal penetration, especially so in a missionary position.
They take less time than any other orgasm that I have had.

Wow, didn't realize that was possible. I thought only guys could have orgasms from anal due to the prostate.

I have to agree with the first response, anal has become popular as a direct result of the porno world making it so routine in almost all movies. Now does it feel better then pussy, it is tighter usually, but it does not self-lubricate like the pussy does, and after going in there, it makes going back anywhere else not appropriate with out stopping for a cover changing. I don't like it, but have tried it, I don't hate it either. Just prefer pussy.

I don't think anyone would allow something up the butt for nothing, even if they do enjoy it sometimes, it can be painful. I think if she asked every guy on the phone how big he was before agreeing, then to many would be scared she was fuzz and bail. If she agrees to give anal to all for no extra, then what about the man with 11 inches?

OK I tried to reply to doggers post on top, can anyone tell me how to reply directly to only one comment? I am still fairly new to this forum. I tried hitting the reply button in the gray box his comment was in, but after I submit it went to the bottom of the thread?

It will always go to the bottom it goes right down the line from first reply on down to the last which would be yours.

Capitalism at its finest!

it's possible to enjoy a job.. but if you are an employee with a specialized skill you expect to be compensated appropriately, regardless of your pleasure.

i dont see gynecologists that say, "ana your p*ssy is such a joy to look at it, i'm going to just charge you for the office visit and give you a free pap-smear" even though we all know he's a totally lucky bastard, i'm still relatively sure i'm still getting charged for it.