By your definition, "to give an receive information about services", we should post both good and bad experiences as I almost always do. What motivates me to post? I feel that this site has been a great tool but it's only as good as the people who contribute. I don't want to take advantage of other peoples' information without giving back some of my own. So I guess I live by the motto: Post, and post often!

I am new to this site but, not the hobby and I have a question.
How do you know when a provider wants a review posted and, how much of the "naughty" details do they want in the review??
Do you just ask them??

Call me old school but I don't think providers should have any say in what goes into a review. If you give them a say, then we just end up reading advertisements published by a hobbyist about a provider. A review should have ALL the details so that everyone else can judge whether that specific provider is for them or not.

I believe the providers would just like some discretion in the reviews, that's all. Not too much to ask, right?

Depends on how you define "discretion". If you mean we should leave out all the details then I strongly disagree. Reviews are the only way for us to know what services providers do and don't provide. If you take out the details, reviews just become glorified ads for providers. I don't think providers should be involved in the review process at all. Reviews are for hobbyists even though good reviews can be an excellent marketing tool for providers.

Ni hao!

I just returned from 8 weeks in China and Hong Kong. The HK MP scene is well established and competition keeps the scene lively, standardized and pricing reasonable. For great example of a well managed forum check out http://www.sex141.com the admins do an excellent job of keeping the order.

I am also a member of another great forum, the international sex guide.

I post on all services I received in HK because it is legal there. In China it is not legal so I did not reveal the name of the business providing FS (90% of China MP provide FS). I will post here but not reveal names or places as I know LEO read posts.

After having massage daily with FS 3-5 per week I am looking for repeat experiences in Tampa Bay. In HK and China the rates have fallen due to the economy so the WGs make up for the slow down with increased volume. I do not see that here in USA. I did have one "veggie" massage in Tampa (my first on returning to USA) for $75.00 + $20 tip and was hinted HE was available for $100.00 on my next visit.

A two hour standard massage in China is 138 RMB or $20.20 USD and no tip (tipping is considered insult in China). Massage with FS is 300-468 RMB. Overnight is 800 - 2100 RMB depending on age and quality of girl. As more and more women immigrate from Asia to USA it is only a matter of time until we see levels of service improve, competiton increase and pricing level off and standardize (IMHO). The amount of women seeking entry to USA by marriage or other means from Asia is inconcievable.

At $100.00 + tip a pop my MP visits will be reduced as I am not schooled yet as where I will get the best return on my investment. As I am new to the MP scene in Tampa Bay I will visit all providers and happily report my experiences. My goal is to find to best overall provider and then give them 100% of my business as I get weary of shopping and choosing.

My first massage in Tampa was excellent, one hour of walking on back and 30 minutes of hot oil (back only) with tiny towel over my bum. It may have even been 2 hours, next time will watch clock. The technician's skills were superb. Not having a shower available before or after was not good for me or for the technician, a major bummer. I have never been to a MP where a shower was not provided.

Aroma therapy is new to me, I have never heard of this in HK or China. With no reference for a standard menu of services I would hesisitate to visit unless I read many good reviews.

Mr P

Discretion" doesn't mean ommit all "details". I have seen detailed reviews that are tasteful and others that are not. That being said, I can only say what providers may prefer, not neccesarily what they get..
Also, Aromatherapy is similar to AMP's in one significant way; the end results. The means to getting there are much different. Alot of hobbyists choose AMPs due to the Steam room, Saunas and emphasis on massage. Apparently Hobbyists enjoy Aromatherapy as well, or they wouldn't exist.
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Many gentleman ask me if it is ok to post reviews because some ladies don't like reviews to be posted.
Surely you can understand that being GENTLEMAN yourselves? Surely?

I tell them sure, yes, I love reviews; and then they will usually tell me where to look for the review and that's the end of it.

Some ladies want reviews and some don't. It's only common courtesy we're talking about here.
Why would it be a problem for us to be involved in the review process in that manner?

My opinion I think its up to the guy(gentleman) whether to write a review. It will make the provider try harder to please a man if the review is negative. Whether to give details should be nice but explains what happened and what services they provide. Please don't be rude or nasty. You can give details without doing this.
I don't ask for reviews and I don't care whether I get a review or not. I know what I can do and I know I can do it good.
Thats all that matters.

Ashley
www.ashleyluv.com

I try to post reviews since I depend on them so much. It takes a while to find a reputable review site and even more time to see if the information is correct. I am hopeful that this site will turn into a free resource for us all. The good girls who don't have anything to hide, like you Ashley, should not be worried about reviews.It should only help your business with first timers and with the overly selective, like me.

With some many questionable advertising sites out there, it is easier to get burned that to get satisfaction. I will not visit anyone unless I have gotten some decent feedback. Reliable professional providers who like their work tend to show up in reviews with consistently positive comments. When they don't, and I have learned this the hard way, I do not schedule a date.